In 2013, Liu Mintao and her rich husband traveled to Japan and there was an ice cream shop on the side of the stone road at Kiyomizu-dera Temple.
Liu Mintao said to her husband, "I want to eat matcha ice cream." ”
Her husband glared at her: "Such a big person, still eat ice cream, is it shameful to lose people?" Saying that, she turned and left, leaving her standing alone.
When Liu Mintao was 30 years old, it was the rising period of her career, but she chose to marry into a rich family and become a full-time wife. For 7 years, she has never thought about herself, and her heart is full of daughters and husbands. And her husband is busy at work, she does not understand the business world, and the estrangement between them is getting deeper and deeper. It wasn't until she found out that she had to ask her husband for money for a small ice cream that she realized how humble she was.
This small ice cream made Liu Mintao decide to divorce. She said she wanted to rebel once. She was 37 years old.
After the divorce, Liu Mintao quickly made a comeback, "Parental Love", "Lang Evil List", "Pretender", she created one classic role after another, and repeatedly won the Best Role Actress Award and the Annual Chinese Drama Female Star Award.
Later, after the divorce, she deliberately went to Kiyomizu-dera Temple to eat matcha ice cream, and she said in her speech, "Today I stand here and become my own patron, no longer need to bind my own wishes for other people's colors, I finally ate the matcha in my heart, the taste of freedom." ”
In marriage, it is a reality that the responsibility of caring for the family falls overwhelmingly on the shoulders of women. But a woman must never lose herself in marriage, and especially not independent economic ability. Becoming their own backer is the confidence of women to hold the right to speak in marriage. Just think, when it's not too late to start. Even in middle age, you still have the opportunity to turn the tables against the wind.
