What kind of feelings do you most want to encounter?
I think most people's answers should be: parents agree, they like, they agree, and the three views can go on forever.
Of course, this is also the hope of everyone, hoping that the people they meet can be the right people, and they can go on forever. As someone once said.
"The most important decision in a person's life is not where to settle down, nor which line of work to make a living, but what kind of person to choose as his lifelong partner. Because it is this person who wants to spend the rest of your life holding hands with you and walking the long road of the future together. ”
Yes, back then, we all held this kind of image, but reality is always full of uncertainty. A lot of things aren't going to be as smooth as we think they are.
Later, we learned that there was no perfect thing in this world, and people always had regrets. It's not that you meet a person, fall in love with a city, and think you can go on forever.
Some people, just accompanied us on a journey, and finally left our lives. As someone once said: "When you encounter a red exclamation point, it means that the relationship is over, and you have to learn to let go." ”
Indeed, the end of the relationship seems to be like this, from the beginning of the addition of friends, to the verification, modification of notes, and then the top chat, will also be particularly concerned about him, after you began to chat hot, but then do not know from when, your relationship gradually cold, to the end of the cancellation of the top, modify the notes, restore the background, delete friends, everything seems to be back to the original point.
This is probably something that all couples who have not been able to reach the end have experienced, but the connection can be deleted, but the memory cannot be deleted.
So you will start again with your memories, and you will meet another person. Speaking of which, some friends will say, isn't this very irresponsible? Obviously you have another person in your heart, how can you still fall in love with a "new person". Isn't that "scum"?
But isn't that the truth of feelings? After all, the feelings from beginning to end are not the majority, and more often than not, he only exists in novels. In real life, you will still start a relationship again.
This is the truth of feelings: "I will remember you and then like someone else." ”
I remember seeing such a post on the Internet:
I thought that after knowing you, I would not meet anyone else, you were my only one, but I didn't think that in the end it would be separation. I thought that after losing you, I would not be able to let go of this relationship, I would not be able to walk out of the regret of losing you, and there would be no way to start over. But after all, this is just what I thought.
I still started a new relationship again, just didn't forget, but let go. Now that I have recorded this relationship here, it is also the last time I miss this relationship, and then I will really say goodbye.
I still remember that year when we met, when I saw you for the first time, I was attracted to you, as for when I liked you, probably when I was sick, you cared about me.
After that, I began to consciously or unconsciously pay attention to you and talk to you, to actively approach you, and I didn't know that it was my delusion, I don't think you hated me, I think you should like me too.
So on Valentine's Day, I finally plucked up enough courage to ask you to come out and confess to you. In fact, at that time, my mood was also worried, afraid of your refusal. Good thing you didn't reject me, we were together.
Only later, due to various reasons, we could not get to the end, we still broke up, just broke up during the time, in fact, I really can't accept it, I began to want to save, but in the end it failed.
I thought I wouldn't touch feelings again in my life, until I met her and made me start over. The past will eventually pass, and gradually we will all disappear into our respective lives. Gradually, we all had our own lives. I admit I really don't love you now.
But it doesn't mean that I haven't loved you, and when I'm with you, I really love you. It's just that we all missed it and we all started all over again. I won't forget you, but I won't dwell on the past anymore. Although I will think of you occasionally, there will be no more waves. Because we will all start over, I hope we can all be happy all the time.
Yes, from this post we can also see the male protagonist's love for the ex. This is not a love of the new and dislike of the old, this is an inevitable process of feelings.
After all, not all feelings can go all the way to the end, and not all feelings can end from one to the end even after they are lost. Most of those feelings only exist in novels or film and television dramas.
We ordinary people will choose to start over. Because we will all meet the right person in the end, we will eventually let go. We will eventually become people in memory.
This is also the truth of feelings, not that after losing you, we will not like another person, we will still like other people. Because the truth of the relationship is: "I will forget her and then like another person".
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