The weight of time

【Sister Press】

This is an old article from many years ago, and many students have spent the difficult years of their lives with the company and encouragement of this article.

Rearranging and sharing with everyone, I hope to send courage and strength to every student in difficult situations.

The weight of time

My mentor said two words that were precious to me. One sentence is: "Xiaoran is a particularly intelligent girl." This sentence changed my IQ, and from then on I decided that I was no longer clumsy. The second sentence is: "If only one student can get out, I think it's you." These words changed my cowardice and allowed me to summon up the courage to get to where I am today.

When I was 17 years old, I came to Beijing and started my university life. At that time, it was not good-looking, and the personality was not elastic. Self-esteem and rejection of strict management, I can't get along with the environment, let alone reconcile with myself. I have experienced all the troubles and confusions that you are experiencing right now. There was nowhere to release the bitterness in my heart, so I studied desperately, the results were particularly good, how good, the final exam of the first semester of the first semester of the freshman year, 9 exam courses 8 first, only the high number is the second 99 points, because there is a full score of students.

A master and brother told me that you don't have to fight so hard, and the graduation work and academic performance have little to do with it. During the internship, the older seniors told me that the job was stable and did not require a high degree. So at that time I was confused, learning seemed to be a mistake, and sleeping and playing were the mainstream of sociality, and I didn't know which was right or wrong.

Ten years later, I've found the answer. Today, as a master sister, I can tell you with great certainty what it means to study hard.

Last year, I applied for a master's degree in finance from a university in Hong Kong, and I needed my undergraduate and master's transcripts, and if your average score for this master's degree did not reach 85 points, you may not even qualify for the initial examination. I went to apply for a Doctor of Laws degree from Peking University, and if your grades in English Level 6 reached an excellent grade, you could skip the exam for a Ph.D. in English. Of course, you can't appreciate what a big compliment this is now, but you can go to Baidu and see how difficult it is for a Ph.D. at Peking University to speak English.

Therefore, some teachers and disciples asked me, four years without hanging up the subject is not OK, and the fourth level examination is not OK. I tell you, you know only one, not the other.

You only know that there is a gap between the passing line and the merit line, but you don't know that this gap may be your irreversible life for ten years. You only know that the pass line of the judicial exam is 360 points, and you will go out of your way to buy 360 sneakers for this purpose, and you don't know that the high-paid law firm you envision in the future may not charge students with less than 400 points. I especially encourage students to brush an IELTS or TOEFL score in the fourth or third year of college, not to let you go abroad, but you don't know that this score is valid for you to apply for any prestigious master's and doctorate, you can skip the English test, which means how much difficulty you have reduced, how much time you have saved your own time and parents' money.

None of these experiences have been told to you, nor have anyone told me that they were the ones I got after struggling with my head and going through all kinds of suffering, so today, I share them with you.

Put the goal higher,

Don't get by, don't make it up, don't be pretty much.

You believe me,

Your laziness today will become a slap in the face in the future.

There is no iron rice bowl in this world, if you have to find one,

Then this iron rice bowl must be given by yourself,

Not the parents, much less the state.

So what is the weight of time,

The weight of time is long-term.

Even if fate makes you feel at peace,

But you have to try to look around.

The problem of learning is solved, and I still have my own confusion.

I asked the teacher whether the four years of college should be four years of accumulation or four years of rich and colorful. The teacher said: "This is not a contradiction, I hope you will become academic experts, social miscellaneous." I wrote this sentence in my diary. I began to think about how to accumulate thick and thin hair, and how to be colorful.

Since I was a child, I have been very envious of the host, and I also hope that one day I can stand on the stage, pick up the microphone, and express my chest. But I can't host, and the image is not good. So I chose to go to the campus radio station for an interview and participate in the club, and I cherished every opportunity to speak at large and small events. I began to imitate the voice and rhythm of the Central People's Radio, and slowly I found that people began to like my voice. My audience went from a society of ten to a class of forty, then a 200-person department, then a 1,000-person auditorium, and then a whole school of teachers and students. In my sophomore year, in the school-wide host competition, I defeated the graduate student sister and got the golden microphone of the sixth host competition. After work, I was sent to study at a TV station because of the host specialty unit. In 2012, I studied while working and completed my systematic studies at the Media University.

So, many people ask me, how to improve the ability to express? You tell me where I'm going to start.

