This is a true story, and it happened to the author. Because of the privacy issues involved, no names are given. I have a good friend whose wife is indulgent to her only son. His son, doted on by his mother, became a lazy bear child.
When I met that friend, his son was almost 10 years old. His son has been a petty thief since he was a child, and when he is discovered, his friend's wife will always rub his son's ass. The mother's doting makes the bear child have no fear. The bear child grew up to be lazy and lazy, and finally went to the road of crime, and is still serving a sentence in Xiamen Prison.
The story of "loving mothers and many losers" was really staged in my friends. My friend came to me for a drink and poured out the bitterness in my chest. At that time, I remembered the story of the "drama thief Chen Ajian" recorded in the ancient book "Han Zhuo (sound: Tao Wu) Near Zhi". Chen Ajian was a peasant boy in the ancient Wuxi area, and his mother doted on him. Once, a fish egg vendor passed by the door of Chen's house, and Chen Ajian stole a fish egg.
Li Shimin stills, played by the famous film and television star Mr. Du Chun.
A few days later, the fish egg vendor passed by the chen family again. Chen Ajian, who tasted the sweetness, stole two fish eggs. This matter let Chen Ajian's mother know. If a normal mother knows that her son is stealing from someone else, she will definitely beat her son violently and make him change his ways. Instead of teaching her son not to steal, Mother Chen was very happy and praised Chen Ajian.
After Chen Ajian stole something and was praised by his mother, "because of his cute learning and stealing intentions, he was a specialized boxer, learned light body techniques, and became an artist for several years." Chen Ajian later became a thief of Jiangyang and was caught by the imperial court and sentenced to death. Before the execution, Chen's mother went to the execution ground to send her son off. Chen Ajian asked to eat another bite of his mother's milk before he died, and Mother Chen fulfilled her son's request before his death.
Chen Ajian bit off his mother's nipple and said, "If you had persuaded me to follow the right path earlier, I would have ended up like this." (The execution of the mother is called to the mother, that is, to have a milk, and to die is to see.) The mother has mercy on her son, and her chest is in it. Chen tried his best to bite off a breast, hating: "If I had been right earlier, why would I be here today?" ”）
Li Shimin stills, played by the famous film and television star Mr. Zhang Fengyi.
This allusion recorded in the "Hanzhu Jinzhi" is a classic case of a loving mother and a loser, and it is widely circulated in the folk. Li Shimin has an older sister, Princess Changguang, who is also a negative teaching material for "loving mothers and many losers". Princess Li of Changguang, during the Sui Dynasty, married Zhao Cijing and gave birth to a son, Zhao Jie.
After Li Yuan became emperor, Li Became a Princess, and Zhao Cijing became a donkey, and also served as a soldier's attendant. Zhao Cijing led his troops on a campaign and was killed by the Sui Dynasty general Yao Junsu. After Zhao Cijing's death, Princess Changguang changed her title to Princess Guiyang and took her son Zhao Jie to marry Yang Shidao. Princess Guiyang and Yang Shidao gave birth to a son, Yang Yuzhi. Princess Guiyang was very doting on her two sons, Zhao Jie and Yang Shidao, so that the two sons developed a character of not being afraid of heaven.
Zhao Jie is Li Shimin's nephew, he has an uncle covered, and his career can be described as smooth and prosperous. Zhao Jie was not yet thirty years old, and he became a feudal official. At that time, the readers, who studied hard in the cold window, had to stay up until they were forty or fifty years old after passing the entrance examination, so that they could become a feudal official at the level of the history of thorns. Zhao Jie was less than thirty years old when he became an assassin, and Li Shimin could be said to have treated him well.
Li Shimin stills, played by the famous film and television star Mr. Yu Shaoqun.
Under the doting of his mother, Zhao Jie developed the character of "not afraid of heaven". The heavens here are not adjectives, and Zhao Jie is really not afraid of The Heavenly Son Li Shimin. Zhao Jie wanted to kill his uncle Li Shimin and make his cousin Li Chengqian emperor. Zhao Jie's plan to rebel was cracked by Li Shimin, and Zhao Jie was imprisoned for it.
In terms of circumstances, Li Shimin was Zhao Jie's uncle, and Zhao Jie killed his uncle with his nephew and committed the crime of "not being moral."; in terms of the law, Zhao Jie plotted to kill the Son of Heaven and committed the crime of rebellion. Conspiracy and disobedience are heinous and unforgivable sins. In particular, plotting rebellion is a major crime to condemn the clan. Li Shimin looked at his sister's face, there was no clan of the Zhao family, but only sentenced Zhao Jie to death, which was already an extrajudicial favor.
The Zizhi Tongjian records that after Li Shimin sentenced Zhao Jie to death, he was worried that his sister could not stand the stimulation and went to the residence of Princess Guiyang to comfort her sister. When Princess Guiyang saw Li Shimin, she fell to her knees and begged Li Shimin to pardon Zhao Jie for his capital crimes. At this point, Princess Guiyang was still interceding for Zhao Jie, and her doting on her son was evident from this.
Li Shimin stills, played by the famous film and television star Mr. He Rundong.
Princess Guiyang's kneeling made Li Shimin very embarrassed. If Zhao Jie was released, the majesty of the imperial court's law would disappear. Li Shimin had no choice but to kneel down and say to Princess Guiyang, "It's not that my brother wants to kill Zhao Jie, it's that he's committed a crime that is too heavy." In order to maintain the law of the imperial court, I can only apologize to my sister. (Up to the princess house, the princess struck the ground with her head, weeping for the sin of the son, and the upper also wept: "Reward does not avoid revenge, punish no relatives, the way of justice in this world, do not dare to violate it, think it is a negative sister.") ”）
After Li Shimin and his sister hugged and cried, they issued an edict to give Zhao Jie the death penalty. Princess Guiyang's son, Yang Yuzhi, was also spoiled by his mother's connivance and developed a character that was not afraid of heaven. Zhao Jie's death did not awaken Princess Guiyang, nor did it awaken his half-brother Yang Yuzhi.
Princess Guiyang had a sister, Princess Yongjia, who was about the same age as her nephew Yang Yuzhi. After Princess Yongjia married Dou Fengjie, she was still not willing to be lonely, and there were many moves out of the wall outside. Yang Yuzhitian was not afraid, and actually did not dare to do anything with Princess Yongjia.
Statue of Li Shimin, thanks to the original author
Princess Yongjia was the sister of Princess Guiyang, in other words, Yang Yuzhi's sister-in-law. If it weren't for the fact that the State-level Canonical Book of Tang recorded this in black and white, I would certainly not believe Yang Yuzhi and Princess Yongjia. The crux of the matter is that this ugly deed is indeed recorded in the canonical history, and I cannot believe it.
Yang Yuzhi and Princess Yongjia were enough to show that Princess Guiyang doted on her son and taught a thing that was not a thing. Yang Yuzhi's fate was also tragic, and he was arrested by his uncle Dou Fengjie. Dou Fengjie was born as a general, not a weak scholar. Dou Fengjie grabbed Yang Yuzhi with a knife and stabbed him to death.
There are many stories of loving mothers and many children. Mothers do not educate their bear children. Naturally, someone will educate the bear child for the mother, and at that time, the price paid will be great.
Bibliography; "Han Zhu Jinzhi", "Zizhi Tongjian", "New Book of Tang"
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