Text/Flying Fish
When people reach middle age, they look at themselves in the mirror and find that their once childish faces are filled with vicissitudes, and their once simple eyes are full of pity.
Without lamenting that the years have brought me a rich experience, it has also made us taste sour, sweet and bitter.
When people reach middle age, they get some things, but they also lose a lot of things, from the previous impulses to the current deep consideration, and find themselves slowly maturing.
All the way to the way, stumbling, once missed the opportunity, will no longer wave to themselves, and the road they have chosen, but has become their current appearance.
In fact, Ah Bao said to me, saying that he saw his current self, felt a little regretful, regretted how he was so rebellious, working against his parents, did not retire according to his parents' arrangements and came back to do stable work, and now he has no job, everything wants to start again, it is too difficult, because he is now 36 years old, and he feels that life is so difficult.
There is no regret medicine in life, every step counts, when his aunt arranged for his eldest brother to go to work in the unit, but the eldest brother did not go, but chose to start his own business, at that time it was the dividend period of entrepreneurship, the eldest brother seized the opportunity, relying on his own technology, the factory became bigger and bigger.
And the one who went to work in the stable unit was his second brother, who also seized the opportunity and was admitted to the establishment, and now that he is middle-aged, relying on the iron rice bowl, life is very comfortable.
Big Brother's business has risen and fallen, and it is also on the right track.
And only Ah Bao, now middle-aged, feels very helpless, he retired from the army, did not choose to go to work, but chose to drive his own truck, feel very free.
There is no absolute freedom in the world, and every choice you make is actually a gain or a loss, a risk.
After Enjoying so many years of freedom, people reached middle age, found that the freight market was getting more and more difficult to do, and finally sold the truck, now unemployed, want to find a way, entrepreneurship is difficult, and finally go to the logistics company to send express.
Your choice means your life, don't complain, you can't regret it, even if people reach middle age and come to the trough of life, they must have the courage to climb out, and they must adjust their mentality in time to see everything.
Life may have missed a lot of things because of some of your own choices, and when you look back now, what you missed and what you got are actually relative.
Life, but also by you regret, miss is missed, can not start again, will let you understand what is regret, what is regret is not the beginning.
And life must always continue to live, everything must look forward, learn to follow the trend, do not complain, content and happy.
Middle age is a watershed moment in life. The choices of the first half of life determine the life of the second half of life. If you are too comfortable in the first half of your life, then the second half of your life will be more difficult. Because life is difficult to have both, it is impossible to get everything, and we must always learn to go with the flow.
When people reach middle age, they see through everything in the world, learn to look down, learn to laugh and pass, and then live well, live well, live up to the years, do not live up to themselves, and persist no matter how difficult it is.
People to middle age, the mentality must be stable, do not get angry, physical health is very important, do not go to the truth and calculation, live well, live well, do not live up to the encounter, do not owe yourself, life is short, easy and rare, one year old and one year old state of mind, I hope that after you experience vicissitudes, the heart is still safe and sound.
When people live for a lifetime, there will always be many unhappiness and difficulties, no one is a horse, and every time they encounter something, it is a process of cultivation.
After a year of age, a journey, time will tell you that everything goes with nature, and then you can go with the flow.
In this life, in fact, it is just like this, hard work, busy and busy for life, always learn to rely on themselves, learn to be strong, no matter how difficult the road, but also to go by themselves, the stability of others, can not solve your food, clothing, housing and transportation.
When people reach middle age, I hope you can understand that not for others, but for yourself, when there is no backer, you will cheer yourself up, live well, don't think too much, gains and losses are doomed, the wind and clouds are light, and there will be happiness.
Despite your hard work, everything is arranged by heaven, and life is just a matter of fate!
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