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In the relationship between people, what seat to sit in and how to sit reflect the deep psychology of people. First of all, what position to sit in, directly reflects the society, the group's traditional sense of superiority and inferiority, that is, now, stuck in the form of gatherings or gatherings with many elderly people, who sits in what position will cause headaches for the host, and unnecessary mutual pushing or disputes often occur between the participants in the meeting. Secondly, all people have the psychology of maintaining their own dedicated space around their own body, and if they are violated, they will be displeased and uneasy. This space is called the "body range". Usually, people do not invade this range. It is not difficult to see that marking and analyzing a person's sitting position and sitting posture can simply draw a "topographic map" of the human heart. Let's take a closer look.
(1) The physical distance of the seat also indicates the psychological distance from the other party. The size of this distance can indicate the degree of subjective desire to invade the other party's physical field, so that some of his psychological thoughts can be judged and he knows what he wants to do. For example, a couple who promise to become Qingqing and me, even in a very wide sofa, they will inevitably sit close to each other's side, which is of course not that there is not enough space, but reflects their glue-like mentality. In a situation like this, if it's a couple around you, if you don't want to annoy people, you can be funny, give someone a little space, and walk away.
Another example is in the university classroom, if someone wants to actively participate in the discussion, most of these students will sit in the front of the classroom, on the contrary, some students do not often come to class, occupy the class time to go out to work, they will definitely sit in the back, for those who are not interested in the subject, will also choose to sit in the back.
(2) The direction of the seat is meaningful. There are two sides to the direction of the seat: one is to sit directly opposite or next to the other person, and the other is to sit with the person sitting away from the room and somewhere inside.
Sitting directly opposite or next to it, its psychological state is different, sitting face to face has a sense of distance, at this time, there is a table or something between the two people will feel more comfortable. When sitting on the side, there is no such restriction, most people use intimate distance to sit side by side, facing each other in the same direction, looking at the same object, in this case, it is easy to produce a certain sense of connection. In the face-to-face sitting position, both sides are in the best position to observe each other, and it is easy to produce a line of sight conflict and a sense of confrontation.
The same is true with regard to the relationship between men and women. There is a table in the middle, and the two sit face to face and talk, which may be quite a intimate shot, but this sitting style shows that they are not deep enough with each other, showing that there is a psychological willingness to understand each other. Conversely, two people sitting side by side will, in general, talk less than men and women sitting face to face, because they already know each other, and even in some cases it is very likely that they have already agreed to each other.
So, we can speculate about the mental activity of others and the information related to them by the direction in which they sit, so that you have a countermeasure if you want to take any action. When you see a man and a woman sitting next to each other, you will no longer have the idea of grabbing people's love, only to bless them with lovers and become dependents early, and they will also have a good feeling for you. Seeing a man and a woman sitting opposite each other indicates that they still have further communication to do, and if you are interested in one of them, there may be hope.
(3) Use deep sitting and shallow sitting posture to identify the psychology of the other party. For humans, standing posture is the most suitable general state for activities, so people will sit on the premise of being able to stand up immediately. Taking a shallow seat in a chair is one example of this. There are also people who dare to sit in a chair because of nervousness, and are often in a state of emergency where action is about to be taken.
Once the person relaxes, he will sit firmly on the chair and stretch out his feet at the same time, very leisurely, indicating that he will not stand up immediately. This can be seen in lions and horses: lions are fierce and powerful, so they can sleep all day, as if this represents a kind of self-confidence. Lions like to prey on horses, so this horse is very nervous all day long, but still can't escape the fate. So the deeply seated person has a spiritual advantage, at least he wants to be condescending. People who sit shallow often feel uneasy when sitting in a position, showing a state of inferiority.
Shallow people, unconsciously will show a kind of obedience to the other party's psychology, in front of such people, you must not appear too strong, arrogant, because they will rebel in their hearts. On the contrary, if you show kindness or concern for him, he will definitely like you in his heart. Willing to be close to you, this lays the foundation for expanding the relationship in the future, in fact, anyone can use it. If many people are willing to get close to you, this gives you an advantage, at least in terms of interpersonal relationships you have won, your work, work, learning will be easy to succeed, not far from getting the appreciation of others and even superiors.
(4) A deep psychological phenomenon manifested by the sitting posture of a human being. Some people will stomp on Erlang's legs as soon as they sit down, and it is said that such people are deep and do not accept defeat. However, this is the case for men, and women are slightly different. The woman boldly raises her legs, which shows that she is quite confident in her appearance or clothing. This kind of sitting posture is very sure to attract the attention of men, but also shows that she shows her strong desire, this kind of woman has strong self-esteem, is keen on being a boss, she is very easy to communicate with men, and she is not easy to fall in love with a man.