In Xieji Village, Feidong County, Anhui Province, there is a man named Xie Dahu (pseudonym), and everyone in the village calls him Dahuzi.
On September 9, 2021, Xie Dahu turned sixty-five years old.
The big tiger has three marriages, not to be annoyed, but to be proud, so that the younger generations sighed,
Admire the big tiger zi circling among the three women, maintaining a gentlemanly demeanor, envy the big tiger to use high emotional intelligence to build life with relish,
The big tiger was affected by the environment of that year, and did not finish junior high school.
The big tiger grew to eighteen years old, tall and handsome, with a mouth, a few words of oil poetry jumped out of his mouth sharply,
The old man in the village said that the big tiger was talented and handsome, and it was a pity to farm.
When the big tiger was nineteen years old, he was recommended by the village branch to become a soldier, the big tiger family had three generations of poverty, political innocence, when the soldier political trial passed, the big tiger wore a big red flower on his chest, and enlisted in the army in the sound of beating gongs and drums.
The people in the village only know that the big tiger is a soldier Guangzong Yaozu, and they don't know that the big tiger is standing guard on the coast of Qingdao regardless of the cold winter and heat.
Dahuzi returned to his hometown after three years of military service, exactly twenty-two years old, obeyed the arrangement of his parents, and became a relative with his relatives and cousins who were betrothed when he was a child, (there was no five blessings).
After the big tiger got married, he was appointed as the head of the villagers' barracks and the captain of the production team, and the new marriage and the promotion of the new official, the big tiger was very busy.
The year the big tiger wife gave birth to the child was the summer of 1979, that day the thunder and lightning, the big tiger braved the pouring rain to carry the midwife home, for the wife to deliver, the wife gave birth to a daughter safely, the big tiger was overjoyed, but followed by the words spoken by the midwife, let the big tiger's heart cool to the soles of the feet, the baby is congenital polio,
This is the result of the marriage of close relatives who held the psychology of luck at that time.
The young and handsome tiger, like a frosted eggplant, withered the whole person and suddenly lost hope in life.
It is said that the big tiger did not dare to sleep with his wife, nor did he dare to propose a divorce, and divorce in that era was a great disrespect to the parents of both parties, and the big tiger was a filial piety, who joined the party when he was a soldier, and regarded principle and filial piety as more important than personal happiness.
After the rural areas were divided into fields and households, the production captain had nothing to do, the farmers were idle, and the big tigers went to Qingdao to find work.
When the big tiger was a soldier in Qingdao, he learned that there were mines in Qingdao, so he went straight to the mine, earned money in the mine, left a little for his own use, and sent the rest back to his hometown.
After the Spring Festival in 1986, the big tiger zi collected the money he earned and built three brick and tile houses, and he moved out of his parents' old house.
The big tiger said to his wife that the farming was too busy to come, he could ask someone to help, taking care of his daughter was the focus, he let his daughter with polio go to school, and after telling his wife, the big tiger carried the package and went to Qingdao to open a mine.
Xie Dahu opened a mine in Qingdao, knew a local man in Qingdao, the man was more than fifty years old, the family had two sons and a daughter, the two sons got married and separated from each other, the daughter just graduated from school, teaching in the local primary school,
The man's wife has a disability in both legs, coughs non-stop in the winter, the man often asks for leave, the mine owner is unhappy, he wants to fire the man, the man says that the mine owner just wants to make money, does not talk about human reason and morality, the two quarrel and fight,
The big tiger pulled away from the man and assured the boss that he would partner with the man in the future and ensure that the mining task was completed on time.
The man was grateful to the big tiger, and on a holiday, he invited the big tiger to his house as a guest,
The man's daughter is named Liu Cuihua (pseudonym), Cuihua is twenty-three years old, with a beautiful face, a lady,
The big tiger saw Liu Cuihua for the first time and was attracted by the beauty and purity of the jade flower, but the big tiger immediately suppressed the love fire in his heart, he knew that he was a husband with a wife, and things that violated morality could not be done.
