Wen | Zhao Jingxuan
Since ancient times, women love talents, men are beautiful,
It's a pity that talented people, gods and immortals, choosing one person and finally growing old is just a bridge in the book,
In reality, the amorous woman is blessed by the talented son, and the story of a tragic life abounds.
For example, we are going to talk about Zhu Mei today.
At that time, despite the strong opposition of his parents, he insisted on marrying Jin Yong, a second-married man who was 11 years older than himself.
After marriage, he sold the dowry to support her husband to start a difficult business.
But after 20 years of suffering with her husband, when Shaohua passed away,
Learned that the husband has been married to empathize with a small hotel waiter for 10 years,
The fierce Zhu Mei was ready to quickly cut the mess and cut off her husband in two,
But I was shocked to learn that the eldest son jumped off the building and died...
Zhu Mei, the talented woman of Hong Kong who won the Xiangjiang River at that time,
How do you break a good hand and live your life into a mess? What happened to her?
01
When Zhu Mei met Jin Yong, he was not one of the authors of the famous "Four Great Martial Arts Novels", but just an ordinary clerk of the Ta Kung Pao.
And, since his first wife was in love with someone else, his first marriage had just ended.
It can be said that at this time, Jin Yong is completely a down-and-out uncle, with a talent in the air, but he does not meet with talent.
With Zhu Mei, a beautiful woman who just walked out of the university gate and had a compelling aura, she couldn't compare at all.
But the things of the world are so incredible.
Zhu Mei, a young and beautiful "talented woman of Xiangjiang", speaks fluent English, as a journalist of the "Ta Kung Pao", does not love small fresh meat, does not love officials and nobles,
Uncle Jin Yong, who exudes a decadent atmosphere and is depressed, has a special love for him and is difficult to extricate himself.
Therefore, despite the strong opposition of her parents, in 1956, Zhu Mei married Jin Yong and began the rest of her life.
Shortly after the marriage, Zhu Mei gave birth to her eldest son, Zha Chuanxia.
The child is smart and cute and talented.
From an early age, I never forgot that at the age of 4, I could recite the "Three Character Classic" backwards like a stream, and at the age of 6, I could recite the "Three Character Classic" backwards like a stream, and at the age of 6, I could recite the "Three Character Classic" like a number of family treasures.
Jin Yong had high hopes for Cha Chuanxia and wanted to train him to be his successor and grow up to become an excellent writer.
At that time, although life was hard, but beautiful like a painting, just immersed in happiness Zhu Mei, but did not know that Jin Yong had already had a restless mind, and her marriage was in jeopardy.
It turned out that in the second year after marriage, Jin Yong met the famous actor Xia Meng, and was shocked at first sight.
Jin Yong, who was fascinated by Xia Meng, could not wait to quit his job at the "Ta Kung Pao" and become a screenwriter, and his Sima Zhao's heart was obvious.
Unfortunately, being a screenwriter did not allow him to contact Xia Meng as he wished, so Jin Yong changed his career to directing.
Just when he was complacent and could finally justifiably talk to the "fairy" in his dream,
However, he was poured cold water on the head: the King of Xiang was intentional, the goddess had no heart, and Xia Meng ignored him at all, and explicitly rejected his confession.
Moreover, soon Xia Meng went to the United States with her husband.
As soon as Xia Meng left, the film and television company lost its attraction to Jin Yong, and he consulted with his friends, partnered to start a business, and started Ming Pao.
Jin Yong, who touched a nose of ash, could only pin his regret for Xia Meng's "unattainable" in his work.
The little dragon girl in "Divine Eagle Hero" and Wang Yuyan in "Tianlong Babu" all have the shadow of Xia Meng.
At this time, Zhu Mei, busy with the company's busy children, did not realize at all that her marriage had gone on the verge of "falling apart".
Zhu Mei, busy has become a "gyroscope".
Jin Yong founded "Ming Pao", lack of money, she saved a point of thrift; lack of manpower, she personally went to battle, one person to carry the entire news page of the newspaper.
Often children have children in their left hand and pens in their right hands. The child slept and had to cook from Kowloon to Hong Kong Island to send Jin Yong over. Without money, the two shared a cup of coffee.
Late at night, after a busy day's work, the two went home together. Waiting for the electric boat to gather 6 people at the dock to start the boat, Zhu Mei was not in a hurry at all.
