"Our family is a big family, and I've been living with my mother-in-law for 23 years now."
It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with, but Zhang Kelly and her mother-in-law are an exception.
In 1990, "Longing" made Zhang Kaili popular all over the country, and "Liu Huifang" became the embodiment of "national good daughter-in-law" for a time.
But at the peak of her career, Zhang Kaili went to Shenzhen for love and disappeared for many years.
However, 10 years later, her husband also gave up his career for love and came to Beijing from Shenzhen.
The love story of the two can be described as envying others, and they do not lose the idol drama at all.
After marriage, Zhang Kaili not only successfully handled the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also continued to grow under the double burden of mother-in-law and mother-in-law.
She has been in the shadows for many years, and under the impetus of her husband and daughter, her career has set sail again, but how many people know her "bitterness"?
"Liu Huifang" in the TV series played the parents for a short time, and the "Zhang Kaili" in life used herself to tell the couple's deep affection.
01
In 1978, after graduating from high school, Zhang Kaili was selected by the army to become a narrator at the Beijing Military Museum.
Although those days in the army were very hard, this just honed Zhang Kaili's will.
However, in the face of this iron rice bowl work, Zhang Kaili feels that her ambition is not here.
In 1981, Zhang Kaili resolutely returned to her hometown and applied for the performance major of Jilin Academy of Arts.
It was also at this moment that she and the performance formed an indissoluble relationship.
In 1987, Zhang Kaili officially entered the show business circle with the movie "Eight Girls Throwing The River".
But in the next few years, Zhang Kaili has been in a dragon running set, tepid state.
Until three years later, Zhang Kaili became a household star with the role of "Liu Huifang" in "Longing".
Even if you take a taxi, the driver will talk to him endlessly, and when you go to buy clothes, you will be forced by the store to give them away...
"Marry Liu Huifang when you marry a wife" has also become the slogan and pursuit of a group of single young men.
That is to say, at that time, Zhang Kaili would become the focus of people no matter where she went.
However, along with the explosion, Zhang Kaili is also under tremendous pressure.
Many people who can't afford to raise children will take the child to her home and let Zhang Kaili help adopt it.
Some elderly people who are old, weak, sick and disabled will also find Zhang Kaili and ask her to give herself a pension, buy medicine, and take care of her daily life.
Even sometimes donating to disaster areas can be accused of donating too little...
But this is only because "Liu Huifang" played by Zhang Kaili is too deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Over time, Zhang Kaili has also been living in the shadow of "Liu Huifang", and this is not only manifested in life.
Since then, even if Zhang Kaili has specially chosen a role that contrasts greatly with "Liu Huifang", it is difficult to transform successfully.
Either the response is not large or the audience will play, which makes Zhang Kaili at that time very confused.
As the saying goes: frustration in the workplace, pride in the field.
In April 1995, Zhang Kaili went to Shenzhen with the crew of "Longing" to perform, and met her husband Zhang Jianquan at the event site.
Zhang Jianquan is a well-known local writer, and the two are also in love at first sight, and they see it at a glance.
But at that time, Zhang Kaili was very shy, and the problem of hindering face did not express his love, but Zhang Jianquan could not resist his inner like.
As long as there is free time, Zhang Jianquan will call Zhang Kaili to come out.
The two of them met together in the streets and alleys of Shenzhen to feel the customs and customs, and also went to the street to eat various snacks together...
Over time, Zhang Kaili was completely surrendered by Zhang Jianquan, and the two naturally talked about love.
02
After the performance, a group of people who were preparing to return to Beijing could not wait for Zhang Kaili's figure.
"I'm not ready to go back, I'm in love, no, I'm not in love, I'm getting married."
The agent who was preparing to take Zhang Kaili back to Beijing heard her words and immediately panicked.
"Zhang Kaili, are you crazy, now is the heyday of your career, you want to get married, then what about your career?"
"Career will always have a period of rise and a low period, I can take it slowly, but the lover is unattainable, and I will never let go when I meet it."
In this way, after Zhang Kaili and the agent had an in-depth conversation, they dispersed unhappily.
This time, Zhang Kaili gave up her career in pursuit of happiness and stayed in Shenzhen.
At the end of 1995, Zhang Jianquan took Zhang Kaili home to meet his parents, and Zhang Jianquan's mother saw that Zhang Kaili liked it very much, took her hand and said:
"Kelly, if something wrong with my son, tell me and I'll clean him up for you."
Hearing this, Zhang Kelly immediately smiled and blossomed, and the family ended the meeting in laughter.
In 1996, Zhang Kaili and Zhang Jianquan entered the palace of marriage together and started their happy life.