Seeing Cuihua's mother with disabled legs, the big tiger thought of his daughter, felt that his heart was very stuffy, very painful, he thought of his future death, how his polio daughter lived,
On that day, the handsome tiger was in a very bad mood, he drank a lot of wine, wanted to borrow wine to pour sorrow, but he was even more sad, and the tears flowed,
Cuihua's father was amazed and asked the big tiger why he was so sad?
The big tiger used the power of wine to fully put out the depression and helplessness in his heart,
Cuihua looked at the handsome tiger, her eyes were soaked with tears, and pity came out of her eyes.
Cuihua said to Xie Dahu: "Close relatives do not meet the marriage law, you should divorce."
Since the big tiger has a disabled daughter, he has the name of husband and wife with his wife, and there is no fact of husband and wife, but he has never thought of divorce.
He asked Cuihua, divorced, what about the disabled daughter, divorced, where does his wife go? Where are the faces of the two families?
Cuihua is an educated person who is ridiculous about Xie Dahu's pedantic ignorance,
Cuihua said bluntly: "After divorce, each finds his own happiness and raises his disabled daughter together, how is it better than letting a meaningless marriage be like a shackle to a lifetime".
Cuihua's words awakened the dreamer,
Xie Dahu went home for the New Year, and after years of discussing divorce with his wife, his wife cried bitterly, she was reluctant to be handsome and handsome cousin, she just wanted to guard her cousin Dahuzi for a lifetime,
The truth that the big tiger heard from Cuihua told his wife word for word, his wife did not enter the oil and salt, and also said that the son and daughter-in-law of the old Li family at the head of the village were also married by close relatives, and the two babies born were healthy, begging the big tiger to let her conceive again, she wanted to gamble again,
The big tiger does not dare to try, does not dare to gamble, the price of this bet is too great,
The wife did not want to divorce, and the big tiger returned to Qingdao to open a mine.
That summer, Cuihua's father accidentally broke a leg, and the big tiger carried him to the hospital.
Later, he often went to visit Cuihua's father, and Cuihua had a better feeling for the big tiger.
The big tiger is flesh and blood Fang Gang, he is not stupid, in order to escape the emotional entanglement with Cuihua, he does not open a mine,
However, Xie Dahu, who did not open a mine, could not find a job, turned around and turned back to the mine.
Just happened to encounter a mine mouth looking for someone to contract, Xie Dahu boldly contracted it,
He invited Cuihua's father, who was experienced in mining,
Xie Dahu contracted the mine, made money, kept a part of it himself, sent a large part to his parents, and a wife who did not want to divorce.
Xie Dahu wrote a long letter to his father-in-law explaining that he wanted a divorce, and said that after the divorce, he would treat his daughter like a brother to a sister, and let her live at home until she got married.
Big Tiger's father-in-law looked at Big Tiger and wrote with reasonableness and agreed to their divorce,
But Xie Dahu's wife is still unwilling,
In the Spring Festival of 1989, Xie Dahu did not go home for the New Year.
After the Spring Festival, Xie Dahu's wife followed the villagers to Qingdao,
Seeing Xie Dahu living alone in a broken shed at the foot of the mountain,
Xie Dahu's wife was heartbroken,
That night, Xie Dahu did not leave his wife to sleep in the broken shed, but sent her to the best hotel in the city, watching the big tiger disappear into the night, walking towards his broken shed, the big tiger's wife shed a lot of tears, she did not sleep all night, thought a lot, both reluctant to leave the big tiger, but also could not bear to torture the big tiger like this,
Xie Dahu's wife is illiterate and does not understand the great truth of love and being loved, but Dahu treats her so kindly that she feels from her conscience that she uses marriage to bind Dahu and lack of morality.
The next day, she agreed to divorce Xie Dahu.
Thirty-three-year-old Xie Dahu ended his first marriage, but did not end the responsibility he assumed, he paid his cousin who had not yet found his next home every month.
