An epiphany of reverse thinking

Hearing a lecture today on reverse thinking, in fact, reverse thinking is also a way of thinking about solving problems quickly, when we are in trouble, why don't we jump out of our inherent thinking and find another way to solve the problem, or look at the problem from a different perspective.

Sometimes I see some mothers anxious in the group eagerly seeking a way to solve specific problems, the east family children called several times to eat without going out of the house, the west children played games all night, listening to the anxious words of the parents, I also felt the same feeling, saw the vice principal of Tsinghua university in the first lesson, said that he took the college entrance examination three times, three times to study for the graduate school, seven years of phD, at that time the parents may not be able to guide the child, but the child can persevere and never give up the spirit of step by step out of their own life path. So our parents' anxiety is the anxiety of parents, not the anxiety of children, when a person has no sense of purpose, he instinctively protects himself, shrinks back home, and cuts off social interaction with outsiders to avoid being hurt. If we think in reverse, the child is at least safe at home, after the baptism of time, the maturity of the mind, the child will have their own life, not everyone is a general, not everyone is Ma Yun, the difference of individuals, has created a colorful world, but we meet our own angels snoozing, there will be a day when they want to show their flowers...