However, at that time, Zhang Jianquan had just changed his career to business, and his career was just starting.
Naturally, in terms of economic conditions, it cannot be compared with Zhang Kaili, so all the expenses of the wedding banquet are borne by Zhang Kaili.
After marriage, Zhang Kaili of course also hopes that her husband can return to Beijing with her to develop, but because her husband's network resources are in Shenzhen, she also dispelled this idea, and she also moved her hukou to Shenzhen without stopping.
But Zhang Kaili, who thought that she could continue to take over the role in Shenzhen, was not so satisfactory, and she also realized that Shenzhen and Beijing are completely different.
Therefore, in those years, Zhang Kaili's acting career was greatly affected.
In the second year after marriage, Zhang Kaili gave birth to the crystallization of the love between the two people, named Zhang Keying.
The birth of her daughter made Zhang Kaili completely choose to be a full-time wife, focusing on her husband and children at home.
But at that time, Zhang Jianquan's career development was also not smooth, and the most difficult moments could only be described as "poor and white".
But fortunately, the love between the two of them supports the family, and they encourage each other and accompany each other.
When her daughter was 3 years old, the Central Experimental Drama Theater contacted Zhang Kaili and intended to transfer her to work in the courtyard.
At this time, Zhang Kaili has missed the golden period as an actress, but even if she is unwilling, she has not complained to her husband for a single minute.
On the contrary, the husband knows Zhang Kaili best, knows that she is a strong woman, and understands that housewife is not her dream life at all.
Therefore, Zhang Jianquan felt that he could no longer grievance Zhang Kaili, and he said to Zhang Kaili:
"Daughter-in-law, you have given so much for this family, and you have also made me and my daughter, now if you want to pursue your dreams, go ahead, I support you unconditionally."
Hearing her husband's words, Zhang Kaili was very moved, so she returned to Beijing with her daughter to continue filming, and also began to be different from her husband.
I thought I could show my skills in the show business, but I didn't think that the accident would happen again.
Her mother in Changchun suffered from uremia, and Zhang Kaili, as a daughter, took her mother to Beijing in order to get better treatment for her mother.
This means that Zhang Kaili can only put her dream aside again.
03
During that time, Zhang Kaili once again returned to the life of a housewife, and after sending her daughter to kindergarten every day, she returned to the hospital to take care of her mother.
Kindergartens, hospitals, and homes became the places she went every day, grocery shopping, cooking, and running around became the things she had to experience every day.
But just when the mother found a suitable kidney source and began to reject, the mother-in-law who was far away in Shenzhen also fell ill.
The mother-in-law's knees were bone-piercing, and even walking was a problem, let alone taking care of herself.
Therefore, Zhang Kaili directly took her mother-in-law to Beijing and lived in the same hospital as her mother.
Seeing this, many people will definitely think, Zhang Kaili's husband does not love her very much, how to throw all the burdens to Zhang Kaili?
In fact, at this time, Zhang Jianquan had secretly turned his business "battlefield" to Beijing, but in order not to distract his wife, he did not inform Zhang Kaili.
Maybe this two-way love will be longer, and marriage is not a one-person thing at all.
Not long after, the mother-in-law and mother's condition was alleviated under the careful care of Zhang Kaili and met the criteria for discharge.
In order to make the two old people completely healed, Zhang Kaili repeatedly chose to leave her mother-in-law and mother in her home.
However, even if the relationship between Zhang Kaili and her mother-in-law is good, it may not be that the two old people can not have conflicts.
And what Zhang Kaili can do is a bowl of water flat, never favoring either side.
The diet at home is arranged according to the tastes of the two elderly people, eating, wearing, and using exactly the same.
But even so, the two old men were still not satisfied, and they were always jealous.
When serving rice and water, who comes first and who comes after the two old people also have to argue endlessly, even if it is to peel an orange, it is bigger than whom.
Even zhang Kaili was a little more careful and soft in her mother-in-law's language, and her mother would say sourly:
"I'm your mother-in-law, and she's your mother."
Hearing this, Zhang Kaili cried and laughed, but she also had to be patient, and he said to his mother:
"Mom, we are related by blood, I and my mother-in-law are in-laws, my mother-in-law is very good to me, naturally I have to be careful when I speak and do things."
Hearing her daughter say this, the mother thought for a moment and felt that it was very reasonable, so she never mentioned it again.
