Leo Tolstoy said in Anna Kolenina that happy families are all similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes. People infer from this that happy lives are all similar, and unfortunate people have their own misfortunes. Observing that those who are doing well have three things in common are reading, saving money, and being alone. 1. Read. Read. Now the pace of life is too fast, the pressure of life has increased, read articles, people like to read those short and concise articles of hundreds of words, soothe the spirit. Even if the novellas in "Tomato Novel" can be listened to with headphones, people are impatient, and many of the tomes in the Xinhua Bookstore are already dusty and unattended. Articles written on Today's Headlines or on other platforms are more likely to read articles that are concise and straightforward.
Articles that stimulate the senses, suspenseful reasoning, celebrity anecdotes, and life mini-knowledge are all the rage. You can look at many well-known writers in "Today's Headlines", who have written articles that are poorly read, and there are not yet some Shanxi crows with white necks who have written articles with high reading. Reading is like reading an article on today's headline fast page, 200 gold coins at a time, more than 10,000 gold coins are only a dime, not much money, but it is chicken soup for the soul, reading will make you feel that your daily life is very fulfilling.
2. Save money. My daughter is a post-00, once she had 5,000 yuan in her hand, I said you deposited in Alipay online banking, you can get more than 4 cents of interest every day, she looked at me, nose hummed: what can 4 cents do? In her concept, if you have money in your hand, you have to spend, buy a mobile phone to buy An Apple, have a mobile phone and a computer and want to buy an iPad again, this time the 6,000 yuan earned from the summer internship has been bought into an iPad, and the hand is now empty. She also did not understand that life would not save money and would encounter a lot of trouble.
Because of tomorrow's accident, people can't predict, there is no money in hand, the elderly parents are sick, who will pay the hospitalization fee? When it comes to the New Year's Pass, you need to buy New Year goods, where to get money? Saving money is a compulsory lesson in life, and we can't learn from Americans who earn one and spend two and spend all the money in the future. To learn to save money, today earn 100 yuan to spend 50 save 50, tomorrow encounter any accident may be able to cope, will save money is a smart person.
3. Alone. A few years ago, I thought that calling my brother and brother at the wine stall was a way of socializing, so I desperately tried to increase my alcohol intake and wanted to get a friend at the wine table. Taking turns at home with two friends, drinking a word at one piece, the wine glass touched the sky, until one of the three people drank unconsciously before leaving, and then really encountered something, the two friends avoided, so people said that low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude. Everyone's happiness is created by themselves. The ancients called "multiple friends and many roads, friends more roads to go", to positive understanding, making friends carelessly will lead to the end of the road. Two days ago there was a murder case: a Shanxi man went to Qingdao for a vacation to meet a friend, Shanxi people let their niece who was in college in Shanghai know this person, the result was that this person was extreme, saw his niece wanted to become a boyfriend and girlfriend, after the girl refused, he took a knife and killed him. This Shanxi man has no regrets, making such friends is equivalent to luring wolves into the house and harming his own relatives.
The 5 female college students raised by the big corrupt official Wu Changshun, one of them got a lot of money after giving birth to a child after getting a child with Wu Changshun, he introduced the other 4 girls, gave birth to a total of 9 children for him, and finally after Wu Changshun was arrested, he did DNA identification that 6 of the children were not his, and he was so angry that he gritted his teeth. Those 5 female college students, the future life can be said to be full of danger, which is the evil result of accidental dating. Therefore, life should learn to be alone, quietly enjoy a person's time, do not need to disguise, do not need to deliberately please others, and live out their unique selves in solitude. In life, we must live well and read well, and we cannot be alone with pure feelings.