Snuggling next to Jin Yong, watching the stars in the sky, the tiredness of the day drifted with the wind.
The birth of the small life in the belly made Zhu Mei feel that life was full of infinite hope.
In order to increase sales, Jin Yong began to serialize novels in newspapers, and the serialization of novels such as "Divine Eagle Hero" suddenly attracted a large number of people, and newspaper sales increased a lot.
But although Jin Yong worked hard and wrote with illness, although Zhu Mei was meticulous and thrifty, she still couldn't make ends meet in the early stage of entrepreneurship. In particular, the birth of the second son has made their family stretched.
But Zhu Mei did not complain in the slightest, and silently took out the dowry given by her mother's family when she got married and sold it.
When she handed the money to Jin Yong, Jin Yong was stunned to see such a large amount of money.
Knowing where the money came from, he hugged his wife, cried silently, and murmured, "I will definitely be good to you for the rest of my life!" ”
Unfortunately, Zhu Mei, who was overwhelmed by sweet words, did not know that this life was too short, short to only 10 years!
If you had anticipated the later ending, I don't know if she would have been so dead-hearted and willing to pay?
02
Husband and wife are in the same heart, and their profits are broken.
With the strong support of Zhu Mei and the efforts of Jin Yong, the sales of Ming Pao became higher and higher, and finally in July 1962, the sales volume exceeded 30,000, truly realizing the dream of making money.
Jin Yong seized the opportunity and immediately followed up with the establishment of several sub-periodicals, and the strength of Ming Pao was impressively expanded, and it was divided into three worlds with "Oriental Daily" and "Sing Tao Daily".
Career is the limelight, the family has also spread good news, and the birth of two daughters has brought infinite happiness to the family.
However, "it is easy to siege the city and it is difficult to defend the city", after suffering and hardship, in the process of sharing wealth, the contradiction between Jin Yong and Zhu Mei became increasingly acute.
Zhu Mei is a strong and tough woman.
Such a personality is very advantageous when the husband's career is at a low point and encounters difficulties.
Because people with strong hearts can grit their teeth to withstand setbacks and blows, not only to pick up their own burden, but also to share the pressure that belongs to their husbands.
However, when everything is calm and calm, and a gentle "explanation flower" is needed to let the man's tired soul rest, the flaws of Zhu Mei's personality are exposed.
She's too strong! A small thing can also be a reason for a quarrel, and a casual sentence can also make her chatter for half a day.
Jin Yong began to get tired of this endless quarrel, and at this time, Lin Leyi appeared in front of him in time as if he had been arranged by God.
That morning, Jin Yong and Zhu Mei quarreled over a small matter, and when he thought of going home after work and facing his wife's cold face, he turned around and entered the small restaurant next to him.
Originally, I only wanted to borrow wine to dispel my sorrows, who knew that in the hazy eyes of drunkenness, a pretty lady appeared in front of me.
Jin Yong was surprised and delighted, Xia Meng?
That eyebrow, that nose, is not the summer dream that I think about day and night but have been in love for many years?
I must have been God again, but I listened to the little girl crisply say: "It is easy to drink alcohol and spoil your body, if you are inconvenient, I can invite you to eat a bowl of ham rice!" ”
When she finished, she giggled.
That laughter instantly dispelled the depression in Jin Yong's heart, like a spring breeze!
The little girl recognized that the man in front of her was actually the famous Jin Yong, and she was immediately surprised and happy, and her face was adored.
When she left, Jin Yong asked her to tip 10 yuan, which was not a small amount at the time.
Lin Leyi resolutely refused, saying: "It is not easy for you to write novels, how can I ask for your money?" ”
Jin Yong was very moved, and the little girl in front of her was nearly 30 years younger than herself,
Not only beautiful and gentle, lively and cute, but also particularly understanding,
And the yellow-faced woman at home who can't move to "hedong lion roar",
It's incomparable!
People are often impressed by a little favor from outsiders,
But I can't see the hard work of the people around me for decades,
Jin Yong is also not exempt from vulgarity.
He specially bought a big doll to thank Lin Leyi.
Later things seem to come to fruition, and they are all old bridges.
In 1976, 10 years after Kanaya hid Jiao, Zhu Mei realized that something was wrong.
