"If you are born and not raised, you can return your fingers; if you are born and raised, you can return your severed head; if you are not born and raised, it is difficult to return in a hundred lifetimes!"
In 2016, in the court of Guang'an City, Sichuan Province, a father and daughter went to court, and the adoptive daughter Fang Mengzhen sued Fang Chongcai, the adoptive father who had raised him for 23 years, in order to break off the relationship. In the end, the court also ruled that the two men had severed their relationship.
What happened to the two people who were originally father and daughter? Why is there such a situation between father and daughter?
Fang Chongcai was born on March 26, 1962, in a village in Guang'an, Sichuan Province, to an older brother, Fang Chongqian, who was 10 years older than himself, and his father died shortly after his birth.
What is even more unfortunate is that Fang Chongcai, who has been weak and sick since childhood, has suffered from meningitis, and his intelligence and mobility have been affected, but Fang Chongcai's mother has never given up on him.
After his brother Fang Chongqian got married, his mother spent all her energy on taking care of Fang Chongcai,but congenital meningitis made Fang Chongcai still a bare stick at the age of 31.
However, one day in October 1993, an uninvited guest came to the village, and his arrival also changed the life of Fang Chongcai's family.
At noon that day, a guest from the village, holding a baby girl in his hand, went door to door in the village to ask if anyone would like to adopt the girl, and even knelt down for the villagers.
And this man because the family has always wanted a boy, the family is also poor, helpless to give this baby girl who was just born not long ago.
The villagers looked at the man in front of them and the child in his hand, and they were silent. After all, the villagers' families are not rich, and they have one more child to raise for no reason, and many villagers can't afford it.
The village party secretary read it, and after asking the villagers fruitlessly, he first took the child home to live for one night, and if no one was willing to adopt it, the baby girl could only let the man bring it back.
Just at this time, Fang Chongcai, who had just returned from farm work, saw this lively scene and learned from the villagers that there was a baby girl who needed to be adopted.
The village secretary also knew that Fang Chongcai's family had always wanted to have a girl, so he asked Fang Chongcai if he was willing to adopt the baby girl.
Fang Chongcai, who was inconvenient to speak about this matter, said, "This..."
The villagers also knew that Fang Chongcai was very kind and did not marry a daughter-in-law, and they urged him to adopt the baby girl.
Soon Fang Chongcai agreed to adopt the baby girl and took her back home. The mother was also very happy to see this child, and her brother Fang Chongqian also felt good.
At this point, Fang Chongcai officially adopted this girl and took care of her living life.
When he just returned with this baby girl, Fang Chongcai rushed to the town non-stop to buy milk powder, glucose, diapers, etc., and for a time his father's responsibility was presented.
Fang Chongcai had never had a child, and at the beginning he was also busy, but fortunately he had his own mother to help take care of it. The family was also very happy with this new member and named her "Fang Mengzhen".
As the days passed, Fang Chongcai's mother also died of overwork, and before her death, she entrusted her eldest son to take good care of Fang Chongcai and her granddaughter.
In this way, Fang Mengzhen thrived under the care of Fang Chongcai's family. When Fang Mengzhen was in junior high school, she chose to go out to work after graduation.
Fang Mengzhen, who just came out of work, was very considerate of his father's difficulties, and would send money back on time every month to give his adoptive father Fang Chongcai a life.
During his time working in the factory, Fang Mengzhen met her current husband, who was also a child born in a poor family, and his parents were authentic farmers.
Soon the two fell in love, and Fang Mengzhen happily took her husband back to see her parents.
But Fang Chongcai looked at the man in front of him, he was not kind, at first he refused this marriage, and his brother Fang Chongqian did not agree with this family affair. But Fang Mengzhen insisted on marrying, and the Fang family had no choice but to agree.
The filial piety Fang Mengzhen also had only one requirement for this family affair: Fang Chongcai must live with himself. This means that his father Fang Chongcai also "married" with himself.
Fang Mengzhen's in-laws also agreed to this request, so in 2010, Fang Mengzhen and her husband held a wedding.
Not long after they got married, Fang Mengzhen's in-laws were still willing to accept fang Chongcai's arrival, but as time went on, Fang Mengzhen's in-laws began to dislike Fang Chongcai, who had low intelligence.
Sure enough, not long after, Fang Mengzhen's husband began to dislike this "drag oil bottle" and began to think of rushing Fang Chongcai away to save some grain for the family.