Xie Dahu's wife agreed to divorce, and was not in a hurry to remarry, she has been living at home, filial piety to her in-laws, serving her disabled daughter, saying that she is obsessed with the big tiger or sticking to it, in short, Xie Dahu's divorced wife, she is not willing to find a man again.
The development of Xie Dahu's relationship with Cuihua was on the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival in 1990.
On that day, Xie Dahu bought mooncakes, fruits, and wine as he had done before the festival, and went to Cuihua's home to visit Cuihua's parents.
Jade Flower is busy as in previous years,
Cuihua's father complained: "The eldest girl in her twenties, who does not find a family to marry, wants to be a nun at home"?
Cuihua only smiled and looked at the big tiger with the corner of her eye,
The big tiger was looking at the jade flower with affection,
The two men whizzed their eyes into each other, flashed away and peeked at each other,
That night, the big tiger did not drink and was drunk,
He strolled with The Emerald Flower in the moonlight and walked toward his little broken shed,
Mature men and women, unable to control the lust of affection, hugged each other tightly.
Love is passion, passion is not the whole of life, life should have material as the basis,
Xie Dahu's ex-wife still lives in the house, he can't drive her away, he wants to marry Cuihua, he can't let Cuihua sleep with him.
Xie Dahu used his whole body to solve the problem and contracted two more mines,
A year later, a two-story small building was built in a broken shed, and on New Year's Day 1993, Xie Dahu was overjoyed and married Cuihua into the door, and another year, they gave birth to a healthy son.
Xie Dahu, love his son, cherish his wife, and filial piety to his parents-in-law,
In order to facilitate the care of his mother-in-law, Xie Dahu took his mother-in-law to live at home.
Xie Dahu was immersed in happiness,
In the 1990s, family planning was strict, and Cuihua was a teacher, had a sterilization operation, and received an only child certificate.
The more the opening is opened, the less and less resources,
In 1995, a developer in Qingdao built a house, and the big tiger used the savings in his hand to buy a house in the city and arranged for his family to live in a house in the city.
The big tiger built a two-story small building up and down, and made a hardware equipment sales department.
Three years later, a developer requisitioned land, and the money lost was enough for Xie Dahu to buy two houses, Xie Dahu took Cuihua and returned to his hometown with their son Yijin.
Although Xie Dahu's parents are happy, but the cousin is not yet married, Xie Dahu is distressed about the cousin, persuade the cousin to find a man to marry quickly, do not miss a good time,
In order not to drag his cousin down, he consulted with Cuihua and took his disabled daughter to Qingdao to go to school, and Cuihua agreed.
Xie Dahu calculated the money for raising his son and daughter, put it aside, and took out hundreds of thousands of dollars.
Once walking to the door of a hardware processing plant, many workers raised their hands and knocked on the door, Xie Dahu came forward to ask what happened.
Someone told him that the hardware factory owner ran away,
Xie Dahu asked, "What is the reason?"
The worker said: "The boss has lost all the money for the wages of the workers, and there is no money to pay the wages".
Xie Dahu said: "Is there a product in the factory to do it"?
The workers said: "There are many goods, that is, they cannot be completed on time, and a lot of liquidated damages are fined."
Xie Dahu returned home, consulted with Cuihua, and took over the hardware factory.
Cuihua resigned from her job as a teacher, was idle and lost, and promised to work with big tigers to find out the situation of the hardware factory and then take over,
Do processing orders, it is difficult to talk about difficult, it is easy to talk about easy and easy, receive orders to do, and complete orders on schedule according to quality to have benefits,
Xie Dahu and Cuihua are not from handicrafts, each order should be taught to the workers, but also to put good quality off,
Big Tiger and Jade Flower really spent time, using machines and tools, spending high prices to ask for technical masters,
Husband and wife concentric iron pestle grinding into embroidery needles, big tiger and jade flowers in addition to sending children to school, the rest of the time in the hardware factory,
The hardware factory is the career and painstaking efforts of both of them, and the orders of the hardware factory are more and more, and the manpower is insufficient.
