Mother-in-law Zhang Kaili: "Would you like to live with me?" If you don't want to, just tell me, and if you want to move away, you can move away at any time."
Zhang Kaili: "What do you say Mom, living with you, taking care of you is my duty, I am willing to live with you."
These are the words spoken by the old drama bone Zhang Kaili.
In this way, Zhang Kaili and her mother-in-law lived together for 23 years, during which Zhang Kaili rarely did housework and still maintained her own living conditions, but between these 23 years, they did not have any contradictions.
Whenever she mentioned her mother-in-law to Zhang Kelly, her face was unconsciously filled with a happy smile.
Few people want to live with their mother-in-law, the Chinese-style mother-in-law relationship is not so easy to get along with, two people live together for a long time, there will be different opinions and differences.
However, as long as the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, the whole family will have great problems, and the most uncomfortable thing is the husband sandwiched in the middle!
I have to say that Zhang Kaili is a person with extremely high emotional intelligence, not only has a husband who loves her, but also has a mother-in-law who is very good to her.
Zhang Kaili has simply become a winner in life, but behind this is also bitterness and hardship.
1. Give up college and join the army
In 1962, Zhang Kaili was born in Changchun, when Zhang Kaili's parents did not have the deep-rooted concept of son preference, which was the greatest gift from heaven to her.
For the arrival of Zhang Kaili, Zhang's father and mother are very happy, and her parents do not ask her to be rich and noble in the future, as long as she is safe and secure.
Zhang Kaili's academic performance has been very good since she was a child, and the most rare thing is that she has her own opinions on everything she does, and no one else can influence her decision.
In high school, other students were nervously preparing for college, but Zhang Kaili was very relaxed.
The parents saw the situation and asked: "Li Li, why are you not nervous about the college entrance examination at all?" Don't you want to go to college? Although your parents have not strictly demanded you since childhood, you also have to work hard to prepare for the exam! ”。
Zhang Kaili smiled and said: "Parents, don't worry about me, I have my own ideas, I want to join the army after graduating from high school."
Zhang Kaili's parents did not refute Zhang Kaili's opinion, and her father was very supportive of her: "It is worthy of my daughter, it is good to go to the army, not only can train people but also temper their minds."
Of course, with Zhang Kaili's strong personality, even if her parents do not agree, she will join the army.
After the end of the college entrance examination, the neighbors around them were happily celebrating their children's admission to college, and Zhang Kaili's mother said with a very red eye: "You look at other people's children, I am now going out to buy vegetables, people ask me which university you have been admitted to, I don't know what to say."
Zhang Kaili said to her mother with a sly face: "Mom, don't be unhappy, your daughter will certainly not let you lose face in the future."
In this way, everyone else has bought a good suitcase, bought a good-looking dress, and is on the way to college, while Zhang Kaili has enlisted as a female soldier.
Just entering the army is very tired, Zhang Kaili also regretted in her heart, if you go to college, you should sit in the university classroom at this time, learning your favorite major.
But looking back, this is what I want to come, no matter how hard and tired I am, I must persist in it.
2. Learn to act after retiring from the army
In the life of the army, Zhang Kaili's mentality was constantly tempered, and she rushed to do any dirty work in it, and her comrades-in-arms liked Zhang Kaili very much.
This is three years, and she has grown a lot during these three years.
After retiring from the army, she was admitted to the performance major of Jilin Art College, originally after retiring from the army, her parents planned to let her find a job, and then find a good family to marry and have children, but Zhang Kelly did not want to be arranged so early.
Because when she was in the army, Zhang Kaili participated in the annual literary and artistic performances, which also made her fall in love with literary and artistic work, so she chose this path later.
Zhang's father and mother Knew that they could not influence Zhang Kaili's thoughts, so they agreed with her idea of going to school.
The unswerving and strong character also shows that Zhang Kaili's future path is not ordinary.
As the saying goes, retiring from the army does not fade, after Zhang Kaili came to school, she still lived the same life as the army, and when she got up in the morning to sort out her internal affairs, she would go to the playground to run a few laps.
At eight o'clock in class, Zhang Kaili got up on time at six o'clock, and then went to the playground to exercise, and her roommate once said: "Kelly, how good it is for you to sleep a little more, why do you get up so early to run, you are not fat."
Zhang Kaili: "I'm sorry I may have disturbed you, wow this has become a habit, it is uncomfortable not to exercise."
In the classroom, she also studied very seriously, and in the acting class, Zhang Kaili's performance was very generous, and the teacher said: "You have to learn from Zhang Kaili."
After entering school, she took everything seriously and had a great sense of self-discipline.
Graduation is equivalent to unemployment, Zhang Kaili has no background and relationship, after graduation she has been wandering in the dragon set actor, her parents have called her many times and said: "Go home, find you a job as a teacher, and arrange a blind date for you."
But Zhang Kaili's bones still revealed the strength of not accepting defeat, and she said to her parents: "Give me some more time, I must break out of the world."
Mom: "I never asked you for anything when you were so old, I told people that you are now an actor, and people asked me what drama you have acted in. I'm embarrassed to compare myself to others."
