If you can't really see someone else's life, don't comment on someone else lightly because you're not her. The family's two children and the child's father are sick. Dabao went to the infusion alone.

If you can't really see someone else's life, don't comment on someone else lightly because you're not her.

The family's two children and the child's father are sick.

Dabao went to the infusion alone.

Every day, I take my 2-year-old xiaobao to the hospital twice in the morning and evening for injections and atomization. Xiao Bao was sick intermittently for a month, and I insisted on it alone.

I called my in-laws downstairs and sent a message, and I also deliberately let Dabao go to his grandparents' house for help, but his grandfather never appeared, and his grandmother only came once, and left less than two minutes after entering the house without saying a word.

I don't care, I'm used to it, and I'm usually alone. Out of sight, out of mind.

Yesterday at noon, I took Xiao Bao to the injection atomization, Xiao Bao has been crying and making trouble, how to coax is not good. The child is sick during this time, as long as he is awake, he lies in my arms, the dishes at home are rotten and cannot be cooked, and the child also has to take a lot of medicine every day without eating. So after the injection, I took the child directly to the wonton shop next to me and ordered a bowl of wontons.

The ravioli is good, the child has been crying, the people next to the crying are somewhat disgusted, the boss lady let me take the child out to play, do not cry and then eat the ravioli. I couldn't help but carry the child out, and as soon as I went out, I saw my mother-in-law wearing the purple cotton jacket I bought for her and carrying a new flower backpack to go shopping.

She looked at the child and shouted a child's name, the child cried a handful of snot and a handful of tears did not return to her, my mother-in-law immediately did not return to the head and continued to walk (I often found that she went in that direction at a fixed time every day, came back at a fixed time, and some people speculated that she might attend a health lecture hall or some other party). My kids and I watched her walk away without looking back.

After a few minutes of coaxing in to eat the ravioli, the child took a bite in his mouth and continued to cry, so I could only hold the child and walk back and forth, patting the child on the back as I walked. Slowly coaxing the child to eat five or six wontons, the child began to cry again.

The wonton shop lady and the guests who were eating at the same time couldn't look at it anymore, saying that you are really not easy, the child is sick, and no one can help you? What about the child's grandmother? I help you coax the child, you hurry up and eat a hot meal...

I said thank you sister, my children do not look for anyone, when they are sick, no one should hold them, and they will not be able to hold me all day. The child has been sick for a month, just at the door that is the child's grandmother, she went shopping, she did not help me I also forced not to come, I am a daughter-in-law from abroad, the mother's home is far away, I also want to rest, but I can't do it. She was just cruel in her heart, and seeing her grandson sick and crying like this, she couldn't stop her from continuing to shop.

Then, a lot of people are saying that my mother-in-law's is not, doing things without measure... Let me stop complaining, the child is a little older.

After I put the child to sleep, I held the sleeping child in one hand and ate the remaining cold wontons with the other. Then I went home with the baby in my arms.

Suddenly I felt very wronged. No matter how hard and tired I was before, I couldn't see my in-laws, so I didn't expect to have no ideas, and I couldn't see and didn't bother. But today was just the time to meet, she was still this indifferent look, I suddenly could not accept it. Because I know that no matter from the legal, human, moral aspects, my in-laws and I and my husband have the responsibility and obligation to take care of them when they are old, but now I also need their help. Aren't we family? Isn't the child her own grandson?

I cried, and after my mother found out, she said that I should cook and eat at home, and said that I should move out of the neighborhood and stay away from them. It's easy to say, but what's as easy to do? Because every family situation is different, everyone can make different decisions, and the person who made the wrong thing is not me, why should I toss it? I don't understand.

My husband said you did well enough, she didn't do it right, she didn't have a heart and lungs, you weren't warm, and she never cared about me.

Because I care about this family, so I used to dig my heart and lungs out of my mother-in-law, and even my mother-in-law's father and mother I also took out my heart and lungs, every New Year's Festival, buy oil noodles, fish and meat clothes for my husband to send to his grandfather, my mother-in-law's is even more indispensable. He saw all this in his eyes and remembered it in his heart.

I don't need your accusations, what I need is strength, the strength to keep me going. I don't want to say right or wrong, I just feel that I am wronged. Maybe it was Xiao Bao's illness for a month that I was worried about being in a hurry and made me think that I was actually very vulnerable.