Recently, a game two-dimensional female anchor caught fire.
However, the "popularity" of this anchor is not because of her appearance deeds, but the past situation she pours out.
Her life reveals the dark side of the seemingly beautiful moon, which is not illuminated by the sun:
How a woman is "destroyed" and "depraved" step by step.
In view of the fact that the female anchor herself does not want to continue to expose, and the name is the least important information in this "accident", let's call her Little A for the time being.
Little A is a well-known "female bodhisattva" in the circle of two-dimensional games.
The reason why she is popular is because she is "in good shape"; she has a good personality, "opens up", frequently sends benefits, and satisfies the voyeuristic desires of male fans.
This kind of market-induced women who "have no bottom line" to cater to male fantasies are often "not on the table" in mainstream values, and they are often scorned and attacked by the public.
However, in a self-statement made by Xiao A recently, another side of the never-known was exposed.
From elementary school, he was molested by his own biological father;
Knowing the truth, her own birth mother did not stop it, chose to ignore patience and continue to cover up her husband's evil deeds.
Because in her original family, there was only harm and no love, after graduating from high school, she decided to run away from home and work on her own to earn money to go to college. However, while working on the assembly line of the factory, he was raped by the team leader;
With no way out, she had to rely on "love" for a bite of food to eat, and change a roof to live: in the first two years of college, she and netizens began to fall in love, and the other party "funded" her college tuition.
Until the advent of the self-media era, she was able to show her "talent" live and rely on fans to tip herself.
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It was her "luck" and a mine for her future.
Because of her credulity and ignorance, she was deceived by her agents and signed the overlord contract of the unscrupulous guild, with no resources and benefits, only unlimited constraints. Salary arrears and even account confiscation.
Xiao A was forced to jump ship in desperation, changed the platform to start over, originally did a good job, but because of the breakup with the online love object was retaliated against, the private photos of her mobile phone recorded body were maliciously published.
Even though the man has been punished by the law, the widely circulated private photos still pose a major crisis to Little A's live broadcast career:
The existing platform imposed illegal restrictions on her, and the original unscrupulous owner came to the door to sue her in court on the grounds of breach of contract.
She lost the lawsuit.
What will be faced is: pay a settlement fee of 400,000 yuan, and give the original owner a live broadcast for 3 years for free, no less than 6 hours a day of "punishment".
Because he could not afford to pay back the money, he was sued for breach of contract, and was fined a sky-high liquidated damages of 6 million yuan - even if he paid 5,000 a month, it would take 100 years, and he was forced to helplessly xiao A and eventually became a "lao lai" who was restricted from consumption.
She once wanted to rely on her own efforts to escape from her original family and earn a piece of the world with her own hands, but unfortunately she encountered "all the evil people" along the way.
The hell mode of life begins, and it seems that the more you struggle, the more hopeless you become.
After she "fired" out of the circle, it attracted the attention of many female netizens.
One of the scenes is full of absurdity:
Wearing a deep V sleeveless in the live broadcast of the small A, when she learned that she also had female fans, she revealed more than how to be good panic and confusion in an instant, she was kind enough to dissuade female fans:
Will girls like me too?
But don't learn from me, you'll be scolded if you learn from me.
Because I have no family, no friends, no classmates, and no social circle of my own, it is my mission to charm men and please my fans, and it is the only thing I can do.
But you have a normal family and a normal circle of communication, and if you're like me, they'll laugh at you behind your back.
You can't learn from me and become someone like me.
Little A, who describes his own experience, although he tries his best to raise his smile, but there is already a cry between his words.
But at this time, the barrage is full of vulgar and trampled messages from male fans.
She caters to the revealing dress of male fans, the frank self-statements of female fans who force a smile to dissuade female fans, and the bullet screen of vulgar fans flowing with Harrah's begging for undressing...
Combined to form a spectacle of the Internet that is both magical and absurd.
But Little A's experience is not an isolated case.
Her true story reminds me of the self-statement of a Taiwanese AV actress @ Ai Qiu who has already "gone to the sea" not long ago.
Happiness is always the same, while suffering is different:
Dereliction of duty in the supervision of the original family, and frequent domestic violence by his father, a high-ranking intellectual;
During the school period, he tried to get the first place, but was betrayed by his friends;
Because of the lack of love, I hope to find "true love", but every man I meet only covets her flesh:
Raped by male netizens and secretly filmed videos, maliciously leaked sex videos by the crush, bullied as a "slut" in school, scorned by later boyfriends, had to take a break from school, suffered from depression...
