If you have some things in your heart, it is not always so easy to give up, and the worry, confusion, and hesitation in them have always filled your heart.
Reluctant to abandon it, unwilling to lose it, but not grasping it, always worrying about whether there will be a chance to make this obsession a reality.
Yes, there are many things in the world that are difficult to put down, but according to hesitation, injury, and decision-making to give up, it must be the peak of disappointment, so that there is such confidence.
A person, as long as there is no disappointment to the extreme, no collapse, there are expectations, it is not easy to choose to give up.
When does a person decide to give up someone or thing they love?
Maybe it was a long time of diligence and a lot of investment, but when you realized that you were still not close to the other side, you realized that everything you did was in vain, worthless on the other side.
If you find that you are diligently approaching her, only you yourself are injured, and she ignores you;
If you find that you leave her, you can live a stronger situation;
If you find that she's still living a nourishing life with or without you, and never remembers you, you know you should let go.
Frozen three feet, not a day's cold. The temperature doesn't get cold in a day, and the heart doesn't get cold in a day.
When the diligence again and again is all in vain, when the expectation is blown away again and again, when the slight disappointment gradually accumulates, the heart that cannot bear the weight is finally more and more broken.
Your heart has long been tired to the peak, your heart will no longer be able to bear the burden, from now on there is no strength to hold her hand, no longer have the idea to obey her false report, from now on there is no courage to deal with her indifference, from now on unwilling to turn back, then it is time to give up.
Let go of the past and get rid of yourself.
An emotion, a pursuit of perfection, gradually, you have always felt that you have infinite courage, just the sky does not fall apart, no one can take you, nor can you change your inner consistency, you feel that one day she will be impressed by you, will be as good to you as you are to her.
You firmly believe that you are sincere, spoiled, and caring for her, and one day she will figure out that you are the best one in the world.
As everyone knows, the falling flowers are deliberately flowing mercilessly, and the passion that is worn away again and again makes you full of fiery love and finally be worn away by disappointment.
All the investment, but only in exchange for I do not understand that we are not suitable you are a good person, such effort is meaningless, is the wrong payment of the goal, see the good to receive, is the highest responsibility for themselves.
It's not that she really doesn't understand, it's just that she doesn't want to understand you.
She doesn't understand why you're sad and depressed, she doesn't understand why you're angry and angry, she doesn't understand why you keep keeping a straight face.
She always thinks that she has done enough, always thinks that you are asking too much, always thinks that you are accusing her of ignoring it, always thinks that your investment is deserved.
Repeated injuries, repeated disappointments, let the collapse gradually accumulate, only the final release.
I used to think it was difficult to give up, even if it hurt, I couldn't let go.
But it really hurt into the bone marrow, and tearing the wound again and again and sprinkling salt on the wound, only to know that giving up is ignoring both sides.
It is true that at the moment when I learn to let go, I realize that it is not very difficult to give up.
When people reach a certain age, they always have to throw away something, a piece of clothes and pants that don't fit, a pair of shoes that don't fit their feet, a worthless emotion, a person who doesn't care about you.
Giving up is actually nothing remarkable, no one in this world can not survive without anyone.
Giving up on a person who has loved for a while may have sadness, reluctance, sadness, and pain in the heart.
But when I put it down, it was like the stone in my heart finally smashed out and landed on the soles of my feet, and although it hurt, my heart was relieved.
The sword hanging overhead fell to know the result. Learn to let go of emotions, always hang it in mid-air, and worry all the time that it will fall down anytime and anywhere, which will make you uncomfortable.
Many things have always been to let it go, and many people have always wanted to let her go.
In the past encounter, the decision was abandoned, and no matter how much love, don't look back.