At the same time, I did another thing, writing articles.

Ten years ago, one of my teachers lamented that I couldn't find more students to write four years and four years down, so I could switch between prose, kumon, poetry, and papers. To prepare for today's talk, I found a ten-year-old CD-ROM that recorded all of my reading life, and I vaguely remembered that I had written sixty folders. When I reopened it, I found that there were exactly 877 folders and 108 hundred articles in size.

Therefore, in the civil service examination, I can score 82 points in the examination. So I can stay in one of the most promising positions in a competitive environment. So at the age of 22, I was reprinted two articles by the highest organ of the system. So when I was nine months pregnant and could no longer sit and type, I published an English paper at the Asia Society, which was the first time ever in the unit at the time. So I had the courage to hold my three-month-old nursing child and stand on the podium of an international forum.

At this time, some people will ask me, how to improve my writing ability? You say, where do I start to tell you.

So, what is the weight of time,

The weight of time is accumulation.

It's something you take seriously every time

A job, a poster,

A copywriter, a ball game.

Every time seriously will

Rewards are invisible,

When this invisible accumulation reaches a certain level,

It will burst with amazing power.

Last week, after I wrote about you who have nothing, dare to fight back, many groups have forwarded. Also because of this article, many missing students have found it again.

This is my undergraduate classmate, because we are two years older, we both call him big brother. The eldest brother said: Report my situation to the old sister, master of NTU, Dr. Tsinghua. Seeing the message of the big brother, I was really in tears. Because I can especially understand how much hardship and suffering we will experience in the middle of our initial starting point to get to this day.

In the background of the public account, I also found the sister who reviewed the examination and research together ten years ago. She said, Sister Master, do you remember the ping-pong table covered with books across the water room? Seeing this message, my tears came out of my eyes.

At that time, the conditions of the school were particularly poor.

Power is cut off at 10:30 p.m. every night. But there are always more ways than difficulties, and we girls have searched through the dormitory building. Finally, there was an abandoned warehouse opposite the water room, which was full of dust and debris and a dilapidated ping-pong table. There is no heating, no table, but the lights are bright 24 hours a day, and we regard it as a treasure. The girls kept the secret to each other. After the lights went out, I sneaked in quietly and reviewed it hard. The warehouse was extremely cold, and then we put the pot warmer in and opened the lid to get more heat. It was still cold, and then I carried the quilt over and wrapped it around the quilt to read. Once I accidentally fell asleep, at three o'clock in the morning, the housekeeper aunt suddenly came in, I was frightened and panicked, and my first reaction was that the aunt begged you not to make a small report. This aunt had always been known for her harshness, but that night she was like a loving mother, and said softly, "Child, go back to sleep." ”

I still thank this housekeeper aunt for giving me the same love as a mother when I was about to have a nervous breakdown.

So, if you're willing to help yourself, God will help.

Every time I ride my bike through the campus near my home, I think of a sentence:

Where there is any genius, where there is a bully, only lonely diligence. Every person who goes from ordinary to excellent, from excellent to excellent, which one does not endure loneliness again and again to force themselves into desperate situations, and then desperately live.

So, what is the weight of time?

The weight of time is optimistic.

This optimism makes you stop complaining,

No longer attribute your laziness and decadence to the external environment,

will make you think of everything you can,

Overcome difficulties and move forward.

Once, when I talked to the teacher, if I used two words to describe what the current state of the students is, the teacher said that one is in a daze, and the other is a game. I said not to be afraid, if they can send to the extreme in a daze, there will be unexpected gains; if the game is played to the extreme, it will also earn the first bucket of gold in life.

Ten years ago, I went abroad to study, where I met a Chinese student at Nanyang Technological University. He talked to me about his brother and sister, who was particularly fond of playing games when he was in college, and then found that people around him also loved to play games, and in his senior year, the brother relied on a notebook to create an online game platform. Three years later, the platform sold an astronomical amount, and he took the money to start his current company. This person is Chen Ou, this company is Jumei Premium, which has been listed in the United States.

What you can do in a daze to a certain level, I can also tell you. There is a famous circle called the Laodu Club, which is very famous and has a very high barrier to entry. So if you really can't control the daze, you may wish to open a daze public account, make the daze a career, and do not waste your daily hard work.

