"Why do you have to borrow money again?" What exactly is it for? Yu Xiaohui had some doubts,
Boyfriend Li Hua began his explanation:
"Honey, my company's capital turnover is not enough, and I have to socialize, and my hands are a little tight, so my dear lend me a little more."
Li Hua's appearance of "wagging his tail and begging for pity" was simply invisible,
But who let Yu Xiaohui love him, borrowing money again and again, Yu Xiaohui all agreed, and this time is no exception.
It's just that Yu Xiaohui doesn't know that the man she loves in her heart is lying to her from beginning to end.
This money Li Hua also did not invest in the company, but all invested in the gambling table,
However, after Yu Xiaohui knew what Li Hua had done, she still chose to forgive,
And Yu Xiaohui's real awakening was forced to the door by another pregnant woman...
Yu Xiaohui was born in 1965 in Dandong, Liaoning Province.
Yu Xiaohui's brothers and sisters are a bit large, counting her parents, there are 8 people in the family.
This also led to Yu Xiaohui's family situation is not very good,
Such a hard life also made Yu Xiaohui a precocious child very early.
The hard life has not been worn away by Xiaohui's love for art,
Just have been suffering, how to embark on the road of art,
At the age of 18, Yu Xiaohui graduated from high school, and she had already grown into a big girl.
Or belongs to the crowd, the kind that can be amazing at a glance,
After graduating from high school, did Yu Xiaohui give up college and choose a drama troupe to embark on the road of acting?
Even with its outstanding temperament and super high appearance, it was seen by the leaders of the drama troupe,
At that time, the repertory theater did not have a formal stage pillar,
The moment the leader saw Yu Xiaohui, his eyes lit up.
In order to cultivate Xiaohui into a pillar, the leaders do not care whether Yu Xiaohui is a newcomer or not, and almost the roles that can be won are arranged for Yu Xiaohui.
Yu Xiaohui, who led to that period, was busy on the stage every day, either filming or on the way to rehearse the play.
However, Yu Xiaohui feels that such a life is very fulfilling, and she can also improve her acting skills rapidly.
In a short period of time, Yu Xiaohui laid a small piece of the world in the drama circle.
Hometown began to circulate "so-and-so drama club who who who, very good-looking one, you know?" ”
At this time, although Yu Xiaohui's fame is not too big, after word of mouth, many people know,
Later, "Season of Love" was put on the stage, and Yu Xiaohui was still the main actor.
This time, she finally relied on her works to spread throughout her hometown.
"The one that looks good" has also been changed to "DangJia Hua Dan".
In 1996, Yu Xiaohui began to appear on the screen, and the first play was "Emperor Wu of Han".
Is a costume history drama, Yu Xiaohui starred in "Wei Zifu", in the film and television industry began to have a small reputation,
In the same year, she co-starred in "The Age of Peace" with Zhang Fengyi and others.
The "Murong Qiu" she plays is quiet and gentle, and the inside reveals her own tenacity,
With this drama, Yu Xiaohui also won her first award on the screen,
Since then, he has made a name for himself in the film and television industry,
Subsequently, he starred in many film and television dramas such as "Burning Pot Tun Bells" and "Mirror Flower Water Moon", and also won awards such as the Feitian Award.
Therefore, Yu Xiaohui can be regarded as successful in her career, all the way smoothly,
It's just that Yu Xiaohui, emotionally, has gone through hardships, so that even now, she is still alone.
At that time, after Yu Xiaohui's fire in her hometown through drama, she not only ushered in various honors, but also ushered in her own spring.
As the head of the flower Dan, the appearance value does not have to say, on the way to and from work, you can always receive the confession of the admirer,
In addition, there are many small who often harass Yu Xiaohui,
Every time at this time, Yu Xiaohui will be very afraid, from home to the drama troupe, this road has become the last way she wants to go.
It wasn't until qin feng's appearance that Yu Xiaohui fell in love with this road again.
Qin Feng is said to be the son of a high-ranking cadre, and the family situation can be said to be very rich, and Qin Feng looks up to Xiaohui because of her beauty.
When Qin Feng decided to take Xiaohui down, he began to approach Yu Xiaohui.
Those little who harassed Yu Xiaohui on the road were also driven away by Qin Feng.
Slowly, Yu Xiaohui was attracted by Qin Feng's handsomeness and intimacy, and gradually fell in love with this man.
