"The first female hooligan of the Republic of China", because of a decision of her father to change her life, jumped into the sea at the age of 28 and committed suicide
In 4 years, there are 3,000 men, countless lovers in a lifetime, and the experience is written into a book| modern love letter
We all know that the Republic of China period was an era of talents and beautiful people, and the intellectuals at that time were influenced by the new ideological trend, and their concepts gradually tended to be open. Breaking free from the shackles of thousands of years of feudal thought, everyone enjoys the right to freedom of ideas.
There was such a legendary woman born in the Republic of China period, her experience for most women at that time, is unattainable in a lifetime, legend: she had an affair with more than three thousand men in just four years. It sounded unbelievable, at that time, she was called "the first female hooligan of the Republic of China", she was Yu Meiyan. The following is an introduction to her life experience and the fate of the characters.
Born in 1900 in Taishan County, Guangdong Province, to a wealthy merchant family, Her father was a businessman and her mother was a well-read and knowledgeable scholar. Yu Meiyan was influenced by the good culture of her family since she was a child, and she has not lagged behind others in education. Out of a sense of cleverness, Yu Meiyan also taught herself English.
Overall, her family conditions are very good. In addition, her name is Yu Meiyan, which can be described as her name. There was no beauty in that era, and she became a beauty. She has been quite a bit of a posture since she was a child, and when she grows up, she is a beauty like a hibiscus in the water.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Yu Meiyan has become an 18-year-old girl. As the saying goes: "Men should marry, women should marry." Some men are attracted to her looks, but there is no expression. However, at the strong request of her parents, she had to listen to the words of her parents. So she married a man in Kaiping named Tan.
The man was dignified and dignified. Moreover, he once traveled to the other side of the ocean to do business, and his ideas were still relatively advanced and knowledgeable at that time. The two of them married, whether in terms of birth, family conditions, or education, they are a perfect couple created in heaven. At first, Yu Meiyan did not have any good feelings for this man. "One day husband and wife hundred days of grace", in the day after day together time, Yu Meiyan slowly developed a good feeling for the husband in front of her.
The good times were not long, and the days as calm as water were broken one day, and suddenly there was a large economic crisis in the husband Mr. Tan's family. Mr. Tan had to leave for business on the other side of the ocean, leaving his wife Yu Meiyan alone in the empty house. After her husband left, Yu Meiyan lived with her in-laws.
Since ancient times, the "mother-in-law relationship" has become a problem for thousands of years, and most mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will have more or less contradictions between them. Yu Meiyan's home is no exception. And in the middle of this, there is also the Tan family's sister-in-law who treats her with mean courtesy, which makes Yu Meiyan unable to accept everything now, and under the intolerability, Yu Meiyan chooses to flee to Guangzhou.
After fleeing to Guangzhou, it happened that a very serious murder occurred here. Cheng Biguang, the commander-in-chief of the Navy at the time, was stabbed to death, and the streets were full of suspicious personnel, and Yu Meiyan, who was dressed fashionably at this time, attracted the attention of the investigators.
Yu Meiyan was arrested without warning, and later her uncle used his official position as a county magistrate to come forward and say good things before releasing her on bail. This matter was passed down for ten hundred years, and soon the relatives on the in-law's side learned of Yu Meiyan's ugly incident, thinking that this incident had disgraced the family, so they made a good claim to break the marriage contract with Yu Meiyan.
After Yu Meiyan's father learned that his daughter had been dismissed by his in-laws, he sent her to the art center with a furious mood. What kind of place is this? Presumably a prison similar to the forced learning of labor skills. The father did not know that his impulsive decision would inadvertently change his daughter's fate, and Yu Meiyan began to wander from then on.
It may be because Yu Meiyan believes that she is attached to the "label" of divorce, and the mother's family no longer lives the life of her daughter, so she does not have too much restraint on her behavior, but listens to her inner voice. She lives alone, often going in and out of dimly lit bars, crowded balls, smoky casinos, and so on.
