Not long ago, the biggest melon in the entertainment industry is that Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng divorced, closed their eyes and thought about it, they were married for only a few years, cold online posted a marriage certificate, and cold official divorce.
"Unmarried and pregnant, Bongzi married," the two people did not have time to make up for an expected wedding, and they became ex-husbands and ex-wives cleanly.
The relationship between the two is still fragile, trivial matters are rotten and many, sweet dreams have not yet woken up, mother-in-law contradictions, parent-child relationships, all kinds of disputes come and go, and many tragedies in reality are caused by unmarried pregnancy.
When Hideko and her husband got married, the marriage house was bought by her own savings for many years and sponsored by her parents, who decorated the house for her. Furniture and appliances are also bought by parents, and after marriage, the husband pays back the monthly payment with her.
At that time, when they got married, the in-laws sent a bed, on the grounds that Ying Zi broke the plan ahead of time, and she could only marry her son when she was pregnant.
I heard that the in-laws had prepared a dowry of 88,000 yuan, and when I heard that she was pregnant with a child, I thought that it was already nailed on the floor, and my attitude changed 180 degrees. He said that he wanted to leave money for his uncle to study, and he didn't even want to take the dowry money, let alone buy a house.
Even the wedding did not want to prepare, the mother-in-law actually said, or wait, wait for the child to be born together, there is less waste of money.
When Hideko heard that she didn't want to give birth to a child without a name, she didn't know that the media was marrying him to live with him, and she was blinded.
She went to the hospital to have an abortion in one breath, who knew that after the doctor's examination, she said that her uterus wall was thin, and it would be dangerous to terminate the pregnancy when the month was older. And it is not easy to get pregnant in the future, and she is reluctant to give up the small life in her belly, so she has to give up.
In desperation, under the sponsorship of her parents, she paid a down payment to buy a marriage house, and her parents were afraid that their daughter would be wronged, and they prepared everything for daily necessities. What about the in-laws? Just symbolically bought a bed, cost around 3000, and they got married.
So much so that in the husband's circle of relatives and friends, they all laughed at her as a daughter-in-law who married in a bed, and Hideko was ashamed and angry about it, but there was nothing she could do.
In a few years, the little uncle got married, but the sister-in-law's family was very tough, no house, no bride price, no marriage, no grand wedding. During the New Year's Festival, the little uncle also carried a large bag to his mother-in-law's house, afraid that the daughter-in-law who would spend a lot of money to marry ran away.
Moreover, the younger sister-in-law is arrogant and arrogant, and she quarrels with her in-laws at every turn, often making the family uneasy.
The in-laws could not afford to provoke the little daughter-in-law who had a big temper, so they moved in with the Young Sons. Three bedrooms and two halls can still live, but the in-laws are a pair of people who do not stop.
After two years they came up with a bad idea, the in-laws said to the husband of Yingzi, to add their names to the real estate deed, saying that the divorce rate is so high now, in case it is divided, in order to fight for property, there are too many cases in court, they feel that it is safe to add their names to the real estate deed.
For this unreasonable request, Of course, Hideko refused, why? The house you did not have a penny out, the down payment was made by the mother's parents together, the monthly payment was paid by the husband and wife, the furniture and appliances were also married by the parents, except for a bed that they bought.
Seeing that she did not agree, the in-laws pointed out the trouble of Mulberry all day long, and Hideko thought that her husband would stand on her side, but she did not expect him to say that his parents were so old, they could do whatever they wanted, and follow their wishes.
It is also said that this age is the period of frequent diseases, don't make them angry. Isn't the house all family in whose name? Can't fly again, let them have fun, huh?
When Hideko heard the breath and said, just think that they are happy and let them do whatever they want, then who cares about my feelings?
Besides, the transfer to their name, the house is not the two of us to decide, according to the inheritance law, the little uncle is also entitled to a piece of the pie, when the parents are gone, the court will have endless troubles.
The husband actually yelled at Hideko in anger, saying that she cursed her parents for their short life, and also suspected of their brother's brotherhood, saying that she was an incomprehensible person.
Hideko looked at her mad husband and thought, Is this the person I want to marry? Thinking about this all day, thinking about that, is ignoring my feelings, the more she thinks about it, the more aggrieved she is, the more she thinks about it, the more she holds back, and she can't help but cry.
Picking up the child from school in the afternoon, the ten-year-old son saw her red eyes and asked her with concern what was wrong, she wiped her tears and talked about the reason, the son said: "Mom, you know why Dad is not good for you, don't you pay attention to you?" ”
Ying Zi looked at the child in surprise and said, I don't know, my son looked into her eyes like a little adult and said, "Because you are too cowardly, too good at talking, and too cheap, did my father marry you without spending money?" ”
Hearing her son's words, Ying Zi was stunned, she was not as clear as a child, but now it was too late to understand.
There is no template for marriage, but you have to smooth out your relationship with yourself. Compared with the marriage of the Bong son and the unmarried pregnancy, it is more likely to bring a series of problems.
Remind the girls to be cautious about getting married, protect themselves before marriage, and after entering marriage, they are ready to welcome a new life, and they take on the responsibility of being a parent before preparing for pregnancy. Be a pair of high-quality parents, but also carefully maintain the marriage and family, life will be better.