In the third month of the two people's acquaintance, Qin Feng expressed his heart to Xiaohui.
And said that he was willing to take care of the second half of Xiaohui's life,
And Yu Xiaohui naturally held hands with Qin Feng,
But Yu Xiaohui's parents are not very satisfied with their daughter's relationship.
Parents feel that the two families are not right, worried that Yu Xiaohui will be bullied after marriage,
The old couple began to persuade them all kinds, but no matter what Yu's parents said, Yu Xiaohui just wouldn't listen.
Always believe that Qin Feng is the one who accompanies him for the second half of his life,
As her parents talked more and more, Yu Xiaohui did an impulsive thing and directly obtained a license to get married.
In the autumn of 1985, Yu Xiaohui did not want to listen to her parents' nagging anymore, and directly received a marriage license with Qin Feng.
The old saying is not to listen to the old man's words in front of her, and after getting married, Yu Xiaohui found that she really should not listen to her parents.
At this time, Qin Feng, who was already Yu Xiaohui's husband, completely changed his face, and did not have the gentle and intimate appearance before marriage at all.
Not only that, Qin Feng also has an extremely serious machismo, and usually loses his temper at every turn, not allowing others to refute him.
For Xiaohui is no longer respectful, before doing things do not care about Xiaohui's ideas,
Yu Xiaohui thought that this was just her husband's temporary behavior, and her life would slowly improve in the future.
However, after only 2 months of marriage, Qin Feng changed from verbal ridicule and sarcasm to beating people with his hands.
Slowly Yu Xiaohui was frightened and became silent,
I didn't dare to put forward any conditions to Qin Feng anymore, what Qin Feng said was what it was,
And all of Yu Xiaohui's grievances were swallowed in his stomach,
In the middle of the night, that feeling of helplessness will make Yu Xiaohui cry,
Later, Qin Feng also went home much less often.
Yu Xiaohui, who was waiting for her husband to get better, knew that her husband had picked "wildflowers" outside.
In 1987, when Yu Xiaohui was gradually discouraged, she found herself pregnant, and she lit up hope for this relationship.
Yu Xiaohui fantasized a lot during pregnancy, and she thought that her husband had returned to a gentle appearance.
Also thought of the husband returning to the family, very good for himself and his children,
But I didn't expect that Qin Feng not only did not change back, but even behaved more seriously.
After Yu Xiaohui finished giving birth, during the confinement period, Qin Feng almost never returned home, and every day he got together with a bunch of "wildflowers".
One day Qin Feng finally returned home, and Yu Xiaohui saw her husband who had not returned home for many days.
Can't help but complain: "I sit in confinement for so many days, you don't come back, you deceive me like this every day...."..."
Before Yu Xiaohui's words were finished, he was confronted by Qin Feng's punch.
Directly, Xiao Hui's nose was hit with blood, and Yu Xiaohui also had red eyes and made a fuss with Qin Feng.
But if a woman can compare with a man, the final result is that Yu Xiaohui cares about being beaten.
Then Qin Feng threw away his hands, returned to the room to get something, and walked out of the house without any nostalgia.
At this moment, I really realized that the man who had said how to love himself would really not come back.
And the child born will only become a tug-of-war between two people, and will not play any useful role.
Yu Xiaohui's heart completely darkened, and he took the initiative to find Qin Feng to propose a divorce.
Perhaps Qin Feng had already thought of divorce, and after Yu Xiaohui took the initiative to propose, he did not hesitate to choose to agree.
It's just about the ownership of his son, Qin Feng doesn't want to let go, it's not that he loves his son much, it's just that he has his own plans.
Yu Xiaohui, who had woken up, knew exactly what kind of person Qin Feng was, and was not willing to hand over his son at all.
When the request was rejected, Qin Feng directly cooled his face and said to Xiao Hui: "If you don't give me your son, you don't want to divorce." ”
Yu Xiaohui didn't expect that Qin Feng had no face to this point.
He also opened his own face and began to make a big fuss about this matter,
The people who made trouble in the whole women's federation knew the ins and outs,
After receiving the attention of the Women's Federation, Yu Xiaohui also sought the help of the Women's Federation.
After 3 court visits, Yu Xiaohui finally broke away from Qin Feng's side, and her son was successfully raised by himself.
But Yu Xiaohui is almost equivalent to a clean house, and when she leaves, she does not have much money on her body.