One is a "fan sister" who worships herself beyond belief, and the other is a married wife whose husband has cheated on her for 10 years but cannot detect any clues.
It can only be said that Zhu Mei is really too self-sufficient, living in her own world for too long, ignoring Jin Yong's feelings.
What should come, always come.
3
I don't know from what day, Zhu Mei found a strange phenomenon: workers did not come to the office to find Jin Yong, but went to Happy Valley.
Zhu Mei, who was suspicious of Dou, sent someone to inquire, and suddenly it was like five thunderbolts!
Married for 20 years, she never thought about it, together through so many ups and downs of her husband,
Will do something that betrays itself!
Moreover, this betrayal has begun 10 years ago, and the whole world knows that only it is in the dark.
Zhu Mei, who is proud and arrogant, who can bear this anger?
He had a big fight and forced Jin Yong to choose between himself and Lin Leyi!
Jin Yong chose the latter, and when he really wanted to divorce, he remembered his wife's efforts over the years.
Suddenly remorseful, he tore up the divorce agreement and asked Zhu Mei: "Can I not divorce?" ”
Zhu Mei said coldly, "Is it interesting to take a step forward and say such a thing again?" Good horses don't eat grass! ”
Jin Yong was out of the house, the child was with the father, and Lin Leyi was not allowed to have children.
At this moment, a news that was enough to crush the two came: the eldest son of the two people' most beloved, Zha Chuanxia, jumped off the building and died!
Hearing the news, Zhu Mei fainted on the spot.
Zha Chuanxia went to school at Columbia University, heard that his parents were divorcing, and advised them over and over again not to leave.
Two days before the accident, he had called Jin Yong and wanted to have a good talk with his father, but Jin Yong refused on the grounds of "no time".
Who would have thought that it would be his last call to his father!
After that, as soon as he thought about this, Jin Yong regretted that he was not in the beginning.
It turned out that the eldest son was in trouble with his feelings, suffered from depression, and because his parents were discouraged by the divorce, he wanted to talk to his father about his heart when he was discouraged, and he was turned away by his father.
The loss of his son made Jin Yong heartbroken, but he still could not stop him from moving towards a new life, and half a year later he married Lin Leyi, who was 29 years younger than himself.
Since then, Xiangche's wife has been accompanied, going in and out of pairs, and living happily and comfortably.
In the interview program, the host asked him, what is the secret of marital happiness?
He said: It is my wife who let me and accommodate me, and if I need to give in, I will be anxious and lose my temper.
But Zhu Mei fell into the shadow of the loss of her son and the failure of her marriage, and never came out again.
After the divorce, her investment failed, the house was also repossessed because she could not repay the loan, and zhu Mei, who was poor and crumbling, was reduced to selling handbags on the street in order to make a living.
When his friend told Jin Yong all this, he was silent for half a day and did not speak for a long time.
Later, he entrusted someone to send money to Zhu Mei, and Zhu Mei said dismissively: "I just starve to death, and I will not spend a penny on him!" ”
The two meet at a friend's wedding, and Jin Yong asks if he needs to give her a ride?
Zhu Mei didn't even give him a look, and squeezed 3 words out of her teeth: "No need!" ”
brief summary
In 1998, Zhu Mei died in the hospital due to illness, there was no relative around, and no one applied for a death certificate for many days after her death, and finally the hospital staff could not see it and helped her apply for a death certificate.
Zhu Mei gave her all her heart, but was disappointed by her husband; she had far-reaching considerations for her children, and in order to preserve the property and status of her children, she did not hesitate to let Lin Leyi sign an agreement of "no childbirth for life", but none of the three children were close to her, and even after her death, she did not pay attention to them.
We do not deny Jin Yong's irresponsibility and the child's inhumanity, but is this really nothing to do with herself?
Is her overly strong character and too harsh education also an important reason for her tragedy?
Her youngest daughter once said: "When I was a child, I hated my mother because she always forced herself to draw, and my father would not." ”
Fortunately, after her death, she still grasped Jin Yong's heart, and Jin Yong said, "The most sorry person is Zhu Mei." ”
But now, what is the point of this late apology? Will Zhu Mei forgive him?
Deep affection is not longevity, too rigid and easy to fold, the words of the old ancestors, or to listen.
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