And my husband worked in a different place, the two lived in two places, one day, the ex-boyfriend suddenly called: "I am on a business trip in your city, let's meet it, the hotel address has been sent to you QQ, I am waiting for you!" I hung up the phone when I finished, and didn't give me a chance to speak.
My name is Si Qi, I am 29 years older, my husband is two years older than me, and I have been married for half a year.
My husband and I met through blind dates, the first blind date in my life, I did not expect to become once, the two saw each other as before, after half a year together, established a romantic relationship, married after a year together.
Until now, I can't believe that I am a married person, I really think it is incredible, I have to sigh that fate is really quite wonderful, some people know each other for a few months, and even some people get married in a few days, and some people will not get any results even if they talk to you for eight years and ten years. For example, my ex-boyfriend and I are the latter.
I talked to my ex-boyfriend for four years, three of which were long-distance relationships, and I saw each other about twice a year.
For a while, he was unemployed, short of money, and I couldn't help him, I suggested that he go to some temporary work to save his current life problems first, he, obediently went, and then after about two or three days, he may encounter unpleasant things at work, so he called me and scolded me, the two of us quarreled, the cold war lasted for 15 days, and then he mentioned the breakup, a month after the breakup I humbly entangled six times, begging for a compound, until he said no love, tired, annoyed, tired, inappropriate, etc., I was dead hearted.
But I have been wondering, why our four-year relationship said that they did not love, they did not love, one day, drink too much can not help it, and called him again, want to ask a clear, the result of the phone came from a woman's voice, I realized that I was seamless.
After I inquired, I learned that he and the girl had been together long before we quarreled, and poor me had been silly in the drum before.
Later, we broke up anyway.
Two years after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend, my parents saw that I was getting older and older, afraid that I would not be able to marry out in the future, so they said that they would arrange a blind date for me, and my husband and I met in this way.
Not long ago, one day at noon, I was lying on the couch watching a TV series, and my ex-boyfriend suddenly called: "I'm on a business trip in your city, let's meet you, I miss you, the hotel address I have sent to you qq, you must come, I am waiting for you." After saying that, he didn't give me a chance to speak, and hung up.
But he has his arrogance, but I also have my temper, after hanging up the phone, I directly switched the phone to airplane mode, and then continued to watch the TV series.
But I didn't expect him to be so persistent that he actually came to the door himself.
When I opened the door and saw that it was him, I regretted that my intestines were blue, so I quickly closed the door again, but he stopped me, "You don't want to see me so much?" He looked at me angrily and said.
"Yes! If you are self-aware, then please leave in a mellow manner. I said coldly.
"Huh... It is said that the depth of love, the depth of hatred, the thoughts, your current performance, does not mean that you still love me deeply..." He said triumphantly.
Seeing him with a hissing face, as if everything was in his hands, I shook my head, "It's hopeless! Take your hand away or bear the consequences! After saying that, regardless of his hand that stopped at the door, he closed the door hard, and he frowned in pain, and said with resentment: "You and you..." In the end, I took my hand away, and finally I didn't have to see his nasty face.
The door closed, but he didn't go, shouting outside the door: "Sisi, I don't believe in our four-year relationship, you can put it down so quickly, I know you still love me, I know it's wrong, I regret it, can you give me another chance?" I really love you..."
I listened and just wanted to laugh, love? There was, but from the moment he apologized to me, it was gone, and we were doomed to never go back.
Feelings are not based on the length of time, even if some people have just met, but you feel that you have known him for a long time, he gives you the feeling that others can never give you. For example, my husband.
Although we have known each other for a short time, since I have been with him, I have understood what is true love, what is worth cherishing, that is, he gives you enough security, enough pampering, let you become better and better, you and him will become particularly childish, the two people together even if they do not talk or be embarrassed, in short, get along comfortably and easily.
Now, I just want to cherish the person in front of me, and let the past pass!
This is an experience from a netizen. I have to say that love is really a wonderful thing, some people get but do not cherish, some people cherish but do not have.
@High Cold Emotion says:
1, I have to say that this kind of thing, fate, really can not say clearly, some people are destined to be a guest in your life, while some people are born to belong to you.
2, between men and women, the most important thing together is loyalty, betrayal, and no forgiveness.
3, long-distance love, survived, is the blossoming fruit; survived, that is, the two people parted ways, and never saw each other again.
In short, let what is regretted continue to be regretted, and what is already owned continue to be cherished.