How to look at the pure feelings between men and women

The purest feelings between men and women are nothing more than confidants with red faces and confidants with blue faces.

Confidant: For men, it refers to the kind of relationship that has a little more friends and a little less than a lover. In his eyes, she was the goddess of perfection. But only at this distance.

Blue Confidant: For women, it refers to the relationship that is a little more than friends and a little less than lovers. In her eyes, he was a confidant's big brother and could confide in him about anything. But it can only be maintained at this distance.

Confidant believes in the saying that true love spans the length of life, the breadth of the soul, and can exist in various forms,

In this world, what men need most is not only a wife, but also a confidant with a red face.

The most important thing to be a confidant is to stick to the boundaries.

When you are sick in bed and fighting with pain, the person who holds your hand in panic and tears must be the wife. She is afraid of your pain, afraid of your death, eager to hurt for you, to die for you. She cried and cried. Obsessive entanglement, moving you, making your heart uneasy. And the red face confidant is not. The red face confidant does not cry, she just stands at the head of the bed, quietly staring at you, reading your heart, and then with her mouth her eyes her heart tells you that she knows where your pain is, she understands you, is willing to share it silently for you, so that your soul is no longer lonely, and it makes you happy. This shows the essential difference between the two: crying because you love you; not crying because you understand you.

A man, if there is a woman in his life who loves you in his heart, and a woman who understands you with a sharp heart, why should he ask for it?

The confidants are all girls with the greatest wisdom, and they know best in their hearts that if a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother or be the confidant he will never get, understand him, but it does not belong to him.

Give him the right amount of care, but don't give him affection, don't give him the threat that you will fall in love with him, and don't let him have the impulse and enthusiasm to fall in love with you, this is the skill of being a confidant.

You go out for a long trip, there is no news, and there is a major natural disaster in the place, the red face confidant has a concern, dialed the phone many times, but each time can not get through, because you shut down. When you have drifted enough and stood in front of her with a disheveled face, she just smiled and asked, "Haven't seen you for a long time, have fun?" "She won't mention her worries, her worries, never. She knew it wasn't her business to mention those things, she didn't want love, she just wanted friendship. She's like a naughty ghost, one eye on you, so squeezed and blinked, and then hooked out the naughty, enthusiastic, active part of all the boys in you. Before her, you surrender, there is no escape.

I really can't escape, I don't want to escape.

Usually, the wife is the talker, and the confidant is the listener. She may be a gentle and lovely child, or she may be like a bold buddy, in front of her men can be tired birds or prodigal sons, can be tired, lonely, helpless, evasive, lazy, and she can accept your night, give you quiet, be your space to recover your energy.

If the wife is the sun and the lover is the moon, then the confidant is the star. When the sun and the moon are tired, the stars are not, they twinkle and flicker, willing to be lonely but brilliant and long-lasting.

No matter how high you are in front of others, you can't look up, in the eyes of your confidant, there is only dignity and no majesty. She can walk through the layers of masks, as if entering your soul in a no-man's land, and use a language that you and she understand to have a soul dialogue and communication.

Therefore, those who can be confidants with red faces must be the best among women.

And the one who can have a red face and confidant must be a wise man among men.

Confidant with a red face is actually the three realms of life

The first realm is in the Book of Poetry, "The crab leaves are in the sky, the white dew is frost, the so-called Iraqi people, on the side of the water" is an opportunity that can be encountered but not sought. Because of the distance, all beauty is gathered in one. Usually, the wife possesses the man, the lover shares the man, and the red face confidant is to shape the man, she fully taps his potential, and completes the mission of her confidant by perfecting the man to help the man. Therefore, the red face confidant is another soul of a man, she is sometimes close at hand, sometimes on the side of the water, but you can feel that she exists in life; she does not necessarily agree with your outlook on life values, but absolutely respects you, and believes and knows you. The confidant of the red face is actually the warm hand that ignites the fire of life with you, and men often become active because of her. Therefore, the confidant of the red face is the best person in the world. Unfortunately, most women are just smart enough to be confidants, and the trap of men's desires just makes her unable to be a confidant, which is why many women who originally wanted to play confidants have become mistresses or strangers.