Coupled with the fact that it was originally married to disobedient parents, it has now become such a situation, and there is no face to seek help from the family.
Yu Xiaohui did not have a place to live, so she took her son to build a small bed in the office of the repertory theater for mother and son to sleep.
In this way, she slept for half a year, during which Yu Xiaohui sympathized with her suffering at the same time,
Also hurting such a small child, he suffered along with it, no less help Yu Xiaohui,
Bring a toy to your child, or bring something to eat, is a common thing,
Later, the leader really couldn't see it, and specially asked someone to give Yu Xiaohui a small room in the office building, using wooden boards,
Yu Xiaohui and her son had a place that could be called "living".
Only the space is a little small, plus it is all wooden houses, the security is very low,
In order to save more money, Yu Xiaohui has her own house as soon as possible.
Every day is also busy, paying a lot less attention to his son,
One day, Yu Xiaohui was preparing for the next work, and his son accidentally overturned the hot water that had just been boiled.
The boiling hot water was spilled on his son, and he was scalded on the spot.
After Yu Xiaohui rushed to the hospital with her son, she was told that if she wanted the child to be cured, she had to have a skin graft.
Yu Xiaohui had some breakdowns, she herself had no money, and her monthly salary was only 70 yuan.
I can't afford to treat my child.
In desperation, Yu Xiaohui thought of her ex-husband again, thinking that after all, it was a pro-flesh, how can the ex-husband help it?
But Yu Xiaohui ushered in all kinds of unreasonable demands from her ex-husband, and even demanded to return the custody of her son.
Yu Xiaohui looked at her ex-husband's bad face, and felt desperate on the spot, and her ex-husband would not give a little help.
Yu Xiaohui really has no choice but to find friends to borrow money.
Fortunately, friends are not cruel people, Yu Xiaohui quickly put together medical expenses,
With the slow reply of her son, Yu Xiaohui also gradually put her mind at ease.
It's just that the pressure on Yu Xiaohui's body has increased, going out to eat and drink, and having to pay off debts,
Under all kinds of pressure, Yu Xiaohui finally couldn't stand it, and had the idea of taking his own life.
That night, Yu Xiaohui, as usual, read the bedtime story and slowly put her son to sleep.
Looking at the quiet and beautiful sleeping eyes, Yu Xiaohui's desire to take his own life became more and more intense,
She pulled out of bed, and as soon as she opened the door, her son's sticky voice came into her ear:
"Mom, what are you going to do, take me with you?"
Yu Xiaohui woke up in an instant, looking at her son's sleepy eyes, and he didn't understand the look in his eyes.
Yu Xiaohui couldn't help but hold her son and cry:
"It's okay, son, mom is okay, mom is not going anywhere, just accompany you."
At this time, Yu Xiaohui really woke up, "I am gone, what should my son do?" ”
At that moment, raising his son as a human became the biggest belief that supported Xiaohui's life.
In order to have more hope for the world, Yu Xiaohui took her son to change his name.
Perhaps it is a sense of hope, and from then on, the son is called "Yu Xi".
Yu Xiaohui also began to work hard, and it was also at this time that she began to think about the development of film and television dramas.
During that time, Yu Xiaohui did not pick any work, as long as she was formal, she would do it with money.
In addition to filming film and television dramas is not enough, she also began to do sales, and soon, Yu Xiaohui saved some money,
This money yu Xiaohui did not spend randomly, all used for her son Yu Xi's tuition, for her son to find a superb school,
However, Yu Xi, who left his mother, began to expose his shortcomings,
Because of the encounter when he was a child, Yu Xi was very dependent on his mother, and his ability to be independent and autonomous was also poor, and even some feminine softening.
In order to change this personality of her son, Yu Xiaohui carried out a strict education for her son, and sometimes used sticks to educate.
But Yu Xiaohui's education was a little too successful, Yu Xi changed, but it became a little too bold,
During school, skipping class, skipping class, etc., Yu Xi did not do less,
Yu Xiaohui felt that these were harmless and small things, and began a new teaching.
Son Yu Xi also slowly grew into an excellent child,
In 2002, Yu Xiaohui completely let go of the discipline of her son, and Yu Xi directly threw him abroad.
In order to cultivate Yu Xi's ability to be independent, Yu Xiaohui will not give him a lot of living expenses every time.
As a result, when Yu Xi first arrived abroad, he was tight on hand.
