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"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

author:Weiyang Literary History
"Wow!" Hearing this crisp cry, Sunland and the doctor and nurse in the delivery room breathed a sigh of relief at the same time, "Congratulations! A healthy and lovely son! Sunland ignored the pain and exhaustion of her body and hurried to let the nurse carry the child to her side.

The newborn baby's skin was red and his face was wrinkled, Sunland looked at this "little monkey", her heart was full of maternal love, she gently lowered her head, kissed her son, and her mind echoed with the happiness of the rest of her life.

At 00:19 a.m. on April 14, 2014, former gymnastics champion Sunland successfully gave birth to a baby boy at Beijing Aviation General Hospital, where her husband Huang Jian cried with joy and held his son's hand and kept shaking.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

As a 33-year-old woman, Sunland is not strictly an advanced maternal age, but as a highly paraplegic patient, she is at much more serious fertility risk than the average elderly woman.

From the vaulting queen to the high paraplegia, to the desperate birth of a child, Sunland's life is full of ups and downs but wonderful.

This jump ruined her career

Born in June 1981, Sunland's parents look forward to Sunland's arrival, and during Sunland's upbringing, her parents have been doing their best to meet her various requirements.

Sunland has developed a strong interest in gymnastics since she was a child, and she always plays parallel bars in the yard with the children nearby, and in this activity, Sunland is always the most brilliant one.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

When she was six years old, her parents sent Sunland to practice gymnastics, and her talent was quickly revealed in gymnastics practice, and the coaches responsible for training Sunland said that she was a rare and valuable wizard.

At the age of ten, Sunland participated in the Zhejiang Provincial Games as a competitor, which was the beginning of her shine, in which she won a total of five gold medals in different gymnastics events.

In 1993, Sunland was selected for the national team due to her excellent training results, and after entering the national team, she trained harder and never gave up any opportunity to improve herself.

Finally, at a national championship, she won the national vaulting championship, and because of this championship, she became the much-anticipated "vaulting queen", this year, she was only 16 years old.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

Sunland thought that her gymnastics career had just begun, and she still wanted to go to a bigger stage and achieve more dazzling results, but an accident a year later made her life fall to the bottom.

On July 21, 1998, on the eve of the 4th American Friendship Practice, Sunland was practicing gymnastics in the gymnasium as usual, "Bang! With the sound of a heavy object falling to the ground, she was found falling to the ground.

When she woke up, the first thing she did was grab Zhao Yuxin, the leader of the Chinese team next to her, and ask her, "When can I practice?" ”

Zhao Yuxin did not know how to answer this question, and the Sunlan in front of her looked at her with tears in her eyes, firm and hopeful.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

As Sunland's team leader, she knows exactly how deep Sunland's love for gymnastics really is, but she can't deceive Sunland, after all, Sunland will know the truth sooner or later.

"The doctor said your fracture was severe, high paraplegia below the chest, possibly ... I can't practice anymore. ”

The light in Sunlan's eyes dimmed suddenly, and she pretended to smile easily, and in turn comforted Zhao Yuxin, "It's okay, I believe I will be fine." ”

Unfortunately, after the positive rehabilitation treatment, Sunland still has not fully recovered, and this jump in New York completely ruined her career, and she had to return to China to rethink her future life.

Meet a love that will change your life

Sunland's husband Huang Jian is her agent, in the eyes of the public, the status of the two is very different, Huang Jian to find Sunland is more like using Sunland's fame and prestige for profit, but only Sunland knows what a good man her husband is.

In 1999, when Sunland, who had just been paralyzed, desperately needed to find a stable source of income, Huang Jian just retired from the Beijing fencing team and became an athlete agent.

At the recommendation of Sunland's teammates, Huang Jian and Sunland had a meal together. At that time, they did not agree on the need for cooperation.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

Sunland only wants Huang Jian to help arrange the event and is reluctant to give authorization, but Huang Jian hopes that Sunland can exclusively license the commercial activities to himself.

In addition, Huang Jian believed that Sunland in a wheelchair did not have enough commercial value at all, so he only gave her some substantive suggestions, and the two got along like ordinary friends afterwards.

In 2006, Huang Jian, who had returned to Beijing from Shenzhen, took the initiative to contact Sunland, and the two of them had a speculative conversation on the phone, after which Sunland proposed to have a meal with Huang Jian.

