My son recommended me and his dad to watch the movie "Brad's Midlife Crisis." The protagonist Brad is like the people around us, remorse for the loss of youth, confused about not succeeding, anxious for not getting ahead. The four best students in his college were either rich or wealthy, and all lived aristocratic lives in high society. And their own life and career are chicken feathers, everything is not satisfactory. In fact, he has an understanding and optimistic wife and a smart and calm son, but he himself does not feel happy.
There is a saying that goes, "We don't envy the richest man in the world, but we do envy our friends." "The reason why people are miserable is that they always feel that others live better than themselves and live better than themselves. In our lives, we often want to compare others and make ourselves the object of everyone's attention. And often others don't have so much time and energy to pay attention to your life, so just do your own thing and don't have to care too much about what others think. Other people's good life has nothing to do with their own dime, and relatives are the people you need to pay the most attention to, and they are also the people who pay the most attention to you. People are often in this jealousy and depression, missing the beautiful moments around them, forgetting to experience all the happiness they already have. Don't be jealous and compare to feel the good life!