So in the end, the jar was broken and broken, and it fell into the wind and dust to make a living.
A speck of dust in the environment, pressed on the head of an individual, is a mountain.
The real tragedy is not that you have done something wrong, but that you have done nothing wrong, and even are still struggling to move up... But again and again, they were plotted and ambushed, and forced to degenerate to the lowest level of society.
In the experience of these two "passive" sinking girls, there are too many social issues to discuss and too heavy.
For example, the entry threshold for parenthood is too low, the protection of minors by relevant institutions is insufficient, the rampant phenomenon of bullying in schools, the destruction of individuals by misogynistic culture and slut-shaming, the exploitation of employees by unscrupulous commercial institutions...
But in the end, what I could not calm down for a long time was the world-weariness that young people exuded between their words.
@Ai Qiu said that he was ready to "leave" at any time;
Little A's self-evaluation is extremely low, and hidden behind the bright smile is a deep self-loathing:
She laughed and said during the live broadcast that she was "this kind of person" would be despised and ridiculed;
When posting on Weibo, he claimed to be a remnant of flowers and willows, and only wanted to rot and stink in the corner;
The criterion for choosing a mate is to hope that the other party is poor and ugly, and only in this way will he not abandon himself;
When she recorded that she was finally able to help others, she sighed and said, "It's so good to live like this... It would be nice to die at this time."
This hopeless tone is lin Yihan's decadence in the same paragraph in "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise":
I am the orange juice and the soup that has been steamed off;
I am the roses and lilies crawling full of worm eggs;
I am a North Star that clearly exists in a well-lit city but no one can see it or need it.
They are like a broken window, indifferently bearing the second, the third... The stone that the Nth man threw at himself.
Participants join in framing and revelry, people with ulterior motives enjoy her welcome, and spectators stand idly by and indifferently.
No one is looking for who in this vicious cycle of tragedy that toppled the first dominoes.
Some people may lament from the experiences of the two girls that reincarnation is indeed "a technical job".
Because for young and blank women, the original family and school should help them cultivate the "immunity" of the three views and the "golden bell cover" against external intrusions.
As everyone knows, many people can't get the protection of their parents, and even the first harm they face when they grow up comes from their parents who should have cared for her when they grew up.
Young girls who are not properly educated at home and school and who have no ability to protect themselves are like sheep into a wolf pack.
How many thresholds does a girl need to cross if she wants to grow up safely and healthily?
Parents, teachers, and the education, love and protection of the society are indispensable.
So, those girls who did not get a good hand of cards as soon as they were born, and when they grew up, they were entrusted with inhumans, and there was only one way to go?
Of course not.
After Xiao A came out of the circle, female netizens continued to pay attention to her recent situation with the spirit of mutual help of girls.
The girls kept leaving messages and sending private messages to encourage her, and suggested that she give up relying on hue men and transform into other women-related industries, so that she could support her out of the predicament by placing orders.
And their stories are equally sobering and educational for ordinary girls in difficult situations:
If you are forced to drop out of school with bad parents, you can apply for a state bursary through formal channels to continue your education.
Only studying hard, getting a diploma, and becoming financially independent as soon as possible is the way to really improve your situation;
The weaker a person is, the more bad people he encounters.
The deeper you get into the quagmire, the more you have to recognize reality and give up fantasy. Don't look to any heroes and saviors, know that you know you save you. What really attracts them is most likely a wolf in sheep's clothing.
Deliberately cultivate aggression and learn self-preservation ability.
Everyone is Mu Qiang, a poor girl with good nature and unarmed hands, like a three-year-old child holding gold through the market. If your kindness is not sharp, it is very easy to inspire malice in human nature.
There are nine times that things are not satisfactory, but in the midst of embarrassment, people should have the courage and courage to grab their hair and pull themselves out of the dirt, which is the basis for settling down.
And we, as bystanders, even if we are powerless to help them, at least do not destroy the last pity and empathy in human nature, and consume their suffering and flesh;
Don't throw stones at the weak in this world.
The image of this article comes from the network
Author: Ming Ying
Proofreader: Jiaming
Producer: Sleep away
Producer: Wheat cooked in the studio
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