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Wonderful Speech 丨 Producer / Zhou Jing Editor / Tang Peimeng

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— Moving Towards Your Dreams —

As you know, I became an orator.

Now I've been to 70 countries and given more than 3,500 speeches, the most of which was 80,000 people, and 18 presidents have heard my speeches. I hope to meet with China's leaders one day, because I think China is amazing! Because I am an inspirational person who can help people overcome difficulties and overcome obstacles.

Have I ever been scared? yes.

Have I ever failed? yes.

Did people know? yes.

Is there a problem with that? It doesn't matter!

As long as you move towards your dreams step by step, you can make your dreams come true like me.

So in your life, you don't look down on yourself, you have to learn to build self-confidence, then you will never give up on yourself.

Are you ready?

I want you to think about what your goal is?

Think about what your obstacles are?

Think about what my obstacles are?

Are you a bigger obstacle than mine?

I have a dozen obstacles. I'm not a good orator, I don't sell myself, I don't have limbs, I don't have a personal website, I don't have friends in the oratory industry, my parents don't agree with my dreams, and I don't know if speaking can support myself.

But I still started, no matter how difficult these obstacles were, I had to overcome them one by one.

I want you to think about it, how are you going to overcome your obstacles?

Maybe you can find your closest partner right away

Tell him what your goal is?

What is your dream?

What obstacles do you have to overcome?

Maybe he's the first one to support you.

— About your child's education —

I'll share some information with you, especially parents:

When you're raising children, especially if you have more than one child. Like me, I have four children. You have to know that every child is different, so your way of educating is also different. You need to understand their personality traits, and maybe your friend will teach you some methods, but it may not be suitable for your child, so don't be too harsh on your child.

Once I failed an exam at school, my dad asked me: Have you done your best? If you've done your best, the result is acceptable to all of us. But I can't accept that you didn't try your best, you have to try again and do your best next time.

I know it's hard to be a father, who is often busy with work, creating more wealth and opportunities for his children, and is always on the go. I still have 35,000 invitations to speak, and I choose to speak at most 100 a year. In fact, I have no problem talking about 200 games, why didn't I go? Because I feel that my children need the company of a father more than the opportunity to speak. As long as I go home, my favorite thing to do is to let them be with me, let them feel how much I love them, let them feel how much I love their mother. The harmony of parents is the source of happiness for children.

If I want my children to be generous and I don't show how they can become generous.

If I want my children to be leaders, I first have to have the appearance of a leader myself.

Sometimes in our eyes, children should be humble and humble to their parents, because they are not strong enough. Parents will feel that there is certainly no need to be humble and humble to their children.

Do you know what true humility is? True humility is knowing that no one is more important than you and that no one is less important than you. So you see, if I'm going to be the best I can be at home, I'm going to have to maintain that attitude.

Parental marriage is very important for children.

Sometimes my wife and I would be so busy that we didn't have time to talk.

But we go to restaurants every week for dinner dates and connect with each other. Don't talk about work, don't talk about children, just talk about the feelings we've experienced before. Of course I know that my wife loves me very much, and I love her very much.

Do you know how we do it?

To make me a better husband

I've now learned to ask her three questions:

1) Is there anything I can do now that I can do but I haven't done that would make our marital relationship better?

2) What do you think I should stop doing? These things can hurt our feelings.

3. What else do you want me to do? That's good for our feelings.

In such conversations, we find that two people who understand each other and make some changes to each other can enhance their feelings.

You also need to spend some time and patience with people older than you. Because they have experienced more than you, there is a lot of experience and wisdom. When you are chatting with your parents and elders, put your mobile phone aside first, truly become each other's friends, and create good memories of life together.

There are a lot of people who don't understand what madness is.

In my opinion, to do the same thing in the same way or to treat everyone to the same effect is crazy. Do you understand what I'm saying? It should be adapted to local conditions and varies from person to person!

Learn to hug your child and never take it for granted that my child certainly knows that I love him and care about her. Do some behavior and do something, go and tell your child that he is lovely and beautiful! You're on his side! When you see a child's friend, can you be a friend of his friend? You think you're helping your child, but you're actually helping each other.

Would it be nice to start doing something you haven't done before today?

Go and tell your family

How much you love them

How much you value them

How much you need their support

Tell your child that he is beautiful

At this point, everything is sorted out

We see Nick's depressed childhood, his goals, obstacles, courage, tribulations, and views on love and family. There's so much to learn from him.

Let's be the best version of ourselves!

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