Dahu heard that Guangzhou's production machines can improve efficiency, so he consulted with Cuihua and went to Guangzhou to purchase advanced machines.
In the spring of 2002, Xie Dahu went to Guangzhou for the first time.
When he arrived in Guangzhou, he knew why he could not recruit workers in Qingdao.
Guangzhou is crowded with people, and the people who sell machines led Xie Dahu to Dongguan, and he opened his eyes.
At that time, there were many processing plants in Dongguan, and there were a surge of people standing on the side of the road every day.
Xie Dahu thought, this is a good place to open a processing plant,
Xie Dahu did not buy advanced machines, but discussed with Cuihua to open a processing plant to Dongguan.
Cuihua thought about the big tiger analysis right, the factory has someone to do,
However, only bad, opening a factory in Dongguan means that the husband and wife are separated, Cuihua has to take care of two children, as well as elderly parents, the two houses are in Qingdao, to take care of,
Fish and bear paws can not be both, people still take advantage of the time to fight,
Cuihua did not let her children be bound by love, and let the big tiger go to Dongguan to open a factory.
In the north, peers are wrongdoers, in order to win customers, malicious bidding,
In Dongguan, peers are relatives, a goods can not be done, you can ask peers to help do, you can also do the batch of parts separately, line into factories and factories to do, connected into a rope, is the main factory in the prosperity of Dongguan processing industry.
Xie Dahu gave all the money earned in Dongguan to Cuihua in addition to the wages of workers, renting houses, utilities and daily expenses.
Between husband and wife, the most direct way to show love is that the man gives the hard-earned money to his wife without reservation.
Language is rhetorical and deceitful, and money is the most practical and naked thing, reflecting human nature.
In the 2008 financial crisis, the capital chain of many small processing plants was broken and closed.
Xie Dahu's processing plant is operating normally,
One day, a woman who looked thirty-five or six years old came into the office.
Women are not only beautiful, but their temperament also makes Xie Dahu respected,
The woman's name is Jianyuan, Yuanyuan is Xie Dahu's new product manager for product customers, such a person Xie Dahu does not dare to slacken off, Xie Dahu pours tea and water, a burst of chatting,
Although the age difference is huge, the two can talk,
Yuanyuan's hometown is in Suzhou, Suzhou out of the beauty,
Because of the business relationship, Xie Dahu and Concubine Yuan often meet, sometimes go out together to drink tea, eat within the meal,
People get acquainted with each other and become talkative,
Jianyuan divorced for two years, and also took a seven-year-old daughter, who is attending primary school in Dongguan and is taken care of by Jianyuan's mother.
In the summer of 2008, Yuanyuan drove her daughter and mother to the railway station back to Suzhou, the car was driving on the road from Changping to Tutang, and Yuanyuan received a call from Xie Dahu.
Xie Dahu asked Jealousy for the number of a part's sticker,
Jealousy while driving while rummaging on the phone,
Who knew that there was a big car on the side of the corner, and the concubine did not have time to hit the steering wheel, and there was a car accident.
Yan Yuan suffered a serious head injury, and Yuan Yuan's daughter and mother died before they were sent to the hospital.
Xie Dahu believed that he had an unshirkable responsibility, waiting by His side day and night, and did not pay Cuihua for two months.
Women in their forties are suspicious by nature and look closely at rich men,
Cuihua called the big tiger, and the big tiger was afraid that she was worried, and did not say anything about Yuanyuan,
It's almost the Mid-Autumn Festival, the National Day, the big tiger said to Cuihua, something is not going back,
Cuihua thought to herself that the big tiger must have something to hide from her,
Cuihua bought the family's holiday things, flew to Guangzhou, took a train from Guangzhou to Dongguan, and gave the big tiger a surprise attack.
It was already evening when Cuihua arrived at the Big Tiger Factory, and she didn't see the Big Tiger.
The security guard said that the big tiger went to Donghua Hospital,
Cuihua was shocked, thinking that the big tiger was sick, and the security staff explained that the boss was going to visit the patient.
