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Waiting, tormenting and anticipating
□ Jiang Wanyou/ Wen
There will always be some sudden troubles in people's lives that catch you off guard, so that you are unconsciously trapped in them and cannot extricate yourself, you are afraid and struggling, it seems that there is no meaning, and even the more you move, the worse you get. A movement is not as good as a static, with a static brake, this is the truth. For example, this sudden Anyang epidemic is probably what we did not expect, how to come over the Spring Festival after New Year's Day, and the numbers soared. Fortunately, it has shown a downward trend. Therefore, the long-awaited family reunion instantly turned into a bubble, how to break through to overcome this heart demon, you need to wait, boil, hope. Waiting for waiting is not living against the grain; waiting for hope is not a compromise on fate; waiting for hope is the accumulation and storage of life energy; waiting for hope is the accumulation and sublimation of vitality.
The journey of life is not all about the whip, there will be resting stations and muddy dangerous roads in the journey, some people wait and wait, they succeed; some people wait and wait, they give up and disappear. There are eight or nine unsatisfactory things in life, don't complain that Huai Cai does not meet, Bo Le does not appear, do not complain that life is not timely, life is thinner than paper; those who have aspirations, things are accomplished, they are broken, and one hundred and two Qin Guans will eventually belong to Chu; people with bitter hearts, the sky is not worthy, lying down to taste courage, three thousand Yue Jia can swallow Wu. The sudden attack of the epidemic has disrupted many people's life plans and arrangements, and perhaps because of this epidemic, they may miss a few years of life turnaround, but so what? Only calmly accept and face, adjust the mentality and rational disposition!
Life is a marathon, always reach the end, do not particularly care whether you can win the championship, I believe that I will also run to the end of the line is enough. Life is sometimes like a donkey pulling a mill, don't complain about loneliness, monotony, this is the mission of the donkey, circle after circle, in fact, there is no circle of circular labor, maybe early to the donkey meat restaurant. If the donkey is blindfolded and grinding, it will play the donkey's temper, stubborn temper, provoke the owner to be anxious, unloading and killing the donkey is not a thing. Many times you need to wait and wait. Waiting for hope, it seems to be very bitter, very embarrassing, and even very depressed and desperate, but in fact, it is charging, it is accumulating hair. It is said that the bamboo lasted for 3 to 4 years and only grew a few centimeters. From the fifth year onwards, it grew at a rate of 30 centimeters per day, reaching 15 to 20 meters in just six weeks. Waiting is accumulated day by day, ready to go; boiling, is the sea of hundreds of rivers, there is tolerance is big; hope, is into the bamboo in the chest, not sound is already, a blockbuster! If the bamboo can't survive the 3 centimeters, how can it grow 15 meters in 6 weeks? In this sudden outbreak, we can fully understand it as the Creator testing and reviewing our patience! Waiting for hope is actually a comprehensive practical test of the patience of a living body.
Waiting and waiting is a painful, lonely, irritable and patient process. Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son. What a wonderful state of love. In fact, in the decades of "chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea", where are the husband and wife who do not argue or quarrel, and which family is not a chicken feather? Endure, tolerate, the flower of love will bloom beautifully; willful, remember revenge, love will be tragic and premature. When the interview asked a couple who supported each other to the old age of 80 years old, the secret of white head to old age, the old woman said calmly, without him, a word, endure. The old man grabbed the microphone and said loudly, four words, can't stand it! It seems that it is not enough to be small and intolerable, and sometimes it is dancing with shackles on the knife mountain waiting for three words, and although it is like three big mountains, as everyone knows, the mountain is high and man-made, so far, there is no big mountain on the earth that has not been stepped on by humans. Therefore, life is more like a mountaineering, step by step climbing, the most taboo is that the walker is half ninety, halfway abandoned, "not afraid of slowness is afraid of standing" is the best interpretation of the mountaineer's mountaineering experience. During the epidemic period, staying at home, not on the road, completely changed our social way and the normal state of life, every day you look at me, I look at you, even the loving couple will be aesthetic fatigue, maybe which trivial life trivia will ignite an inexplicable anger, roll up a chicken flying dog jumping family war. Playing with the three words "waiting for hope" is not an easy task during the epidemic, which requires enough patience, enough rationality, and enough understanding. During the epidemic period, it is not only a perfect time for love and affection to heat up, but also a difficult time for a small number of families to see through each other's cold eyes and hate that they can't have a seam to drill into, which requires a good grasp of the three words of "waiting to wait" and control it. After every epidemic, there will also be a small wave of divorces, which is a phenomenon that we have to pay attention to.
Waiting for hope is a struggle and control of fate. For example, some people have a terminal illness, when they hear the news, some people, pessimistic and admit their fate, lest life disappear, in fear of a day is not as good as a day, soon to die; some people, positive and optimistic, should eat and drink, actively treat, make their lives into an upward melody, but eventually the miracle of terminal illness disappears, and the vitality of life is rejuvenated to obtain the second miracle of life. Whether you can control your own destiny sometimes depends on your attitude towards life. During the epidemic period, the patient's family is particularly anxious, afraid of a mistake, after all, the treatment during the epidemic will be constrained and bound to a certain extent, more complicated than the non-epidemic period, which requires the hardships and efforts of the family and the patient. In the past few epidemic periods, some families had funerals, and according to the regulations, everything was simple and hastily buried, but it saved a lot of expenses. Who dares to say that there are not a few scum evil daughters-in-law and bad sons-in-law in millions of families who expect the elderly in the hospital bed to quickly kick their legs during the epidemic. The forest is big, there are birds, which needs to be vigilant! In the later period of epidemic prevention and control, high-level early warning, scientific prevention and control, and comprehensive prevention and control of society and families were put on the agenda.
Waiting for hope is the best grinding stone in life. Around us, there are some people who are so deep that they can bear loneliness and refuse to give up lightly. Maybe they don't have a big career, but on the road of life, they have become winners. Waiting for a long time and waiting for a long time, they can expect it, and their mental temperament has been tempered to perseverance, and they have sublimated from forbearance to tenacity, and even in the midst of thousands of twists and turns, they can become people who can be defeated, but will never be crushed.
The best "waiting" during the epidemic is to calm down and study and learn, of course, it is more worthy of praise to be able to volunteer on the front line, but most people should still do with nucleic acid tests, stay at home, and don't get on the road. Three or five days can be, ten days and a half months can also be done, and over time, there will always be alternative strange things jumping out and challenging the bottom line of the fight against the epidemic.
Waiting for hope is the best gift given by life, and the most important thing is a boiling word. People who have not experienced "boiling" can appreciate the truth of "standing and talking without waist pain". Boiling is the opportunity given by God to talk to your soul, and it is the experience of "the heavens will descend on the Scythians". The difficult years during the epidemic can survive, and the spring will blossom and the willows will be dark.
Survive, brilliant, not surviving, ugly out!
During the epidemic period, we are united in our will to overcome difficulties together, and we need to have a mature psychological mechanism for "waiting and waiting", and that impatient emotion requires us to work together to restrain and release through legal, correct and appropriate channels, and if we are not careful, we may touch the high-voltage line, red line and other boundaries. Vigilance and vigilance is the cognition and will that must not be relaxed during the epidemic prevention period at home!
The great cold festival has passed, spring is just around the corner, and all of this is what we have waited for in the cold winter. Listen, the footsteps of spring are getting closer and closer!