If you say these are too far away from us, I'll give you some examples around you.

I have a student sister who likes psychology very much, and was sent to the United States for further study a few years ago, and now she has opened a psychological counseling room in the system.

There was also a senior from the southwest, who used to tell me very distressedly that his English foundation was too weak because of geographical restrictions. At that time, I only watched him read English every day, and five years ago he began to teach himself Hebrew, and we were very confused, because we were too niche and didn't know what role it could play. One thing you stick to, do you know what magical things will happen, this is the photo of him accompanying the leaders of the International Cooperation Agency on a trip.

That's the ultimate.

When I was in graduate school, in order to save time, I went to the canteen every morning to buy six buns, two in the morning, two in the evening. This saves time in line to eat. To avoid the bun from cooling, I put it on the heating of the classroom, and all the ants in the heating slit smelled, and I stared at the book, completely unaware that I had bitten a black bun crawling with ants.

When I was a civil servant, I bought textbooks from all the publishing houses on the market in order to compare what constitutes a good essay. During the revision period, I distilled dozens of pages of the Sunflower Treasure Book, which helped many students who did not have time to review successfully prepare for the exam.

When the superior department was selected, I recited the position statement a hundred times in its entirety, just to avoid the expression error caused by tension.

During the judicial examination, in time for breastfeeding, some of the child's rations had to be sucked out every three hours. But from seven o'clock to eleven thirty o'clock, it takes four and a half hours, sitting in the exam room with the feeling of tearing skin, and every breath is painful. It was in this predicament that year that the Sikao scored 419 points.

Many students who passed the judicial examination have written about sharing experiences, but they have not left a trace. I also wrote an article "About the Time | A Mother's Journey to the Law Examination", 12,000 words, this article was rated as "the most heartfelt experience sharing in history", for which a training institution sent me an iPad, and several famous teachers became interactive friends.

The weight of time is extreme.

Not afraid of your daze,

I'm afraid you're just going to be in a daze,

Not afraid of your game,

I'm afraid you're just going to play.

The year before, when the time was getting better, I began to prepare for job hopping.

Many people ask me what the reason for the job hopping is, and I can't tell you that I just want to go out and have a look.

But I started too late, so it was extremely tough. I tell you with my own experience of blood and tears, when there is time to be lazy to learn, neglect to learn, when you enter the stage of life without time, you will find the preciousness of time, and the pressure of learning will really make you breathless.

That kind of sourness, I don't want you to taste.

I passed the certificate required for job hopping in the shortest possible time at the age of thirty.

Frankly, the day before the score came out, I was even in touch with other jobs, because the pressure of the transition made me question my abilities for the first time.

At nine o'clock the next morning, when the scoring system was opened, I covered my eyes and found myself perfectly through the gap between my fingers, and the tears brushed down on the ground - tears rained down, not exaggerated at all.

I've studied for so many years, I've taken so many exams, and this time, I've really tasted what it's like to cry with joy that my hands are shaking when I call my family. After my sister heard it, she called internationally from the United States, and the phone was almost choked.

If you ask me, sister, how do you do it?

With the foreshadowing above, I think you can guess what kind of tribulations I have experienced.

Therefore, I often have students ask me: what if I don't have the perseverance to learn and can't persevere?

Today I answer you:

If you can't stick to it, you have to insist on it.

If you drag one thing to youth, drag to middle age, drag to adulthood, and then life in addition to learning began to intertwine with the superior teacher parents and children, you look up at the sky, feel that you can not help yourself and lack of strength, can only send you two words: deserve. It's your own choice.

The teacher said that happiness is in your own hands.

I would say that unfortunately too.

The weight of time is long-lasting,

It's a lasting effort, a lasting courage,

Enduring will.

Finally, I use a passage I wrote myself,

As a conclusion to this sharing:

Man is born to death.

What I want to see is that during this long journey,

There is such a hard work experience,

There was such a brave and fearless attempt,

There is such a chance to brag to others,

There is a possibility that you become, instead of witnessing, the miracle of other people's growth again and again.

This kind of effort is not prestigious, not rich.

It is a solid copywriter, a perfect program,

A delicate dessert, a regretless answer sheet, a kind of love from the heart——

This love makes you no longer a spectator of chicken soup stickers, but the protagonist of chicken soup stickers.

This love makes you dare to dream, dream and create, create and future.

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