One of the most connotative words in China is "an."
The word "An", with a treasure hijab on the top, means home, and a "woman" below.
In fact, it is telling us: there is a woman in the family, you can be at ease.
The old saying goes: Wife and husband, is a profound interpretation of this word.
A happy family does not have to be freshly dressed and delicious, nor does it need to be full of gold and jade.
To have an elegant, reasonable woman is the greatest blessing.
Houde can carry goods, and Houde can also support the family.
They are well-intentioned, charitable, and kind-hearted, in fact, they are accumulating virtue for their husbands and children at home.
With her, men do not do reckless things, and children will have a bright future.
The man is the pillar of a family, the main heart;
A woman is the feng shui of a family, and it is the qi number of this family.
Someone on the Internet gave an example like this:
1, you come home at night, as soon as you enter the door and see the shoes are in a mess, will you have a good mood?
2, you want to go to eat something, into the kitchen and refrigerator are a layer of ash, do you still have an appetite?
4, your wife is disheveled, grabbing you to talk about how much to win and how much to lose in playing mahjong, how much to buy a bracelet, how much is it, are you still in the mood to listen?
5, you were busy outside a night of business, came home early in the morning, wanted to drink some hot soup to relieve the wine, pushed open the bedroom door to see, the wife is still sleeping, you said you want to eat, she said to you, I am also hungry, you want to go down to buy some instant noodles back to cook together to eat it. Will you go down and buy it back? ......
Therefore, to have a good woman at home is really a blessing for a man.
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Women are made of water, and water is wealth, and men's fortunes are inseparable from women.
If a man wants to be lucky all the time, he must respect this living "god of wealth" in the family. However, many men only pay homage to the statue of the god of wealth and always ignore the living god of wealth in the family.
There are still many men who are developed and knowledgeable, and they always feel that their wives and themselves are not at the same level, plus successful men will always attract bees and butterflies around, and many women will deliberately revolve around them, and eventually cheat, divorce...
However, driving away the original wife is actually equivalent to driving away his own wealth star. The virtue they have accumulated in you will also be dismissed by you.
Even if you change a young and beautiful wife, such women often belong to the people who are in danger of taking advantage of people, and they will not only not bring you blessings, but also need to be attached to the aura of men, and invisibly absorb men's energy.
Many men have begun to decline their careers since then, and even led to the destruction and decay of businesses and families.
So we can also find that all the men who have not abandoned their wives after success can basically be rich and old, and enjoy their old age in peace, and there are still countless examples.
For example, charity entrepreneur Cao Dewang, although his wife does not have much culture, but very reasonable, Cao Dewang has recorded tens of billions of assets in her name.
Of course, there are also many entrepreneurs, stars, and directors who have become famous and abandoned their original chaff wives and then married a young woman as a wife, but their careers or physical conditions have since plummeted, and various misfortunes have been entangled.
There are countless such examples, so we will not name examples, everyone casually associates, at least one hand can not be counted.
In fact, China also has a very connotative word: "slave", that is, to warn a man who has become a family, and then a woman (primary three), the man becomes a "slave", so those men who are troubled by flowers and grass often tie their hands and feet, and they are constantly involved in troubles...
So Buffett said: The best investment in a person's life is to choose the right wife.
There is also a saying: the hand that pushes the cradle is also the hand that pushes the world.
When we discuss the status of women in the family today, we are not afraid of the so-called "fear of the wife", but to respect the wife.
Please be kind to the women in the family