At the dinner table, Sunland revived the cooperation matters of a few years ago, at this time the concept of both of them has a certain change, Huang Jian also feels that Sunland has a huge value that has not been excavated, the two hit it off, and Huang Jian officially became Sunland's agent.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

Huang Jian once had a two-year marriage, he and his wife were married in 2007, but because of his long-term stay in Beijing to deal with work, his wife has been settled in Shenzhen, and the couple's original good feelings have gradually been smoothed out by life.

In 2009, Huang Jian and his ex-wife agreed to divorce, and the two peacefully completed the divorce procedures and property division.

It didn't take long for Huang Jian to become aware of his special feelings for Sunland, and Sunland gradually fell in love with her because of Huang Jian's long-term careful care. In 2010, Sunland announced his relationship with Huang Jian on Weibo.

Huang Jian often said that he and Sunlan are very much like soul mates, "I think she understands me very well, and at the same time I understand her very well." ”

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

Sunland has always disliked Huang Jian's habit of smoking and drinking, but she will never let Huang Jian change it with a tough attitude, but use a relatively gentle way to persuade him.

Similarly, Huang Jian is also very considerate of Sunland's various needs, and he believes that Sunland should embrace a normal life like normal people. When Sunland's father was angry because Sunland was singing k out in the early morning, he also helped to persuade Sunland's father.

The relationship between Sunland and Huang Jian is getting better and better under the deliberate maintenance of the two, and in 2013, Huang Jian formally proposed to Sunland, and the two entered the marriage hall arm in arm.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

But what promotes the rapid heating up of the relationship between the two is not the romantic bits and pieces of ordinary life, but a lawsuit that makes the two almost collapse.

After 13 years, Sunland filed a lawsuit

On April 28, 2011, Sunland formally filed a lawsuit through lawyer Haiming, and to the surprise of the public, the people indicted included Sunland's guardians Liu Guosheng and Xie Xiaohong during their time in the United States.

In 2010, Liu Guosheng told Sunland to go to the bank to withdraw a fifty thousand U.S. dollars in compensation, a figure that aroused Huang Jian's vigilance.

Sunland's injury was boiling over, Sunland's injury was extremely serious, why would there be a compensation of only 50,000 US dollars to Sunland's account, and the matter of 1998, why did it arrive in 2010?

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

Huang Jian therefore questioned that Liu Guosheng and his wife did not fulfill their guardianship obligations, at least they did not seek sufficient compensation for Sunland.

For this reason, Sunland and Huang Jian directly called the United States on a cross-oceanic phone call to ask Liu Guosheng, to which Liu Guosheng's answer was quite funny, and he left only six words: "For sino-US friendship." ”

Huang Jian said that if Liu Guosheng and his wife could pay more attention to Sunland and actively help Sunland defend his rights, Sunland's life after that would certainly not be so difficult.

Sunland said in the lawsuit that the reason why she made a mistake was entirely because someone removed the mat, but no one except herself came forward to support the matter.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

The "removal of the mat" is still a "Rashomon" to this day, and no one except Sunland knows what the situation was at that time.

Regarding the controversy caused by the early lawsuit, Huang Jian was not surprised, relying on the lawsuit to maintain Sunland's fame and personality was one of the reasons why he filed a lawsuit, but he did not expect that everything that happened after that was completely out of the original track.

In June 2011, Sunland's lawyer, Haiming, exposed Sunland's sexual assault without Huang Jian's consent, and in August of the same year, he sent his client to the dock on the grounds that Sunland was in arrears in legal fees.

These two events combined with the previous "removal of the mat" made Sunland's personality change from a smiling angel to a "lying spirit", and her public image was instantly shattered.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

In the 2012 Chinese New Year's Eve, Huang Jian and Sunland had an extremely difficult time, they did not have the heart to create the atmosphere of the New Year, and they only wanted to solve the mess in front of them.

This tragic feeling of being the enemy of the world made Huang Jian and Sunlan hug each other tighter and tighter, "At that time, it really felt like we only had each other." After experiencing the tribulations, the feelings of the two have become more and more profound.

The lawsuit ended in a settlement between Sunland's side and the U.S. accused agency, which acknowledged that Sunland's injuries were not personal and added $10 million in compensation.

