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The Buddha said that fate is predestined, and half a point is not up to man. What is yours is yours, not yours, and you can't ask for it. Past lives do not owe, this life does not see, fate has cause and effect, there is reincarnation in the world, fate comes and goes, all are providence.
Fate is a very mysterious thing, and it comes to your world with a certain fate. Whether it is family affection, love, friendship, everyone in life is destined to be with you.
As for family affection, parents and women, the fate of this lifetime is only once. When a parent dies, the child is left with only a way back in the world.
Some people say that when your parents are gone, you will be very lonely, but one day, we will also go over there to reunite with him. In fact, the reality is the fate between parents and children, only the fate of this life, the next life, never to see again.
Between husband and wife, it is also fate, and the millennium cultivation has to cross the same boat, and the hundred years of cultivation can sleep together. A man and a woman, in this life and in this life, and who are crawling and rolling together under the same roof in chai rice oil and salt, are all one and the same.
Why are there so many people who, when in love, talk about one after another, have been on the road to failure? Either the donkey does not go, or the grinding does not turn, either the conditions of the two families are not suitable, or the two people are not matched, and every time there is always a reason to break up, that is, no one goes into the siege with him.
In fact, according to the Buddhist theory, it is that fate has not arrived.
When you have experienced countless failed blind dates, loves, and are discouraged. Inadvertently met a person but looked at the right eye, the two people talked, everything was logical, everything came naturally, two people held hands, entered the marriage together, and worked together to interpret the story of white head to old age.
Sometimes, you have to believe in fate, you have to believe in fate. Thousands of miles of marriage are tied together, there are thousands of miles to meet, and there is no reason to face each other.
Because before this fate came, you always had a spider's web of failures, but when the person in your life came, everything became.
Those fates in life that cannot be loved are also predestined. For example, lovers, such as Zhiji.
Although you have married a wife and she is married, when fate comes, he magically comes into your life. When fate comes, you will not greet you in advance, but will come to King's Landing silently, and when fate comes, you can only hug and catch it.
Meet the right person at the wrong place at the wrong time; meet the wrong person in the right place at the right time.
The fate of life, the right place at the right time and the right place to meet the right person, is the fate that can walk in the sunshine with great light.
As Xu Zhimo said, at least once in a lifetime, I should forget myself for someone, do not seek results, do not seek peers, do not seek to have, do not even ask you to love me, only hope to meet you in my most beautiful years.
And those misplaced relationships, misplaced love, even if there is a reason to accompany each other on a journey, in the end they also end up with a wordless ending, leaving you with wordless hurt and pain.
But a love affair, a fate, there will always be a beginning, a process and an end. Because fate is time-sensitive.
When fate comes, no one can stop it, and when fate is there, you can only carefully take care of it, manage it seriously, and cherish it well.
When the fate goes, no one can stay, and can only wave his head to let him go away. For his mission in your life has been fulfilled, and his debts have been paid off.
Therefore, the Buddhists say that no matter who comes into your life, you can't get rid of the four relationships of "repaying kindness, repaying grievances, repaying debts, and collecting debts."
No matter what kind of relationship fate, it will make you taste the taste of love, the preciousness of love, sweet and sour.
Those who repay kindness let you feel and taste warmth; those who complain make you entangled, taste all the pain, repay the debt, let you taste sweet and taste all the pain, and the debt collection makes you suffer.
In the world, any love word that is contaminated will make you turn a thousand times, think hard, and suffer a lot.
All the sweetness and pain, all the gains and losses, all the love and hate, are predestined. A person, how much you get, will end up taking away as much as you want.
It is your fate, thousands of mountains and rivers will also meet, not your fate, go face to face, will not know each other. This is fate. All encounters are not accidental, but an inevitability, with an element of fate, you can't escape.
Sometimes it only takes a moment to meet a person, falling in love with a person is a moment of mutual understanding, and at the end of the relationship, forgetting a person requires a long life.
<h1>Conclude with this lyric:</h1>
Why not look down on the past in the wind and dust
Just to meet that one look
Open that door of your heart to each other
Wind and rain through thousands of mountains and rivers are still so true
Only because you accompanied me on this journey...
About the author: Liu Qigongzi, also known as Liu Rumei, a member of the Shandong Provincial Writers Association, has published works such as "Notes on Xiao He's Struggle", "Wait for My Lovesickness to Be Put Down, Allow You to Wander the World", "The Most Beautiful Year Meets the Most Beautiful Ancient Poems", "A Night of Cold Rain, Half a Duckweed: The Legend of Nalan Rongruo" and so on. Like my text, welcome to like and follow.