In the Weifang Children's Welfare Home, caregivers always sit among the children, holding and holding the children, and rarely see empty arms and idle hands.
There are many children, serious diseases, and a relatively closed environment, how can we not get tired of it? Colleagues said that the team was not formed in a day and a half, and Yang Shouwei, as a communist party member and vice president, has stuck to the front line for 22 years and given young people a good start. Yang Shouwei and his colleagues named the party branch "Candlelight Party Branch" and lit up the lives of orphaned children with silent dedication.
Crouch down to talk, lie down and try your meal
On the first day of admission, take photos, leave handprints and footprints, write down the weight of the body, and leave photos and write records at each stage, such as teething, crawling, walking, and going to school. In an office on the second floor of the Weifang Children's Welfare Institute, a whole bookshelf of growth records, everyone who has seen it is impressed.
"In the past, adoptive parents always asked me what it was like when my child was a child." Yang Shouwei said, "So, in 2008, I led everyone to start recording, so that children's lives are not flawed." ”
In Yang Shouwei's heart, the child is the center of everything. Zhang Yongmin, a colleague and caregiver of Yang Shouwei, said that when she entered the hospital in 2012, Yang Shouwei, who was the head of the nursing department at the time, gave her a list and let her memorize it. Above are the names of more than 80 children, and each person's characteristics, preferences, and maintenance precautions. "This list is the best entry material." Zhang Yongmin said.
Wang Min, a caregiver, said that for children with limited mobility, Yang Shouwei led them to regularly change the green plants and decorations of the room, so that the children could maintain a sense of freshness and exploration. Usually communicate, they squat down and look at the child's level; some children can't sit up by themselves, Yang Shouwei once let everyone lie down to experience how uncomfortable it is to eat lying down, so as to emphasize that the child should try to make the head high when eating, you can use the semi-recumbent position, or use the sitting posture to correct the chair, pillow, etc. to help the child sit up and eat.
Learn for children, create for children
Ninety percent of children in welfare homes are seriously ill and disabled, making nursing difficult. In 2000, when he first came to the welfare home, Yang Shouwei worked the night shift. The iron door was locked, and she was alone with the child. Afraid of the child's situation, her legs were straight when she patrolled the night.
In 2006, after graduating from high school, she began to "make up" parenting and nursing knowledge. She went online, searched books, went out to listen to lectures, sought teachings everywhere, and in 5 years obtained certificates such as orphaned child nurse, senior nursery teacher, nutritionist, rehabilitation health care teacher, Montessori intermediate teacher, social worker and so on.
Learn it, and immediately apply it to the child. Learned the nursery, she took the nurses to the children to do touch, do parent-child exercises, hug more, keep eye contact and language communication with the children when feeding and feeding; learned early education, she and her colleagues grabbed the children's growth sensitive period to design games and strengthen training; learned the nutritionist, she applied with the hospital, opened a "small stove" for the children; learned social work, she paid attention to adjusting the emotions of the children and the mothers of the nursing staff, asked colleague Li Haiyun to take pictures for everyone, and created surprises in ordinary work...
In the welfare home, a child is like a child, some rehabilitation tools can not be bought, Yang Shouwei with the nursing staff mothers to design and make by themselves. Straw bottles for children with cleft lip and palate, "O" shaped pillows for children with hydrocephalus, and "T" shaped cushions for children with cerebral palsy are now displayed in Yang Shouwei Labor Model Innovation Studio, and some have been promoted and used by the industry.
On the third day of the Chinese New Year in 2020, when the epidemic was in the head, in order to protect children, the Weifang Children's Welfare Home was all closed. Yang Shouwei led the team, the party members took the lead, and 34 people entered the closed area. Yang Shouwei led his colleagues to formulate more than 20 work systems such as disinfection and ventilation, meal delivery, and material procurement, carefully taking care of children during the day, disinfecting and cleaning by themselves, handling garbage, and repairing equipment and facilities; at night, several party members patrolled at night, 2 people in a shift, 2 hours a trip. In the first 20 days of prevention and control, Yang Shouwei did not sleep a single night.
Colleagues say that Yang Shouwei is the main backbone, but she said that she was touched by everyone: su Juanjuan, a special education teacher, was taught in a closed hospital, her lover was sent to fight the epidemic in other places, her father-in-law was in her hometown in Inner Mongolia, her mother-in-law took her children to weifang's home, and she often connected to the four places at night; some colleagues' parents were sick, and their children could not accompany them in the college entrance examination.
Like a candlelight, light up a child's life
Yang Shouwei's proudest thing is that the children raised in the hospital are praised. Once, when they went to the provincial civil affairs department to handle adoption procedures, the staff said: "These Weifang children are clean and polite. ”
The biggest child Yang Shouwei brought with him after work is Sun Chunmei, 35 years old this year. In 2005, Sun Chunmei graduated from Weifang Health School, gave up a job opportunity in a district-level public hospital, returned to work in a welfare home, and worked with Yang Shouwei for 5 years. In 2010, when the social welfare home and the children's welfare home were separated, she took the initiative to ask to go to the Weifang Social Welfare Institute to take care of the elderly in special poverty and the orphans and disabled youth. Yang Shouwei, the children they look up to, can not return to society, transferred to Sun Chunmei's social welfare home care. Sun Chunmei took over the baton and continued to take care of these younger siblings.
"Now the children have more sisters besides their mothers. Chunmei has returned to society, and our years of nurturing have not been in vain. Yang Shouwei said happily.
In the hearts of lovers and daughters, the deepest impression is the silhouette of Yang Shouwei who stayed in the window of the "Children's Building" of the welfare home when he was young, which reminds people of the song "Mother in candlelight". Coincidentally, Yang Shouwei and his colleagues later named their party branch "Candlelight Party Branch".
With the popularization of the concept of eugenics and excellent parenting and the popularization of obstetric examinations, in recent years, there have been fewer and fewer new orphaned children. Party committees and governments at all levels have comprehensively supported and cared for children in distress, and Yang Shouwei has taken on the responsibility of raising some children in distress. At the same time, they also help poor and disabled children outside the hospital to recover free of charge. Yang Shouwei led his colleagues, like a candlelight, and lit up in a new window.
Source: Dazhong Daily