Therefore, the confidant of the red face is really a man's luxury, and the woman's unwillingness.

The second realm is the temptation of song words, "and shy away, leaning on the door to look back, but sniffing the green plum". In essence, people can't resist temptation, for example, wives and lovers have no temptation - they make it a reality; and the red face confidant is wonderful to keep the temptation, and she thus becomes the positive blue in a man's life. When your wife gives you a headache and your lover makes you feel pain, your confidant makes you feel pain nowhere. She is full of affinity and imagination, bringing you the joy of a spring breeze; the pleasure of "not necessarily seeing you every day, thinking about the moon and the moon, but when you see it is the reunion of the old knowledge"; it is the touch of your "no matter where you are, what happens, and someone in some corner of the world will pay attention to you and listen to you". Although she walks past you faintly, only occasionally looking back, you can't help but follow her, because her unique way of reading your life is really an irresistible temptation in this life.

And isn't temptation the driving force that pushes people forward?

The third realm is the sub-couplet, the upper link "the move is coming", the lower link "swing is going", and the horizontal batch "all for your own good". This level of realm distinguishes the confidant with a red face from any other woman in any other relationship: the wife can't be recruited--- in fact, she recruits you to come, the lover is lingering--- she still wants fame, how can she give up easily? There is another kind of person, the prostitute, who comes and goes, but the horizontal criticism is "all for the good of money". Only the confidant with a red face is the most willing to give the initiative to you. Because she is a friend, there is no sex, no love, no pink emotions, and there is no rainy day of obsession and resentment; and because she is a confidant, she can put all the starting points in the perspective of "for your sake", in the spirit of understanding, in the spirit of support, but also in the brilliance of friendship, she tolerates you to be intimate with you, she has really pushed the connotation of the word confidant to the top of the divine.

You think, it is not easy to have a confidant in life, and if you know yourself with a red face, how gorgeous it should be.

Sometimes I really don't understand why men have to get a "red-faced confidant" and make the family chicken fly dog jump at all costs... Sisters who really can't understand it may have an epiphany when they look at the following text...

1, having a beautiful "iron buddy" will be more proud

Men may all long to have a confidant with a red face, if a good friend is a good wine, female friends are undoubtedly a very intoxicating one, they are more careful, because of different status, and they can help men more than lovers; if it is a red face full of eyebrow temperament, doing things will even be more effective than men, this is a wonderful thing.

2, such a gentle embrace, how can not let the man's heart move

If he is depressed, he may get drunk, and if he has a little strength and courage, he may find someone to fight. However, if there is a considerate female friend, he may talk to her or even cry. Male friends are absolutely not, even if others do not know, he himself can not be pitiful in front of the same sex. Confidants are not terrible, they are distressed by men's occasional weakness in front of themselves, and they prefer to truly appreciate this weakness.

3, confidant is a kind of dedication that does not ask for returns

Xuan is a down-to-earth man, but unfortunately the bad career failure in the past few years. His wife couldn't help, and his friend Xue, who had been with him for many years, started from scratch again, just like when he started from scratch. Two years later, Xuandong made a comeback, the house and the car returned, and the family returned to the previous good life. In the past two years, Snow has not only done what ordinary friends have done, but also paid for the wisdom and gentleness unique to women. In fact, for a confidant with a red face like Xue, Xuan's happiness and success are the returns she wants.

4, she does not monopolize you, but she shares your heart

Once women become wives, they no longer look at men objectively, they like to be exclusive, and they will not be confidants. Most people have their own hidden personalities, and if the other half of a man is a woman, it is more likely to be the confidant with a red face.

5, red face confidants are usually very smart

If a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother or be a "confidant" that he will never get. At the end of the day, Confidante contains a lot of things. Love is too short, marriage is too stuffy, only the red face confidant can last. Therefore, women who can be content to be a man's confidant are usually very open-minded and intelligent.

6, satisfied the vanity of men

Some women are naturally suited to be friends. They enjoy relaxed relationships and hate bondage as much as men do. This is undoubtedly the type of friend that more men appreciate. So even if they are not so "confidants", men like to be friends with such women. Enjoying the care and closeness of a woman other than a wife or lover can greatly satisfy a man's vanity.

