"Aggressive" babies

Some parents find that their children sometimes attack other children for no reason, such as he wants to play with other children's toys, but when the other party refuses to give them, he will forcibly rob other people's toys. Sometimes the bullied children will bring their parents to complain, then the parents will be very embarrassed, quickly apologize, and at the same time wonder in their hearts, usually did not deliberately teach him, but why does the child show that he likes to attack others?

In fact, in general, there are several main reasons why children attack other children:

First, aggressive behavior is not inherent in the children themselves, but learned through imitation of their families in the process of ordinary life. For example, parents often discipline their children in the form of corporal punishment, which is equivalent to demonstrating aggressive behavior to him, and the child learns this way invisibly.

Second, children are using aggressive behavior as a means to their ends. If a child succeeds in inadvertently achieving a certain goal with aggressive behavior at one time, he will use this method more often in the future. At this time, if the parents are still not too attentive, or too indulgent to the child, then this aggressive behavior will become a habit of the child.

Third, when children are frustrated, or want to get the attention of their parents or teachers, there is a significant increase in aggressive behavior. For example, when he did not get what he should have gotten, he would use scolding, hitting people, robbing other children's toys and other ways to vent his inner anger.

Therefore, as a parent, when you find that your child has the behavior of attacking other children, you should pay more attention to observing the recent changes in your child's life, find out the reasons, and then correct and educate for different reasons.

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