Wang Zengqi said: "The family sits idly, and the lights are amiable. "There is a home to go back to, someone is waiting, there is a lamp that will wait for you." Every seemingly uneventful day is an irreproducible happiness.
First, it is a blessing to be together
Our family may not be the people who know us best, but they must be the people who accompany us for the longest time.
Because of the home, each of us can really find a home; because of the family, the wandering heart of the wanderer can take root.
There is no happiest thing in the world than to be with your family. The most painful thing in the world is to cross the hill alone and find that there is no one waiting around.
Mr. Ji Xianlin, a master of traditional Chinese studies, recalled that one of the things he regretted most in his life was to leave his hometown and leave his mother.
Since the age of six, my husband has left home alone to study abroad. Because his family was poor and far away, he never had the opportunity to go home and spend time with his mother.
Mr. Ji once secretly vowed that he must study hard and bring his mother to his side in the future.
However, before he could fulfill his wish, his mother was no longer there.
When my mother left, she left a last word: "I knew you wouldn't come back when you went out, and I really regret letting you go out." ”
This sentence of his mother has become a regret that Mr. Ji can never make up in his heart.
Wang Xiaobo said: "When people are young, they feel that there are people everywhere, and other people's affairs are your business.
In middle age, I realized that there was nothing in the world except my family. ”
Happiness is not trying to toss and turn in the outer world. Instead, it is to guard the family and live with peace of mind.
For a person, good health is great happiness; in a family, reunion and harmony is great happiness.
Staying by your family's side can also live your life in the way you like it best. Put every ordinary day to the full and abundant.
Second, blandness is a blessing
A happy life is what everyone wants. The wider the heart, the more happiness will be filled.
Truly happy people never deliberately chase. Observe with your heart and cherish the people and things around you. Slowly cultivate "gratitude" into a habit.
Days are like a piece of sugar that takes time to savor. Don't be in a hurry, take it in your mouth, and slowly it will be sweet in your heart.
Mr. Zhao Puchu, a calligrapher, once wrote a "Ballad of Relief of the Heart" at the age of 92: The sunrise of the East China Sea and the sunset of the Western Mountains, sorrow is also a day, joy is also a day; in case of trouble, do not drill the tip of the horn, the body is also comfortable, the heart is also comfortable; less meat and more vegetarian meals a day, coarse and sweet, fine and sweet; new and old clothes are not picked, good is also cold, Lai is also cold; Lai is also cold;
Often chat with confidants, talk about the ancients, and talk about today; the inner grandchildren and grandchildren also look at each other, the children are also happy, and the women are also happy; they receive pension money every month, more also like, less also like; the whole family comforts each other, the poor are also at peace, and the rich are also at peace;
Morning and evening work hard and exercise, busy is also optimistic, idle is also optimistic; the heart is wide and healthy, not a god, better than a god.
We are all secular people, after half a lifetime of ups and downs, we understand that plain and simple is true.
This epidemic has made us understand that in the face of life and death, there are no major events in life. Being able to live in health and peace is the gift of life.
Third, reunion is a blessing
Lin Yutang once said that happiness is nothing more than four things: one is to sleep in his own bed, the second is to eat the meals made by his parents, the third is to chat with his lover about home, and the fourth is to accompany his children to do games.
The most precious things are often the most ordinary. As long as the family stays together, even the daily life is a rare and precious happiness.
The epidemic has touched everyone's heart, and it has affected the happiness of thousands of families.
On the day of the Lantern Festival in the Year of Gengzi, a special little life came to this world. His mom is a 35-week pregnant COVID-19 patient. This special baby was named "Little Tangyuan" by the medical staff.
Both parents have to undergo treatment, and "Little Tangyuan" has had to be separated from his family since he was born. After half a month of isolation and observation, "Xiao Tangyuan" was discharged from Zhejiang University Children's Hospital.
After being discharged from the hospital, he will temporarily come to Haining Central Hospital and be cared for by his sister-in-law. In another 10 days, his parents will end the isolation treatment.
At that time, "Little Tangyuan" can finally return to his warm home. Like the "Little Tangyuan" family, more families will be reunited.
May the epidemic dissipate as soon as possible, and may you and I learn to cherish it. May all the little partings of the world be able to wait for a great reunion.