However, under the double attack of her mother-in-law and mother, Zhang Kaili still felt a great burden and poured bitter water on her husband from time to time, and Zhang Jianquan was also very patient to enlighten her:
"It is not necessarily a bad thing for two old people to fight for the wind and be jealous, which just proves that they are very dependent on you, not only a good daughter but also a good daughter-in-law, so you should not feel annoyed and should be proud." 」
Hearing this, Zhang Kaili immediately reacted and felt that it was very reasonable.
Since then, Zhang Kaili has not only handled the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, but also handled the relationship between mother-in-law and mother.
Over time, under the care of Zhang Kaili, the two old people gradually recovered, and their mother also proposed to return to their hometown.
Zhang Kaili continued to live with her mother-in-law until now, for a full 23 years.
They never had a red face, but they got along like mother and daughter, without any mustard.
The mother-in-law also said to everyone: "My daughter-in-law Zhang Kaili is even more filial piety than Liu Huifang." ”
04
After solving everything in the family, Zhang Kaili completely returned to her beloved acting career.
At this time, Zhang Jianquan's commercial "battlefield" also turned to Beijing, and there was a pick-up, earning "full of pots and bowls", and had a certain reputation in the business circle.
But Zhang Kaili is still facing the previous "transformation" problem, and her acting career is still sinking to the bottom.
Although in the next few years, Zhang Kaili took over many film and television dramas, but the response was flat.
Over time, Zhang Kaili became very troubled, sometimes bored at home all day and did not go out, often unable to control her temper.
This made Zhang Kaili's husband and daughter very worried, but they were afraid of destroying Zhang Kaili's self-confidence, so the two could only carefully enlighten Zhang Kaili.
In order to regulate his wife's emotions, Zhang Jianquan bought a Persian cat for Zhang Kaili.
During that time, Zhang Kaili trained kittens at home every day and slowly became cheerful.
Zhang Kaili also realized that she could not continue like this, so Zhang Kaili was ready to change careers to open a leather clothing store.
After hearing his wife's idea, Zhang Jianquan was very agreeable, and he paid for it and contributed.
However, just when preparing to open, the director of "Defending Yan'an" found Zhang Kaili and wanted her to play "Song Meiling" in the play.
After hearing this news, Zhang Kaili was excited and worried, and she was afraid that she would not interpret the role well.
Her husband and daughter also saw Zhang Kaili's concern, so they encouraged her and cheered her up.
I didn't think that "Song Meiling", played by Zhang Kaili, although there are not many scenes, but the acting skills are still very brilliant.
In 2011, Zhang Kaili starred as the mother-in-law in "The Naked Marriage Era", and her career once again returned to the peak era.
As everyone knows, this success is indispensable to the daughter and husband behind the scenes.
In order to enable Zhang Kaili to create a good role image, the father and daughter took the initiative to act as staff officers for the role.
Not only in the image, tone, appearance of the effort, even the lines are also proposed to modify the idea.
In this way, Zhang Kaili finally successfully transformed with the role of Tian Shuyun in "The Naked Marriage Era".
Zhang Kaili, who "re-emerged from the jianghu", has successively filmed popular TV series such as "Flash Marriage", "Let's Get Married", "New Love Era", "Take the 88 Bus Home", "Long Live Love" and so on.
Zhang Kaili also jumped from the original "national daughter-in-law" to a "mother professional household".
However, she has a smooth career and is also very happy in the family.
Not only does he have a daughter who stands tall, but he also has a husband who is very tolerant of himself.
In life, Zhang Jianquan will always create some small surprises and small romances for Zhang Kaili, and will prepare a large bouquet of roses every time he comes to a festival.
However, this actually made the daughter unhappy, thinking that her father was always partial to her mother.
From time to time, he would tease the two people: "Can it be less greasy and crooked?" ”
For so many years, the life of a family of three has always been very happy and happy.
In 2014, Zhang Kaili also participated in "Flowers and Youth" with the support of her daughter, and suddenly gained millions of fans.
Today, she is still active on the stage and has created many classic roles for everyone.
05
In this year's "Winter Dream Covenant" program, there are many people who know that Zhang Kaili was not only an athlete in the Speed Skating Team of Changchun Sports School.
He is also the captain of Ye Qiaobo, the first trophy winner of the mainland East Olympics, which is really hidden.
When skating with the world champion, it is still not worse than the youngsters, and it is easy to be on the ice.
Today, Zhang Kaili is 59 years old, still living with her mother-in-law, and using her old age to support her mother-in-law and mother's old age.
And Zhang Kaili's filial piety is also subtly influencing her daughter, Zhang Keying will also say to her mother:
"Mom, when you and dad get old, I will be as filial to you as you were to grandma and grandma."
I have to say that Zhang Kaili is really a winner in life.