False efforts of children of the family of origin
The social resources we have are different, and some people are born with a golden key, and their resources in all aspects are very sufficient. For an ordinary or native family of children, their resources are lacking, then we are not talking about the children of rich families today, we talk about the gap between ordinary children, why some people can quickly have a piece of the sky, can support themselves, with some correct struggle to write their own brilliant life, while some people are only promises, what others say, is what, others pursue what he pursues, there is no their own opinion, early is to lose control of their own life, I lived my life in a blur.
Today's protagonist is Xiao Qiang, we have had a deep exchange between us, we are friends. Xiao Qiang, the ear next to hear the most is the words of the parents, you see how well so-and-so children in our factory today learn well, how good the grades, you should learn more from them, Xiao Qiang is a student of an ordinary school, that so-and-so is also, the same school, the grades as a more important comparison tool, well listened to the parents so xiao qiang began to work hard, how long to spend every day in learning, and on the other side, that so-and-so classmate, while playing while learning, but in the end their grades or a classmate won I asked Xiao Qiang, where do you think your problems appear, why at the same time, a certain classmate can learn better than you while playing, and do more with less, where do you think the problems appear?
Let's also express our opinions, right?
As two Pandora's boxes, one is Xiao Qiang and the other is a classmate of so-and-so. I asked Xiao Qiang, how do you usually learn, he said, I am learning according to the teacher's method, what the teacher says, I will do, the teacher how to do, I will do according to the teacher's method, every day to complete the homework assigned by the teacher, and then my learning is finished. Have you observed the learning process of a certain classmate, I asked Xiao Qiang, he said that he has a lot of girlfriends, usually a lot of things communicate with classmates, mainly to exchange various methods, ideas. For a knowledge point, he will slowly understand, so that there is a concept in his heart, through the teacher's explanation, understand it again, so that it can be absorbed into his brain, and then he will start to write homework.
Comparing the two, I personally have the following thoughts.
First: A student grasps the underlying logic, that is, the understanding of knowledge points. This can help a student to establish their own thinking framework, for a problem, the change is the understanding of the knowledge point, a question he can come up with what aspects of the content, from which angle, if the logical thinking of the knowledge point is vague, then it is difficult for you to have a deep understanding of this problem, even if you do it right this time, the next time you do it, it is difficult for you to show confidence in taking this problem. This is the first point.
Two: A student likes to exchange ideas with others and is not eager to imitate the teacher. At the beginning of the learning of knowledge points, we must first understand and communicate with the students, some people may say, other people's ideas, and you do not come up with it, are you not copying others, take others directly to use me. But for us a person's power is limited, we may have a method of their own, others are also one, two add up is two, the purpose of the communication method, is to understand how others think, compared to their own ideas, and will produce new ideas, our learning will only become more and more relaxed, the understanding of knowledge points is more in-depth, blind spots are reduced
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Three: The efficiency of a classmate is high. Others are with the method to do the problem, you are with the imitation of the thinking to learn, as an imitation, then it is inevitable that there will be problems, inevitably the way over will bump and bump, and for a certain student, get a problem, read the topic, he will know the difficulty of the problem, what is the knowledge point, then his solution idea will come out, take it is not simple, Xiao Qiang, but also on the side of thinking, what is this question in the test, the things the teacher said during the day is different from this, the information was broken at once, Long-term accumulation, doubts about themselves, the exam can not get a stable state.
So as a family that originally lacks resources itself, we must teach our children to learn, help him reduce the pressure of learning, in fact, sometimes, we often say that learning is hard, we do not master a good method that is called to increase their hard work, learning is not so difficult, not so simple, to reduce their own pseudo-efforts, really to learn, in order to enrich our brains, activate our brains, can cope with this ever-changing world, will put strong wings on themselves, will see themselves clearly, know what they want, What you want to do, you will not give up halfway.
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