Recently, I chatted with my friends, and one of the words mentioned by everyone was all tired. Some people feel very tired at work, some people are under pressure to learn, some people are pressure from home, their parents feel that they should be married and should have children at this age, and some people are tired and even unable to sleep because of their own pressure. With the increase of age, everyone was slowly stripped of some domination, only silent sobbing, silent pampering, and silent growth. It seems that at a certain age, it is necessary to be that one eaves and cannot escape, so many things can only be carried by oneself, and many passes can only be broken by oneself.
It is not clear when I will gradually experience anxiety intermittently, there is a kind of inhalation is not very smooth, it is very likely that you can not say why, but there will always be a very decadent mentality that covers itself for a moment, and more than once the moment of walking forward suddenly stops. The teacher teaches us to have ideals and live in the direction we envision. But after growing up, I realized that the world was too practical, and the ideals had long been broken, but sometimes it felt farther and farther away, so I had to grit my teeth in order to live well.
A few days ago, after work and eating with good friends, a person said: Isn't this age the happiest, happiest age in life? Why do you always feel very tired, for a while everyone is silent, who is not like this? Some people often stay up late and work overtime for a job, and dare not refute the practices of leading cadres, and some people lose their smiles, although they are very upset and angry, but they still have to accompany customers with a smile. I thought that I was the protagonist of life, one of the best among the millions of male soldiers, but suddenly realized that I was just in the usual class, receiving a small salary and crowding the crowded subway station.
It turns out that there is only one word left in the life after adulthood, and almost everyone feels that they are supporting themselves at a certain moment. Sometimes the estrangement and misunderstanding of this world are so deep, there are some helpless and sad words that cannot be said, even if they are said, they are not understood, so many moments of collapse are laughing and saying that it is okay, because in many cases others care only because of civility and courtesy, no one will be sad about how much fragmentation is behind your open smile. In the original adult world, a smile was just a look. Happy laughter, suffocating laughter, even the possibility of running or laughing.
Do you have some difficulties at work, or do you have some pressure at home? Everyone is growing and developing diligently in their own small world, you don't have to suppress your own mentality, if you really feel hard, you have to tell the people and relatives around you, you don't have to bear all the pressure, you can find a little way to release it. Find a place to listen to a song, have a drink, or put on your phone headset and see the tour of the singer you were interested in before, and let yourself sing loudly at home, whether you have a rhythm or not.
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Young people must bear responsibilities and pressures in their lives, and deal with the dispute between willing and unwilling right and wrong. This is also the normalization, learn to be thoughtful and give in, but also understand that gritting your teeth is the only way to get through most of the hard years, when it is over, when some difficulties become the past, into the case of remembrance, you can feel no big deal.
Dear stranger, it is not clear which city you are in, you need to remember that no one is forcing you in any kind of life, no one is forcing everyone to persevere, and no one is forcing everyone to suffer. You need to have a clear understanding that only by moving forward diligently can you have more happiness and happiness. Half of the people in this big city are robbing of time, half are spending time, half are desperately trying to die, half of the people can only admit their lives; half of them come to heaven on earth, and half of them go to hell. And what kind of people do you belong to?