I was born in an ordinary family under the town of Henan, my parents went south to Guangdong to work not long after I was born, I did not come back once for many years, regardless of me, I have been growing up with my grandmother, that is, we 2 people rely on each other, the expenses of the two of us are also maintained by my grandmother alone, and my parents have not given a penny.
The scene of the old house photographed back to his hometown in the Spring Festival of 2021
I remember that every year during the spring harvest or autumn harvest, Grandma would go to the field to pick up rice or wheat, when she was nearly 60 years old, physically strong and idle, would chrysanthemums with the old people in the same village, or dig up various herbs to sell money, at that time I felt that Grandma could do anything, she could do anything, she would also grow a lot of vegetables in the vegetable garden, take them to the street to sell, at that time there were not many people who bought vegetables, many times they could not be sold, and they continued to take home. I remember that at that time I always had a high fever in the middle of the night, my grandmother carried me to the clinic, sometimes it was a rainy day, the mud road was very slippery, my grandmother carried me step by step and walked hard, I cried on her back, she would also shed tears, every fever would toss my grandmother not lightly, but she would still take me to the hospital to the clinic for infusion as always, the number of times I went to the hospital as a child was really a lot, in the company of my grandmother I also spent a happy childhood, and in the blink of an eye to the age of school, My cousins took me to preschool in our village, and I also started my studying career, after school, grandma went out to pick chrysanthemums, or dig herbs more and more time, often before we came back at noon to make a meal, waiting for me to finish school
I remember when I was in the first grade of elementary school, my parents came back with my sister who was over 2 years old, I was not full of joy at their return, because for so many years, I was used to the days when I was dependent on my grandmother, I didn't have much enthusiasm for them, I still like to play with myself, I remember my parents stayed at home for a few days and left, and now I took my sister to my grandmother's house to live, the family is still me and my grandmother, every New Year's Day, other people's homes are very lively, and we are very deserted, I, grandma, Sometimes the cousin will come back to celebrate the New Year together, and sometimes he will go to the third aunt's house for the New Year, which is relatively lively
Fireworks for the Spring Festival in 2021
When I was in the third grade of primary school, the primary school in the village closed down, I also went to the township to go to school, the township is two or three kilometers away from our home, I walked to and from school every day with my little friends in the village, the snow was particularly heavy that winter, once the snow was too big, and a few of my friends in the township ate at the house of relatives in the township, I went home alone, I also took a short road, almost fell into the snow cave, I saw my grandmother walking towards me not far away, she took my hand and walked home in pain. During the meal she asked me how I was going home alone today, and I said it, and then she said that when it snowed in the future, she would pick me up at school and eat on the street, and she didn't want me to go home frozen
Snowy days in my hometown in 2018
Grandma gave me all the good, what is delicious was always left for me to eat first, and as a left-behind child, I was not alone, because Grandma warmed my whole childhood with her love
08 Spring Festival parents came back for the New Year, this is my first New Year with my parents when I grew up, because my mother is pregnant again, I will definitely live at home for a long time in the future, in April when my brother was born, my grandmother was busy taking care of my brother, while also making breakfast for me in school every day, during that time she was very busy every day, also very tired, I looked in my eyes. Parents at home for a long time, and grandma before inevitably there will be some conflicts, in the summer of 2008, the father and grandma had a big quarrel, grandma angry crying, but the father did not stop arguing, and finally grandma went to the third aunt's house for a few days, the father still did not realize his own problems, I and my mother finally invited the grandmother back, because the younger brothers and sisters are still young, need to take care of, the mother alone can not be busy. When my brother was getting older, my sister-in-law would often take my grandmother to their house to play, and I also began to live with my mother, because I had not been together since I was a child, so I had very little talk between me and her, and I often went to bed early at night, and then I got up early the next day to go to school, because my grandmother was not at home, and no one made me breakfast, I bought food on the street or ate a little leftovers from the hot day at home. At that time, I wanted my grandmother to come back early, but I also thought that my grandmother had been tired all my life, and had been taking care of me, and had never gone out to relax, so I forced myself to become independent.
The longest time I was separated from my grandmother was the autumn and winter of the fifth grade, and my grandmother was taken to Nanchang by my aunt for the winter, and I really missed seeing my grandmother for a long time, and I found that I had really little time alone with my grandmother when I grew up
In the sixth grade, I lived on campus, entered junior high school, came home once a month, most of the time grandma was playing with my brother at my sister-in-law's house, I wanted to see her on Friday, I wanted to eat the food she cooked, and sleep with her to share the funny things that happened in junior high school, because there were so many things I just wanted to say to her
In the seventh grade, because our three children have grown up, our parents want to give us a better life, or decided to go out to work, leave Grandma at home to take care of the three of us, the burden of life was on Grandma at one time, and at the same time restricted her freedom, the years also left traces on Grandma, the only thing I did was to try to share some family for Grandma, so as not to let her be too tired.