Her daily dress is like the current "Red Flower Sect Leader", wearing a bright red flower on her head and wearing a gorgeous costume. On such occasions, she soon met many rich brothers and was willing to accompany them to drink and dance. Yu Meiyan's temperament is spicy and generous, coupled with a beautiful figure and a beautiful face, it looks more and more charming and feminine, and she can often earn some tips.
She is willful and free, and she does not hesitate to go to the brothel for fun, and many people in the outside world regard her as a "strange woman". When you meet a man you like very much, you are willing to betray your hue; when you meet a man who is not so favorite, no matter how rich the other party is, you are not willing to spend the night with him.
At that time, gossip news spread Yu Meiyan's debauched words and deeds everywhere, because she had an affair with rich men, and most of them were married. So Yu Meiyan caused a lot of their family discord, and the serious ones reached the point of divorce. As far as Yu Meiyan's personal personality is concerned, she pays no attention to it, and even feels from the bottom of her heart that it has nothing to do with her, and everything is something you love and I wish. Later, in the folklore, her story was circulated, and people said that she had an affair with thousands of men in her life, and it was difficult to confirm whether it was true or false.
During the Republic of China period, the ideology has not yet been completely unsealed, and Yu Meiyan, as a woman, will eventually return to a stable life. Soon after, she met another businessman. The businessman, surnamed Ho, learned of her tragic experience and could not help but feel a trace of sympathy and pity. On the basis of their feelings, the two developed a good feeling for each other, so they discussed marriage, and the days began to settle down day by day.
However, "dead nature does not change" Yu Meiyan is not stable, still going her own way, often patronizing in some casinos and theaters, spending money extravagantly and extravagantly, and not knowing how to be diligent and thrifty. Over time, her husband began to get tired of Yu Meiyan, and he angrily published a newspaper saying that Yu Meiyan was "debauched and profligate." As a result, it can be imagined that the husband resolutely and resolutely dissolved the marriage contract with Yu Meiyan.
If the failure of the first marriage brought disappointment to Yu Meiyan's marriage, then the failure of the second marriage increased the area of Yu Meiyan's psychological trauma to a greater extent. Since then, she seems to have no hope for her feelings, and has the meaning and idea of breaking the jar. After calming down, she found three women with similar temperaments to her, who could be said to be deviant, to go in and out of various extravagant places together.
The reputation of the "Four Great Kongs" spread in Guangzhou, and the public at that time believed that Yu Meiyan was the first of the Four Great Kongs. The "Four King Kongs" are known and known to everyone in Guangzhou, and Yu Meiyan was famous at that time.
The first two marriages were enough to discourage Yu Meiyan, but under the guidance of fate, the third marriage came unexpectedly. If the first two were just physical and mental blows, the third marriage changed her fate for the rest of her life. It was 1925, and Yu Meiyan, by coincidence, had a friendly exchange with the son of the county magistrate of Nanhai County.
This "second generation official" man Yushu Linfeng, with a dignified appearance, is very handsome. The man was not only willing to spend all his money on her and loved her in every way, but also promised to marry Yu Meiyan and spend the rest of his life with her. Soon after, the two lived together and began a "trial marriage life". When the county magistrate's cousin heard about this incident, he tried his best to dissuade his nephew and Yu Meiyan from developing, but the two did not listen to their relatives and still loved each other like husband and wife.
Later, the county magistrate found Yu Meiyan and asked her to leave her son as soon as possible in a stern tone, otherwise he would return the 20,000 yuan that his son had spent on Yu Meiyan. Twenty thousand yuan was not a small amount at that time, and it was not something that ordinary people could earn casually. However, 20,000 yuan can still be raised in a short period of time for Yu Meiyan of the Mixed Liquor Bureau.
When Yu Meiyan gave all the money she had raised to the county magistrate's wife, she thought she could marry the county magistrate's son smoothly and smoothly, but the county magistrate actually wanted to arrest her according to the crime of "soil prostitution". The county magistrate's wife solemnly said that as long as she did not interfere with the life of her son in the future, she would no longer be punished and harassed. Yu Meiyan was hit by this and was disheartened. After much deliberation, she decided to go away.