Cuihua was relieved and suspicious, what kind of patient let him go to see at night,
Doubting god and ghosts is a woman's specialty,
Cuihua took a taxi to Donghua Hospital, turned around in the hospital a few times, and sat on a bench with a man and a woman, and the man's back was like a big tiger.
The man also let the woman lean on his shoulder, and Jade flower quietly walked behind them,
Only to hear the woman say: "There is no point in living, it is better to die a hundred",
The man said, "Don't talk nonsense, there is me.",
The man also took the woman's hand in the palm of his hand,
Isn't this man's voice a big tiger?
Cuihua jumped in front of them, pointed at Xie Dahu, and yelled: "Good you Xie Dahu, finally understand why you don't go home during the Mid-Autumn Festival, it turned out that sister Lin, who was sick and beautiful, had a good relationship",
Cuihua lost the Sven of the past, and spoke harshly and harshly.
Big Tiger asked Cuihua, "How did you come, what did you do when you came to the house?"?
The words of the big tiger made Cuihua even more annoyed,
Jade flowers criticize them unscrupulously,
Jade Flower made the big tiger not know,
In fact, every woman will go crazy when she sees that her beloved man is about to be robbed, and she will become teeth and claws, and she will not look like a woman, and every man does not like women like this.
Yuanyuan did not make any explanation for everything in front of her, she was more mournful than dead, she only felt that Cuihua was very noisy,
Yuanjian stood up and walked weakly toward the ward.
That night, the big tiger and Cuihua had their first big quarrel,
Cuihua did not believe that the big tiger blamed Yuanyuan out of self-blame, he thought that the big tiger liked Yuanyuan, obviously it was an accident, the big tiger had to pull on himself, what is responsible, is to find an excuse to be together,
The distance between husband and wife does not produce beauty, but strangeness, jealousy, and even betrayal.
Jade Flower and Big Tiger divorced,
The big tiger gave The second house in Qingdao, all the savings, and the baby son to Cuihua,
The big tiger only brought his daughter with polio,
For the sake of his disabled daughter, the big tiger has more money to spend after his death, and devotes his life to earning money.
All this Yuanyuan looks in the eyes, Yuanyuan is 17 years younger than the big tiger, and there is always a kind of sadness that I am not born, and I am old when I am born.
The betrayal of her jealous ex-husband, the death of her daughter, let her live as a walking dead for a time,
Big Tiger's optimistic attitude towards her polio daughter gave Her yuan the hope of a new life, and he leaned on big tiger's wide shoulders, with a sense of safety and comfort.
In 2011, the fifty-five-year-old Big Tiger married the thirty-eight-year-old Yuanjian, and the big tiger's heart loved and cared for the jealousy, and said that the dead Cuihua did not believe,
When they entered the palace of marriage, Cuihua finally regretted that the good man was pushed by her own hands to others.
The story is not over,
In 2018, the big tiger's eighty-four-year-old mother died, settled down outside and has only paid money to the elderly, rarely goes home, with a disabled daughter and a daughter he and Yuanyuan gave birth to from Dongguan back to his hometown Offidong, The customs of Feidong funeral notified all the juniors to be present, the big tiger called Cuihua before leaving, and the son who returned from studying in Germany,
Back in his hometown, the big tiger's former wives met, there was no quarrel, only a slight smile,
The biggest sorry for Dahu from the heart is his knotted wife cousin, because the pedantic and stubborn cousin has been living with Dahu's parents since divorcing Dahu, and has two sideburns and white hair, and is not married.
After the old man's funeral, the big tiger scolded his cousin for being stupid, and the elderly cousin only smiled.
The big tiger said to Cuihua, you don't be as stupid as her, meet the right one and marry quickly,
Jade Flower smiled, and there were many, many laughs,
Big Tiger's love for his former two wives has changed from husband and wife to affection, and he has the responsibility to care for them.
Xie Dahu said, people in their sixties, what can't they see?