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It is said that men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the yarn, the reason why women chase men is relatively easier, because women's emotions are more delicate, it is difficult for men to figure out women's minds, but in turn it may be much easier, and success is greater.
In fact, in the pursuit of love, whether it is a man chasing a woman, or a woman chasing a man is nothing, it is a normal yearning and demand for love, and it will not make this relationship appear cheap because a woman chases a man, and it will not be because who takes the initiative to pursue who will definitely be in a passive position in the relationship.
Some women will feel that if they pursue each other first, then it means that in the future in the relationship, they will always take the initiative to pay more, in fact, it is not, the man who is really worth pursuing will not despise you because of your initiative, but will double down on your efforts after identifying you as a person.
But women should also understand that when pursuing men, they cannot succeed by relying on passion and bravery alone, but skillful, intelligent women know how to avoid these taboos when chasing men, especially the third, so it will be easier to succeed.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > disrespect him </h1>
For men, love seems to be less important, which makes many women feel aggrieved, thinking that men do not pay more for themselves, and do not care about themselves as much as they care about each other.
In fact, if women understand the psychological and physiological characteristics of men, they will understand that it is not that men do not value love, but that men do not like to be bound by a relationship, and they will not ignore the freedom and ease they care about even when facing the beloved woman.
However, when some women chase men, they only care about treating men according to their own wishes, but they neglect whether the "good" they have paid is what men really need.
For example, some women feel that their high frequency in front of men will make him deepen his impression of himself and increase his good feelings for himself, but the real result is that men feel that they have a feeling of being monitored, even if women are kind, but men do not feel free, naturally unwilling to accept women's love.
For example, some women want to know more about men, do not care about men's feelings, and use all means to explore men's bottom line, resulting in violating men's privacy and not knowing it.
All kinds of behaviors in the process of pursuing each other reveal women's disrespect for men, do not respect his living habits, do not respect his privacy, do not respect his psychological feelings, how can such a woman touch the heart of men?
Truly intelligent women know how to stop at the right time, know how to keep a distance from men at the same time will not let men feel that they have no enthusiasm, but also know how to respect men in all aspects, so that men are gradually attacked in this relationship.
In a healthy love, respect for each other is the most basic condition, if you do not feel respected, even if the other party says it well, no one will be willing to accept the relationship.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="16" > over-expressing yourself </h1>
Wanting to get a man's heart, most women naturally want to show all their goodness and charm in front of men as much as possible, so that they will get the favor of men.
Such a thought is correct, but some women use the wrong way, excessive, but let the effect backfire, did not get the man's heart, but let the man have a disgust.
Her friend Shin Yeon has fallen in love with a tall and handsome man since she met a tall and handsome man at her college roommate's wedding.
Xinyan has always been a woman who dares to love and dare to hate, and now that she has the object of her choice, she naturally has to work hard to fight for it, so she began to prepare carefully, hoping to capture the other party's heart in the shortest possible time.
She often appears in front of men in sexy clothes, and even deliberately creates some aspects of her own advantages to attract men.
This kind of approach not only did not make men fall in love with her, but made men more and more disgusted with her, and finally Xinyan asked people to ask about men's attitudes and got such an answer.
"She's too superficial and only knows how to dress up, but after talking to her a few days, I found that she didn't have any hobbies, her only interest was shopping, and I didn't like girls who were too expressive."
In fact, men are right, in the eyes of most men, truly attractive women are often subtle and low-key, rather than deliberately showing off their own.
Women who overrepresent themselves will only make men feel very pompous, so their chances of natural success when chasing men will be much smaller.
In fact, if a woman wants to get a man's heart, she does not need to show herself too deliberately, she only needs to do herself well and let men see their charm little by little, so that there will be a process that moves him.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" > don't be ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex </h1>
At any time, a man will never be sincere with a woman who likes to play ambiguous, because that means that he is not the only woman, and the relationship is not guaranteed.
Some women, even if they are moved by men, still feel that they have other options, so while chasing men, they will maintain ambiguous relationships with other people of the opposite sex.
Even if such a woman pays more, it will only make men feel very cheap, because in his opinion, women can do this to themselves, then the same is true for other men.
The two people in love are somewhat "selfish", that is, they hope that the other party is exclusive to themselves, rather than having an ambiguous relationship with others, after all, loyalty is the most basic condition of love.
Smart women want to chase a man, will know to keep their own principles and bottom line, such an attitude will first impress men, will make men feel that women are a person with very positive values and emotional views, so they are willing to try to interact with women.
Some women play a little clever, chasing a man while afraid of the final failure, so they did not delay in maintaining an ambiguous relationship with other men, wanting to minimize their losses, but in the end they will find that no matter which man they are with, they have not been able to achieve the expected purpose.
Can make up their minds to take the initiative to pursue the beloved man, in fact, this requires a lot of courage for women, in the process of pursuit, it is more necessary to pay with heart, be prepared to bear failure, so since the decision to love, women must keep their own principles, know how to use some small skills, small routines, so that it is easier to grasp the heart of men.
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