The history of up and down 5,000 years has witnessed the prosperity of one dynasty after another. Most of the systems of feudal society seem very absurd at the moment, and women are only "reproductive tools", "three from four virtues", "no talent is virtue" and other deformed statements have affected generations of women. Ancient women, who regarded chastity as more important than life, had a series of abnormal behaviors that made it difficult for us to understand at present: Why do most women not desperately resist when encountering flower thieves?
Ancient Girls
Speaking of the importance that ancient Chinese women attached to chastity, I believe that people who are familiar with history can know a little bit. Whether it is a girl from a poor family or a lady from a large family, we must pay attention to "chastity", and if you are not married, you will spread the words of "affection", or if the husband finds that his wife has no "chastity" after marriage, it is a very serious thing. Reading history can be wise, but from reading history, we find a very strange phenomenon, if ancient women encounter flower thieves, most of them will not resist. Then a woman who pays so much attention to chastity will not resist at a critical time, and the analysis from the perspective of reasons is nothing more than these four points, which are not only very sad but also helpless.
First, because the woman is weak, the probability of success in rebellion when encountering a flower thief is low
Ancient women's tutoring was very strict, whether it was a lady from a large family or an ordinary family, the education of women was nothing more than starting from three from four virtues. Almost no woman learns self-defense techniques and the like. In ancient times, flower pickers were generally strong men, and even some flower pickers would choose the way of gang crime, sneaking into women's boudoirs to do wrong, women were difficult to resist because of their weakness, which also became one of the reasons why ancient flower thieves could hardly encounter resistance when they acted.
Flower thief
Second, because the resistance is fruitless, it is easy to produce rumors
"Rumors are fiercer than tigers", even if there is an opportunity to shout for help, then after the neighbor hears this voice, even if the flower pickers do not succeed, but the reputation of the woman will be completely destroyed afterwards, so for the woman, if she resists and calls for help, it will affect the reputation of the whole family, which is often more than worth the loss. From the perspective of the relevant etiquette learned by ancient women, the "positioning" of ancient women is a reproductive tool with low social status, and it is precisely because of this that the most important thing for women is chastity and reputation, and the result of rebellion or not can only be their own fate destroyed, after all, for women, the honor of the family is even far higher than their own lives, if because of their own fierce resistance, let the surrounding neighbors know the tragic experience of "family misfortune", the consequences are even worse than death.
Third, because women value chastity, they only die after being seen by flower pickers
For ancient women, especially women who are not out of the cabinet, the importance of chastity is far higher than life, after encountering flower thieves, more women's choice is to "confess their fate", not only will not resist, but also choose to quietly end their lives afterwards, which is indeed a cruel and helpless result for ancient women. After all, if you lose your chastity, which is more important than life, if you do not end your life, whether it is yourself or your family around you, you will be overwhelmed by gossip, and from the psychological endurance, because of cognitive limitations, most women will still choose to understand themselves, which is the sadness of the times.
Fourth, the woman was frightened and panicked and forgot to resist
This reason is also conventionally understandable. For the woman who does not go out of the door, if she is unlucky enough to meet the flower thief, the body instinct after being violently frightened will directly lose the ability to resist, so the resistance can not be said, after all, the gang crime of the flower thief position is still relatively scary, and it is difficult for the frightened woman to calmly deal with it.
The deformed theory of feudal society distorted the fate of women. As a "fertility machine", the sorrow of ancient women was also powerless to change in the times. When encountering flower thieves, their most direct idea is not to bring negative influence to the family, after all, if the women in a family are defiled by flower thieves, then the family will be seriously affected, and when they encounter flower thieves, they cannot resist to protect their virginity, which is the saddest historical tragedy.