In "Siege of the City", Sun Roujia forced Fang Hongzhi to tell his past love affairs, and said: "You are really unhappy! Will I eat this next year's aged vinegar? I listen to it for fun.". Is it really fun to explore the pre-mission in the current situation?
I don't think so, although some people often say that love is blind, but love is also exclusive, the lover's eyes can not tolerate a little sand, the most passionate love, even if it is empty in the middle will feel redundant, so it is possible to tolerate other people's women in the heart of the other half.
At this time, the confession, perhaps in the name of love, will not mind, or deliberately suppressed, but in the future, if you really enter marriage, it is difficult to ensure that the woman will not save a thorn in the bottom of her heart, just like Sun Roujia, although curiosity drives her to look at what the object of Fang Hongzhi's ambiguity is before, but once she is snubbed and neglected, her heart will feel that Fang has not forgotten her former old lover, does not speak for herself, does not save face for herself, and then quarrels over this.
So I think that those who have passed the past love, before the new love, let it become the wind blow away, there is no need to become a talking point between the two people with the new object, after all, everyone has his advantages and disadvantages, any way of getting along between the two will not be the same, the past will pass, looking forward is the best way to continue life.
As for those old feelings, let it be buried in the heart, or go with the wind, which is both a respect for the new person and a kind of letting go of oneself, and there is no need to always live in the memory.
Don't be afraid to start from scratch, because this time, you don't start from scratch, but from experience.