At this point, this vigorous farce came to an end.

After desperately giving birth: I still want to have a second child

In 2008, Sunland, who had not yet fallen in love with Huang Jian, asked the doctor: "Can I have a child?" At that time, her doctor laughed and told her that high paraplegia did not affect women's reproductive function.

When this conversation occurred, Sunland's husband Huang Jian was also present, and he himself did not expect that in a few years, he would become the father of Sunland's children.

When a mother is Sunland's dream all along, as early as when the two were just married, Sunland told Huang Jian his thoughts directly, Huang Jian worried about his wife's body and persuaded her not to have children, but Sunland insisted on being a mother.

Shortly after the two married, Huang Jian found that his wife's menstruation had not come for a long time, and because Sunland had a strong desire to get pregnant, the two did not usually do contraception.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

"Wouldn't you really be pregnant?" With excitement and worry, Huang Jian went to the pharmacy to buy a one-time pregnancy test stick, and the test results made the couple very happy - Sunland was really pregnant!

Treating Sang Lan, who was upgraded to a pregnant woman, Huang Jian was more cautious, which can really be described as "holding it in his hand for fear of losing it, and holding it in his mouth for fear of melting." ”

In order to help urinate, Sunland has been taking bladder relaxants non-stop, and Huang Jian, worried that the drug will affect the normal development of the baby, specially sent an email to Sunland's American doctor Reg Nasson.

"It has not been clinically found that the use of such drugs affects the fetus." Seeing Reg Nasson's reply, Huang Jian was slightly relieved, but as a father, it was still difficult for him to completely relax his mind.

At the time of pregnancy, Sunland has a variety of pregnancy complications, and the strong physiological reaction during pregnancy makes Sunland almost lose half a life.

In the face of all kinds of discomfort, Sunland did not give up the dream of becoming a mother, she passed five levels and cut six generals, and finally came to the threshold of childbirth.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

Before pushing Sunland into the delivery room, the doctor told Huang Jian that although they had made a detailed birth plan, due to Sunland's special situation, there was no guarantee that the delivery operation would be successful.

Hearing this, Huang Jian held his wife's hand, silently cheered her up, and then silently released, watching his wife being pushed into the delivery room, and he prayed in his heart: Mother and child must be safe.

When the nurse held the child to Huang Jian, Huang Jian did not go to see his newborn son for the first time, but nervously asked the nurse: "How is sunlan?" ”

When he heard that the doctor's score of Sunlan was 10 points, Huang Jiancai was slightly relieved and looked down to carefully observe the crystallization of his and Sunland's love.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

Huang Jian and Sunlan named their son Huang Xiaobao, which means the treasure of the two, they did not have too much expectation and demand for their son, the only hope was that he could grow up smoothly and smoothly.

Sunland, who claimed to have returned from a circle in the "ghost gate", said in an interview with reporters that if she had the opportunity and time, she would like to have another baby.

Hearing this, everyone was stunned and asked Huang Jian's opinion. Huang Jian said that no matter what his wife decides, he will fully support it, but the top priority is to take good care of Huang Xiaobao.

Nowadays, Huang Xiaobao is almost 8 years old, Andran often updates the recent situation of his family of three on social platforms, and Huang Xiaobao in the picture is lively and cute, perfectly inheriting his mother's beauty.

"Vaulting Queen" Sunland: 17 years old fell into paralysis, 33 years old to give birth, 41 years old also want to have a second child

The marriage life of Sunland and Huang Jian has always been very happy, Huang Jian not only learned a variety of food recipes for Sunland, but also transformed into a "dressing master", and many of the clothes that Sunland attended the event were responsible for him.

Some netizens said, "LanLan's outfit every time she participates in the event is very good-looking, I don't know if I chose it myself or Lao Huang chose it." "Get Huang Jian" is my choice of "after the reply directly called and ate dog food, this originally unpromising marriage has gradually become the happy appearance of people's hearts."

A happy family life and a thriving career have enabled Sunland to step out of the haze of the year and stand under the sun again.

After countless ups and downs, Sunland finally ushered in its own rainbow.

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Resources

Beijing Youth Daily: "Sunland's first appearance after giving birth: the child helped me survive the "ghost gate""

Triptych Life Weekly: Sunland: Realistic Choices for a Perfect Life

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