For most people who have just entered society, a house can destroy a dream.
Especially in first-tier cities, it takes many years to save money to pay the down payment, and it takes many years to be smoothed out by the pressure of work and life day after year, where is the dream?
The "double reduction" policy has been put on the ground, but when we face the topic of education, we often have such a dialogue.
Have your parents ever said to you, "I did this for you, but you made me so sad?" These words sound like "I'm all for your own good," but they are a disguised rebuke. The translation is: "I have given so much to you, so you must listen to me!" ”
The child scored 100 points on the test, and you were very happy, saying to him: "You scored a hundred points, and your mother loves you so much!" ”
But when he scores 60, do you get angry and say, "How come it's so low?" Mom doesn't like you anymore! ”
Children learn very quickly: it is not me that my mother loves, but my score. The affection and love he felt changed.
Medical care has always been a difficult problem, and even some families have long been impoverished by illness.
I remember that a few years ago, the movie "I Am Not a Medicine God" had a very big response, and some rare diseases, such as blood diseases, began to have a perennial upward trend, but the price of treatment drugs was high, and ordinary families could not afford it.
It was only after watching this movie that I learned about the existence of "slow grains".
After reading a passage of Yu Minhong's views on "lying flat", I was most convinced.
He said: "Now there are many people who choose to lie flat, and I personally do not oppose it, but I oppose the kind of people who eat and drink with their parents, have no work income, and are proud of lying flat."
"I think lying flat is for a better life. When people are confused, can they better think about where the future lies?
Wind and rain is the posture that life should have.
Lying flat and watching the clouds flying in the sky is for a better departure in the future, not to put yourself on the ground and never get up again. I hope that those who choose to lie flat can see the direction clearly and continue to set off. ”
The above is encouraged.
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