- We don't know which one will come first tomorrow and the next life, life and death are unpredictable, so we must grasp every day, cherish the people in front of us, let go of the past, embrace today, and look forward to the next second! We can only look forward to the next second, because the future is uncertain, and we do not want to expect what the future will be like, nor do we dare to hope for it. Living well is the greatest happiness in front of you!
In a world of red and green lights, how much can we see through
- I have a very good friend, one day he asked me out for a few drinks, drinking, presumably in excess, he began to choke, I asked him with a blank face what was wrong? That's when he told me about what had happened the other day.
- It turned out that his own brother had a car accident on the way to a business trip, just the morning before yesterday, his brother was basically working locally, the company let him travel for the first time, he also gladly agreed, he said that he wanted to drive himself, just as if he were going out for a trip. My friend pulled out his mobile phone with red eyes and flipped through the blue sky and white clouds, high mountains and flowing water along the way shared in his brother's circle of friends. He said he would never see a message from his brother in the chat dialog again. After saying that, I burst into tears!
How far apart is life and death
- People are like this, life and death have not happened to themselves, or in themselves, we can never understand. It turns out that life is so small, it turns out, "We must live well", this is by no means a sentimental slogan. Life is really only once, to live the life you want, not to drink those chicken soup without nutrition, to say a word of good health, we are all dragged down by money, obviously the income is objective, but still reluctant to enjoy, willing not to add a new dress to themselves, buy a watch.
- Be kind to yourself, no one or anything is more important than you! Even if it's your loved ones, children, parents, they are destined to leave you, all you have to do is be kind to yourself!
Live for yourself and the light will illuminate yourself
- There is also a true story, one of my classmates Xu Xiaofeng (pseudonym), suffering from cancer, in recent years are enduring unbearable torture and pain of ordinary people, he has been in the hospital for examination and treatment, many parts of the body have problems, but strong as he, has been working hard to fight against fate. He has always maintained an optimistic attitude, no matter how painful, no matter how uncomfortable, he is very positive to face, according to the doctor's every step of the requirements, to complete the doctor's account.
- I remember asking him one day, "Xiaofeng, you are also the one who walked through the Ghost Gate now, you can tell me what you want to do, or what you regret." After going through this time, have you gained anything? He said: "One of the things I regret the most is that I didn't honor my parents well and always show them at home." There is also a special concern for other people's opinions of me, I try to take care of everyone's feelings, will not refuse, will not refute, will only smile and greet, always let myself be wronged. He also smiled and said, "When I go out, I am not used to anyone, and whoever is good to me, I will be doubly good to him." Whoever made me uncomfortable, I returned it, and then pulled this man out of my life and never met. ”
- Yes, people always leave the worst temper to the family, and give the gentle side to outsiders, but they don't know, we all do the opposite. If you have something you can't think of, a knot that you can't untie, then you go to the hospital and walk around, see the people who are suffering in the hospital, and think about yourself, how lucky and happy you are. If you still can't think about it, God will treat you kindly, and you will suffer from a disease that can be cured. If Heaven does not want to treat you kindly, it will directly take you out of this world, and will not even give you the opportunity to regret it, in this world, except for life and death, everything else is really just a small thing.
Face every day bravely
- In what I saw coming. We have to refuse to digest the negative energy that anyone gives me. In the past, life was too simple, too calculating, and doing anything backfired. From now on, I will learn to paint, I will learn to learn calligraphy, I will learn to sew and make clothes, I will learn to cook, I will treat myself with a meal, I will buy myself a dress, I will buy a watch. Go to the place you yearn for a 10-day, eight-day tour. There is only one purpose, to please yourself, to make yourself have fun, life is short, you have to have fun, in the pressure of the mountain of mortgages, car loans, education funds, medical expenses and trivial chai rice oil salt, water, electricity and gas these necessities, have fun, is indeed a luxury. As long as life is passable, we can no longer be the person who is full of necessities, because we can only live this time, and we don't know how long we can live, can't we let the color of our lives bloom again? Life and death, wealth in the sky, we have the ability to decide how long the actual distance between the two, should not be in a hurry to go straight down, do not live in the present day without food and clothing, we have to twist and turn to be rich, to stop and go, not to blindly pursue material life, to constantly try new things. To continue to experience fresh experiences, to take the short life to go to the nine-curved ileum, with a deep sense of satisfaction, to death, this is really to live once, this is called a life without regrets!
Treat every morning as a new beginning
- So life is impermanent, you must work hard to live the life you want to live, you never know the accident and tomorrow which one comes earlier, you do not see more, experience more, is the biggest waste of your life. Every step in life doesn't have to be measured in terms of usefulness and uselessness, meaning and meaninglessness. If you are still confused, still entangled, and do not know how to live, then take every day of your life as if you were living now, close to beautiful people and things, away from the dross to take its essence. Don't tolerate the consumption of others on you, don't let your eyes imprison yourself, and don't let your troubles bother you, so love yourself well, this is the greatest respect for our lives can only live once!
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