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Having a baby now feels like a lifetime of stress, endless

The whole society is anxious no, I am not not to love children, is too much love for children to dare to have a child, from small to large afraid that he can not receive a good education, kindergarten cheap fear of teacher bullying, eat badly, go to primary school to start to choose school, junior high school pressure, afraid of not being able to enter high school, no old people to help with the child's family can only sacrifice the mother, day by day accompaniment transfer, the entrance to high school These three years is not easy, three years of hard work to decide which university to go to, ordinary families or reading is the way out, the road tuition fee is expensive not to say, not to mention, Because before in order to accompany the child to study, has been doing business in Shanghai, the cost of the plant has been rising, do not dare to move away, such as the child admitted to high school can board, in order to save production costs immediately moved to the Jiangsu area dozens of kilometers away from Shanghai, every week back and forth to pick up the child 70 kilometers, thank Goodness finally also took a bachelor's degree, this no, the new pressure is coming again, in these four years to hurry up for the child to save another house of down payment, this year the boy's parents do not buy a house without funding is simply the original sin, Sometimes think about this life do not know for their own life for a few days, college tuition a month to prepare to give children 2500, summer for a new mobile phone more than 5000, driving school 5200, buy a VR somatosensory game console more than 3000, computer notebook has not been bought, tuition paid 6200, on this situation the general family does not want to have a second child, too bitter, do not dare to think about the cost of marriage later, now the family saves hundreds of thousands of dollars a year are anxious to lose hair, and the husband quarrels, his original words are I have the ability to buy, He can't afford to go on his own, can he really do it? Classmates and I chatted is also to discuss her child's school district, the pressure of further education, but also want to buy another suite for the child, the same family, this society has changed, unlike before, can have nothing to struggle, then no room, no bride price, no school district, I have no ability to raise a second child, this life one is enough for me to suffer [tears]

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