Sit quietly and try your tea and turn the book around in your spare time.
Many people yearn for such a life, and many people feel that such a life is too dull and tasteless.
In fact, the most rare thing in life is not the hustle and bustle, the days before and after the response have been more, you will find that maintaining a good attitude, working hard to make money, enjoying solitude, is the two characteristics of people's life to the extreme.
First, really powerful people will enjoy their time alone
Oprah once said, "All those alone times determine who we become." ”
We walk in the world, know countless people, and have countless contacts, but in the end we find that only a few close friends can stay around, and those who have been called brothers and brothers with us, and those who have intertwined with us, and people who are very warm to us, quietly drift away under the wash of time.
When I was young, I liked to be lively. Like to bark five or six, like to gather, do not like to idle, as if as long as idle, you will feel abandoned by the group, feel that you have lost something like a soul.
As I grew older, the pressure on my shoulders did not relax, and I found that those hilarities were just noisy flashes, and those friends at the wine table were just passers-by.
Many times, we like the bustle, forget to be alone, and gradually lose ourselves.
Aristotle famously said about solitude, saying, "The outlier is either a beast or a god." ”
Gradually, I understand that the more excellent a person is, the more he will enjoy the time of being alone, and the more he will accumulate strength in solitude and stick to his heart.
In fact, a person's real practice is not to identify oneself in the hustle and bustle of interaction, but to reflect on life in quiet solitude.
Solitude is not isolated, but let us understand that ineffective socialization is not advisable, the rest of life is very expensive, rather than spending time and energy to participate in so many invalid social interactions, it is better to spend these time on themselves, a person only enriched themselves, it is possible to have the highlight moments of life.
As Lin Huiyin said: "The real calm is not to avoid the noise of cars and horses, but to cultivate a hedge and plant chrysanthemums in your heart." ”
In 2022, always remember that where you spend your time, you will get the rewards. Enjoy being alone, improve yourself, and may you get better and better and be what you like.
Second, really powerful people understand that "making money is the biggest confidence in life"
There is no one who does not know the importance of money. The so-called "poor in the downtown area no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives" is a naked torture of human nature.
Rich people will have a straight waist everywhere they go, and they will have confidence in speaking.
People who have no money will radiate inferiority from the depths of their hearts, and they will be inferior before they open their mouths.
There's a question: "Do you think money matters?" ”
One line from the movie "Parasite" can be described as an incisive answer: "Money is an iron, and it can iron everything flat." ”
Just like "soup is not as good as water without salt, and people without money are better than ghosts." "The benefits and wonders of money are deeply appreciated by everyone.
Without money, there is no ability to fulfill filial piety in front of your parents, and when your parents need money to treat their illnesses, you will only scratch your ears and scratch your cheeks and borrow money everywhere and encounter white eyes.
Without money, there is no ability to let children stand on a better starting line, do not blame children for not working hard, and no good educational resources can work hard in vain.
Without money, there is no ability to keep the person you love, not to mention that real feelings do not care about money, and a poor love is destined to be full of heartache.
As the writer Maugham said: "Of course, man does not seek wealth, but he must have a life sufficient to maintain dignity, to be able to work unhindered, to be generous, to be cheerful, to be independent." ”
As ordinary people, what we can do is to work hard to make money, since there is no capital to lie flat, then down-to-earth to fight, to fight, to earn back a banknote. Never lose your dignity for money, don't go down for money, don't lose the bottom line for money.
Whether money is important or not, you can know if you lack money once.
Therefore, since we want to live a better life, want to let our parents live at ease in their old age, want to give their children a good education, want to let the loved ones not leave, and want to prove that they are not in the nest, then try to earn a good life.
Yes, how much chicken soup text is not as secure as a banknote, so, a little less pretentious, a little more effort, 2022, I hope we are down-to-earth, make more money, and let ourselves live more and more confidently.
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