Later, Yu Xiaohui gave less and less living expenses, Yu Xi had no choice but to find a way to earn money to eat.
Gradually, I even came to the point where I didn't need my mother to give money, and I could live on my own.
At this time, Yu Xiaohui has already caught fire on the screen, liked by many people, and she also met her second boyfriend, Li Hua,
The two people met at an event, and they were also attracted by each other's appearance, so they had further communication.
Li Hua's appearance is gentle and elegant, and there is an unspeakable feeling between conversations, yu Xiaohui is deeply attracted,
It's just that Yu Xiaohui's vision of recognizing men is really not good,
Li Hua is a gambler, and he is the kind that is trapped in it, and cannot be extricated,
After Li Hua caught up with Xiaohui, he began to implement a plan to cheat money.
At first, it was thousands and thousands of requests from Xiaohui, then tens of thousands of thousands, and finally millions of them.
Yu Xiaohui had doubts and asked Li Hua what he wanted money to do.
The explanation given by Li Hua is that the company's efficiency is not good, and the capital turnover is not open.
Yu Xiaohui has experienced emotionally once, and this one is also willing to believe once,
Therefore, every time Li Hua said the reason, Yu Xiaohui believed it all.
In 2005, Yu Xiaohui, who had been in love with Li Hua for several years, became pregnant, and she asked Li Hua to get married.
But the moment Li Hua heard the good news, he did not have any joy,
Once again, under the pretext of the company, Yu Xiaohui beat up the child,
Yu Xiaohui was blinded by love and agreed to Li Hua's request.
In the middle of the same year, Yu Xiaohui accidentally learned that Li Hua liked to "gamble".
I also know that Li Hua has coaxed so much money from himself, and all of them have paid off their debts.
Yu Xiaohui was a little angry and found Li Hua and proposed to break up:
"What did I give you so much money for, did you gamble?" Let's break up. ”
Li Hua did not expect that his matter would be exposed, and with tears in his eyes, he said that it was not easy for Xiaohui to say that it was not easy.
Even said that he can definitely earn back, but also double the return to Xiaohui,
Li Hua's plea for Xiao Hui can be described as "true feelings",
In the end, Yu Xiaohui still couldn't put his heart down and chose to forgive,
Li Hua's "true feelings" were seen by his son Yu Xi, who returned home from summer vacation.
At the moment, he found Yu Xiaohui and said his feelings: "Mom, Uncle Li's words, there are some contradictions, you have to be careful." ”
After hearing her son's words, Yu Xiaohui looked at Li Hua again,
When Xiaohui had not yet fully understood whether Li Hua was true or false,
A woman completely let Yu Xiaohui end this relationship,
On this day, Yu Xiaohui received a call from a woman, and before she could speak, there was a strange voice of yin and yang on the other side.
"Are you Yu Xiaohui?" I am Li Hua's girlfriend, and I am also pregnant with Li Hua's child, I advise you to be a little self-aware and let go. ”
Yu Xiaohui did not believe this woman's words, and also planted a seed of doubt in her heart.
That night, he asked Li Hua what was going on.
Li Hua was very disgusting and said: "Xiao Hui, I have always loved you, and I want to pay off my debts when I am with her." ”
At this moment, Yu Xiaohui finally stopped deceiving himself and angrily threw out all of Li Hua's things.
The moment she closed the door, Yu Xiaohui finally couldn't stand it, she didn't understand,
Why is it that every relationship is sincerely relative, but it can't always be exchanged for a person who treats each other sincerely?
It was also from this time that Yu Xiaohui closed the door of love in her heart, single-mindedly pounced on her career and stayed by her son's side.
In 2012, his son Yu Xi, who grew up, also returned to China and broke through a career with his own efforts.
At the same time that Yu Xiaohui was proud, she was also somewhat relieved, and she was not unloved, at least she had a son.
Now, Yu Xiaohui is 56 years old, and Yu Xi also cares about the years of standing, and has his own family.
And Yu Xiaohui is still single, and she does not dare to love anymore.
Yu Xi was distressed by his mother, and said more than once, "Mom, if you can meet the right and reliable person, I support you to remarry." ”
Yu Xiaohui's heart was scarred and could not be smoothed out, but she said: "Now mom is like accompanying you, if there is the right one, mom will not miss it." ”
In fact, this is just Yu Xiaohui's words to comfort her son, a person who is hurt, how can it be so easy to open his heart again!