7, can inspire men to be more tolerant and understanding

For example, drinking in a tavern, men can fight with the same sex to fight alcohol lawsuits, one cup or two, but not for women. Friends of the opposite sex can inspire men to be more tolerant and understanding, and willing. It is a gender trait, the strong like to take care of the weak. So women get loved and loved, men also satisfy the vanity of the male, this is the most fundamental thing of the confidant, since the heart is willing, how can it not be wonderful to get along?

8, smart men can enjoy the "blessings of qi people"

What if the first confidant with a red face becomes his own woman, and then meets a woman who is equally cute and even more charming? The possessiveness of a man makes him not let go, but bigamy is not only hateful but also illegal; the lover has too much taste of lust, it is better to find her as a confidant. Give her love into friendship, love your wife at home, and make love to your confidant outside.

Blue Face Confidant

Confidant, can be a collective name, regardless of the same sex and the opposite sex can be. However, the woman's blue-faced confidant is ambiguous. To say that it is pure is, in fact, it will never be pure enough to have no physical contact. It is possible that there has never been sexual intercourse, but it is definitely not without touching a finger. Because of the initial physical contact, ambiguous emotions will arise between two people, even if they have never met, they must be telling each other's stories on the computer on the phone.

The meaning of confidant is to let the other party know themselves thoroughly. Blue confidant is a man who is below her husband and boyfriend and above other male friends. A woman can tell this man about any topic that she can't talk to her husband or boyfriend, and she can also cry about the grievances that her man has suffered to herself, because he is a confidant, so he will pity you, will speak for you from your point of view, will give you a warm embrace when you are hurt, and give you a hug that you think is not with any lust.

Lan Yan confidant is a man who truly understands women's psychology and understands women's feelings, and will not always worry about every joy and sorrow of women, but will be distressed by her every tear when they meet, will be happy for her every smile, and is the person who thinks of women for the first time when they are hurt and wronged. Women always have many things that they can't tell the men around them and can't tell their closest girlfriends, so they look for a man who can care for her and love her but won't let her torment herself to love and hate.

Blue Face Confidant, can be disguised to say, is a brother, is a sister. It is that the other party does not regard himself as a woman, and he does not regard the other party as a man's relationship, in fact, the more he continues to reiterate, the more he is worried that he will take that step.

Confidants are very dangerous relationships, and a little step forward will lead to derailment. The only purpose of a man's goodness to a woman is either to get the woman's heart or to get the woman's body. That's all. And the purpose of a woman to be good to a man is nothing more than this, but the desire to get the body is not as real as the desire to get the heart. Women care more about the heart, getting a man's heart is more proud of women than getting his body, and what men care about is the body, getting more women's bodies is more worth showing off than getting more women's hearts, getting too much heart will only bring a burden to men.

If a woman wants to tie the heart of a blue-faced confidant for a lifetime, only to do a lifetime of not letting the other party get his body, but also to make his position in his heart always unchanged, only pay will have a return, your care will naturally get the care of the other party. If there is no careful care, how can you get the possibility of a man willing to be your lifelong confidant? To make others care for you and love you, only you yourself first tell others the secrets and grievances in your heart.

People are mutual, love will not be paid off, but friendship will certainly be rewarded. We all have more or less friends, but there will always be a male friend who will always be close to us or live in our hearts. Neither of you should run away, nor should you think that you are in love with each other, that is not love, that is just dependence. When you begin to rely on a person, naturally he has a charm that convinces you, you have to be careful, do not trap yourself, the blue face confidant, is the most likely to let women cheat on the object, really can be innocent to be the most intimate male and female confidant of a lifetime, is very few, it depends on how men and women control themselves. When it comes to control, the degree of getting along with confidants needs to be measured clearly. Women should understand the difference between a confidant and a lover. Confidants can speak from the heart, but can not warm each other, the only way to warm between confidants can only be the warmth of the heart, can not become the body warmth, once the body warming, the confidant will face two results, either lose, or upgrade to become a lover.