At first, when her husband proposed it to Fang Mengzhen, Fang Mengzhen directly refused. However, as her husband often did not return at night, Fang Mengzhen's filial piety was gradually smoothed out.
Fang Mengzhen began to complain about Fang Chongcai: why did he want to adopt himself in the first place, his biological parents were much better off than him, and now he still caused his husband to quarrel with him frequently.
In this way, Fang Mengzhen sent him back to his hometown on the grounds that he could not take care of Fang Chongcai, and at this time, Fang Chongcai did not know that Fang Mengzhen began to dislike himself.
Later, the two fathers and daughters completely tore their faces because of 30,000 yuan.
It turned out that after his brother Fang Chongqian saw that his younger brother Fang Chongcai was sent back to his hometown, he felt that something was wrong, and he called Fang Mengzhen.
But every time he called, he got a perfunctory answer from Fang Mengzhen, and Fang Mengzhen also promised to send daily necessities back to Fang Chongcai.
Fang Chongcai did not complain about anything, he understood his daughter's difficulty, and only asked his daughter Fang Meng to come back to visit him when she was free.
But Fang Mengzhen completely changed her heart, and when she returned to her hometown, she chose to visit her biological parents, but did not visit the Fang Chongcai family who had raised her for 24 years.
Fang Chongqian saw the situation and was afraid that his younger brother Fang Chongcai would not be able to enjoy his old age in peace. So in 2013, Fang Chongqian signed a contract with Fang Mengzhen's in-laws: "Fang Mengzhen raised Fang Chongcai to the age of 60, you can get a pension of 30,000 yuan." ”
And the agreement also explains: "During this period, Fang Mengzhen's family is not allowed to go to the bank to withdraw money for any reason, and if there is a loss, the two families must go together to collect it." ”
Such conditions, Fang Mengzhen's in-laws were also moved, after all, At this time, Fang Chongcai had reached the age of 51.
I thought that everything began to calm down, but in the Spring Festival of 2016, Fang Chongqian found that the 30,000 yuan had been withdrawn.
Angry, he came to Fang Mengzhen's mother-in-law's house to inquire about the reason, at first Fang Mengzhen's family wanted to pass the customs with the reason of reporting the loss of the collection, but finally found out the situation: Fang Mengzhen's family secretly went to the bank to take out the 30,000 yuan because they had no money.
At this point, the two families had a fierce quarrel, and then they also went to court, and the relationship between Fang Mengzhen and Fang Chongcai's family was officially broken.
One day in April 2016, two court personnel came to Fang Chongcai's home and handed him a court summons. The complainant is his own daughter Fang Mengzhen, who hopes that the court will rule that the two have severed their adoption relationship.
Fang Chongcai, who received this news, fainted at once, he did not understand why he had raised his daughter for 24 years, why was he so cruel, he did not understand what he had done wrong?
Soon the court tried the case in the first instance and ruled that the two men had severed their relationship. The reason is that Fang Chongcai did not comply with the "Maintenance Law" when he adopted Fang Mengzhen, and the age difference between the two did not reach 40 years old.
Fang Chongqian was unwilling to accept this result, he could not watch his brother being bullied like this, and then filed a second lawsuit, hoping to maintain the adoption relationship between the two.
On August 26, 2016, the results of the second instance trial were upheld, and the two were sentenced to sever their adoption relationship.
The disappointed Fang Chongcai family could only accept this result, but the court ruled that Fang Mengzhen's family must return Fang Chongcai's 30,000 yuan pension.
The news also spread in the village, and the villagers accused Fang Mengzhen of being a "white-eyed wolf", not even a wolf.
Finally, in August 2018, Fang Mengzhen returned the 30,000 yuan one after another, and the two families had nothing to do with each other.
This is the realistic version of "The Farmer and the Wolf", Fang Chongcai, who suffers from intellectual disabilities, has worked hard to support Fang Mengzhen for 23 years, but in exchange for the adoptive daughter Fang Mengzhen ruthlessly severed the relationship.
As the saying goes: "The grace of dripping water is springed". Fang Chongcai himself is not related to Fang Mengzhen, but he insisted on raising Fang Mengzhen for 24 years and worked hard for many years. If there was no Fang Chongcai at that time, perhaps Fang Mengzhen would not have grown up.
Gratitude is a traditional virtue that we should all promote, not a rake. We can't let the well-meaning people chill their hearts.
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