Zhang Kaili: "Mom, give me another year, if not, I will go home and listen to your arrangement is not good?" ”。
Sitting in the pile of extras, listening to other people chatting about some of the crew's gossip, Zhang Kaili looked up at the sky and sighed a long sigh...
3. Successful debut
Just when Zhang Kaili was most helpless, she encountered a very good opportunity, when auditioning for "Eight Girls To the River", her vivid acting skills left a deep impression on the director.
Then the director asked, "I feel that your temperament is very different."
Zhang Kaili: "I have been a soldier for three years."
Director: "No wonder, if I give you a role, can you finish the brilliant, do not let me down." 」
Zhang Kaili: "You can rest assured."
Zhang Kaili did not live up to the director's expectations of her, in "Eight Girls To the River", Zhang Kaili starred in her true color, fiercely fighting with the Japanese army, her acting skills are also very online, this movie directly let her enter the entertainment circle.
When her mother saw the movie played by Zhang Kaili, she sat excitedly under the screen and shed tears, and loudly told the people around her: "It is my daughter who plays Leng Yun in it, it is really my daughter."
After that, Zhang's mother said to Zhang Kaili: "Now it's OK, I can stand up when I go out to buy vegetables."
With this movie, the name Zhang Kaili has begun to have some fame in the entertainment industry, and the later "Desire" directly let her win the award for best actress.
When Zhang Kaili was busy filming, her mother would always call and ask, "Are you looking for a partner?" Mom has found a lot of things for you, if you don't like it, you can find it yourself, it's not too old."
Every time her mother said these words to Zhang Kaili, she was very impatient, she didn't know what she was waiting for, these times, her suitors were very many, but none of them were what she really liked.
In her career, Zhang Kaili has suffered for a long time, and she has been deceived when running the dragon set, and sometimes she will be bullied by other dragon set actors, but these she have relied on her perseverance to come step by step, which has exchanged for her brilliant star path.
Not everyone will be a blockbuster.
4. Get along with your mother-in-law for 23 years, the most beautiful relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Love doesn't have to be so intense before they can be together.
It was an accident when Zhang Kaili met her husband, who was not an insider, but a writer.
Her husband's name was Zhang Jianquan, and when she saw Zhang Kaili, she didn't know she was a star, and he politely went up and asked, "Miss, is it convenient for you to give me your contact information?"
When Zhang Kaili looked back at this man, there was also a slight ups and downs in her heart, thinking that he was different from those big bosses, and looked at him with books, thinking that he was a good person, so she gave him the phone.
Then the two people chatted, until in the process of chatting, a passerby shouted: "Look at it is Zhang Kaili."
Zhang Jianquan knew that the woman in front of him was a star.
Not long after, the two people have been in contact by phone, slowly, Zhang Kaili feels that this man has an indisputable personality, giving people a very down-to-earth feeling, and soon the two people have established a relationship.
It didn't take long for the two people to enter the palace of marriage, and when the two people got along, Mother Zhang agreed, but then Zhang Jianquan said a word, which made Mother Zhang directly change her mind.
Zhang Jianquan: "Our family is the youngest son in the family to give his parents a pension, so Kelly has to live with me and my parents to take care of them."
Mother Zhang knows what will happen to her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law together, and she hurriedly told Zhang Kaili: "Mom finds you a better one, forget about this, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not as good as you think."
Zhang Kaili: "Mom, you can rest assured, your girlfriend you don't know yet, I love him very much, he will definitely be good to me, you can rest assured."
Subsequently, Zhang Kaili and Zhang Jianquan held a wedding.
Unexpectedly, just after getting married, my mother-in-law said, "Are you willing to live with me?" If you don't want to, just move away."
Zhang Kaili: "What to say Mom, it is my duty to take care of you, and I am willing to live with you."
The most important thing in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mutual understanding and mutual respect, Zhang Kaili is very smart, she knows that once the relationship with her mother-in-law is not harmonious, the most uncomfortable is her husband.
No matter what her mother-in-law says, she will remember it, even if she does not want to do it, she will also confront her mother-in-law for half a sentence.
It wasn't that she was afraid, she knew that the old men's starting point was all for their good.
A woman has many roles in a family, to be a good husband's wife, to be a good mother, and to be a filial daughter-in-law.
Zhang Kaili and Li Li are known as the most beautiful mother-in-law relationship, the two people have been together for 23 years, during this period Zhang Kaili wants to do whatever she wants, never did housework, every New Year's Festival in front of the face of relatives she will also give her mother-in-law a big face.
The most important thing is that Zhang Kaili can earn money, which is what the in-laws appreciate her most.
When Zhang Kaili gave birth to her granddaughter, the mother-in-law did not dislike that it was not the grandson who gave birth, but was very fond of this granddaughter.
Whenever she mentions her mother-in-law, Zhang Kaili will always be filled with a happy smile.
Today's Zhang Kaili is very happy, not only has a husband who loves her, but also has been improving in her career in recent years, which is really a winner in life!
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