Many people complain that people get along with people is too complicated, after half a lifetime to understand, the original best mode of getting along between people, mostly follow a logic: respect is the standard, reliable is the high match, thick is the top match.
What details reflect a sense of social proportions?
1, do not over-talk
People's sorrows and joys are not the same, if you are unhappy in your heart, don't say it to others, it is easy to become a burden on others.
2, jokes should be moderate
Please pay attention to distinguish between the occasion, the object, the scale, and do not joke about the shortcomings of others.
3. Be polite
Polite people are not strange, often put polite words on the lips, do not take the kindness of others to you for granted.
4, be measured in yourself
The first step in knowing oneself and knowing oneself is to be measured in oneself. Such as clarifying the bottom line, bravely informing, and not allowing others to infringe on their rights and interests.
5. Be generous to others and put yourself in the shoes of others
Not everyone can grow up smoothly, if the other party does not affect themselves, and the nature is good, when we habitually dislike the character of others, we should think in a different position, if we are him, we may not be able to do better.
6, do not reveal the scar, a look to find out
If you find that others are covering up your unfortunate experience, don't be clever, see through it and don't say it. It is also to protect yourself, you stare into the darkness, and eventually be eaten by the darkness.
7. Don't seek superiority in others
I have seen that the grass and trees are green. Virtue is not alone, but there must be neighbors.
8. Treat others as yourself and think in a different position
Ask the other party, ask the other party, say it twice, some words, if you think you don't want to hear, some questions, if you think you don't want to answer, you don't want to do it, don't do it to others.
9, do not label others
People's personality is not something that can be understood by seeing each other, and if you do not understand the experience of others, do not blindly take advantage of yourself, and even label others.