Since there is no place for oneself at home, and one can even say that one's reputation has been destroyed at home, why not choose abroad? Yu Meiyan packed her bags and came to San Francisco alone. Coincidentally, here Yu Meiyan met her ex-husband, Mr. Tan. Tan Gongzi, who was engaged in business, was very sympathetic to Yu Meiyan after hearing what had happened to her, and felt that he should not have abandoned his wife and gone to another country alone.
At this time, Yu Meiyan thought that the husband and wife relationship that had broken down because of the in-laws' in-laws' assertion could break the mirror and reunite. Mr. Tan said that it was the Tan family who was sorry for Yu Meiyan, and he had thought about remarrying more than once. But as soon as he remembered that his wife had an affair with several men, he felt disgusting and ugly in his heart.
"There are not so many satisfactory things in life", in short, what Yu Meiyan did after her husband left, let Mr. Tan completely disappointed, so the remarriage should not be mentioned again. This time meeting her ex-husband should have been joyful and hopeful, but because of her husband's refusal, Yu Meiyan once again fell into a painful quagmire.
After Yu Meiyan returned to Guangzhou from San Francisco in desperation, she was even more libertine after several twists and turns, returning to and lingering in hotels, casinos and so on. Back in the place she had once known, Yu Meiyan was even more debauched, never thinking of restraining her behavior, like the walking dead.
During this period, she suddenly wrote a diary that mainly recorded her emotional disputes with men, and even included the feelings of x life, all of which were written into it, involving more than 3,000 men. After the diary was written, Yu Meiyan also gave the book a name "Modern Love Letter", also called "Romantic Love Letter".
In 1927, Yu Meiyan escaped into the empty door, but what was unexpected was that at this time, the county magistrate's son found Yu Meiyan and still wanted to marry her. After countless winds and frosts, Yu Meiyan knew that the two would never be able to return to the past, so she cruelly rejected the rich man's brother.
But the county magistrate's son was indomitable and pestered Yu Meiyan again and again. The nuns in the temple all thought that Yu Meiyan's heart was unchanged and the world was not clear, coupled with the solemn and solemn pure land of the Buddhist Gate being repeatedly harassed by Yu Meiyan lovers, it was really not like words, and in a fit of anger, they drove her out of this temple gate.
In April 1928, Yu Meiyan came to Shanghai from Hong Kong by ship. Yu Meiyan, who has no results in her search for love, has seen all the ups and downs of the world too lightly. When she was on the ship, she was often moody and couldn't laugh or cry. Maybe she felt that there was nothing in this world worth remembering, or maybe she felt that life was too tired and lifeless. After a moment of reflection, she finally jumped off the ship and ended her young life. Yu Meiyan quietly wrote in her last words: "In the next life, you may be a pure woman and get true freedom." ”
Perhaps it is difficult for the world to understand why having such a good family background and a beautiful woman with high looks will eventually end up like this.
There are only the following factors:
1. The shackles of the ideas of the times. In a society of "parental orders and matchmakers", it is difficult for most people to achieve long-term happiness in marriage. Like Dr. Sun Yat-sen and Lu Shi during the Republic of China, this couple also obeyed the orders of their parents at the beginning, and eventually became scattered in the world. Later, a saying spread: "Everyone in the world knows the joy of mountain age, but no one knows the sorrow of Lu Shi."
2. The vitriol of the in-laws. This is also one of the reasons for the failure of marriages.
3, Yu Meiyan's father's ruthlessness. If her father hadn't sent her to the art center, maybe her daughter wouldn't have fallen into bad habits.
4, Yu Meiyan's own debauched and spicy personality. This is the subjective cause of repeated failures in marriages. Dealing with marital relationships requires calm and composure, and must not be caused by a momentary impulse to cause big mistakes.