Text: Fish
Many couples reach a certain time and age, and married life begins to become boring, like a calm lake, which seems to be calm and calm, but in fact, there is a certain danger.
In fact, many middle-aged men will secretly love another woman, and this woman is not necessarily more beautiful and excellent than his wife, but will attract him in some ways. We are used to saying: women are sensual and men are sane. Women will regard feelings as very important, but not so, many men reach middle age, because of the pressure of life, the discord of the relationship between husband and wife, will lead to changes in them to a certain extent.
I once received a private message from a netizen, the content of the private message is like this: never thought that in this life in addition to the wife, will fall in love with other women, and now I finally met, she is a lively and cheerful girl, sunny, smiling like a flower, can warm many people around. Every time I see her, my heart is about to jump out, and I always can't help but miss her, this feeling is very good, but it is a psychological torture and pain. To that end, I quit my job. Some people may say that it is not worth it, but only I know in my heart that if I don't do this, I am afraid that I will not be able to control it. Now, I still think of her from time to time, and I think of the time I worked with her.
There is a kind of love called restraint, there is a kind of love called silent liking, and this liking is spiritual.
When you meet a very loving person after marriage, the only thing you can do is to restrain, secretly bury this love in your heart, and don't destroy it for a momentary desire.
In this world, there are many kinds of love, some people, not love, just can't love, some encounters, not without fate, just because it is destined to miss. Sometimes, I want to call you, listen quietly to your breathing, listen to the voice I have missed for a long time, but I can't, I can only restrain myself.
Do you know what the most helpless love in the world is? That is, I obviously miss you, but I keep telling myself that I don't miss you anymore, I obviously want to go to you, but I keep telling myself that I can't go, I love you very much, but I keep telling myself that you are the person I can't love. I really can't forget you, so I miss you, but the only thing I can do is restrain the feelings in my heart.
Therefore, when many people reach middle age, they will secretly love a person in their hearts, because they clearly know in their hearts that this love is fruitless and can only be buried in the corner of their hearts.
The so-called love is divided into several types, and some people, not because they do not love, but because they cannot love. Some emotions are not heartless, but affectionate, but it seems to have been predestined for a long time, to become a lifelong thought. Some people are destined to be buried in their hearts.