Fate is predestined

Friends, do you believe in love at first sight? Do you believe that fate is predestined? Believe it or not, but I believe. Because my husband and I first met each other was also a fate.

After graduating from the kindergarten in 1996, I went to work at a military kindergarten with a classmate, Zhang Hua. I buried myself in the garden all day long, and with a clear understanding of my various conditions, I repeatedly postponed my life's events. In fact, there was a fellow countryman who was in particularly good condition at that time, a second lieutenant, with strong work ability and a down-to-earth duty. It was 1998, and an enthusiastic colleague, Ms. Chen, joined the kindergarten, and she was a family member of the head of the transportation section. She misremembered the hometown of zhang hua and me, and introduced the lieutenant's hometown to zhang hua. The two go on a date to eat, watch a movie... It looked like it had become one, but it wasn't long before the two actually broke up. Afterwards, Zhang Hua told me a word, your lieutenant compatriots don't really understand romance, the whole wooden stake. Later, Teacher Chen knew that he had mistaken my hometown with Zhang Hua and me, so he introduced the lieutenant to me instead. I was particularly embarrassed in my heart, not because my fellow countrymen were not outstanding enough, or because I had been in love with my classmate Zhang Hua, and I had been unable to accept it. Originally, I agreed to participate in the Spring Festival Party organized by the brigade at the end of the year and take a car home together, but I temporarily became a deserter and left by car half a day in advance. The lieutenant and I were gone. There was a retired colleague in the unit, and we called him an instructor when we got home. The instructor's surname is Wang, his ancestral home is Inner Mongolia, and he can't understand what he is talking about as soon as he speaks, and he grunts, but he feels very interesting to listen to. The instructors had both lost their parents at an early age, participated in the revolution at a young age, participated in many battles large and small, and also went to the Korean battlefield. Later, for work reasons, responsible for managing the education of the children of soldiers in the brigade, junior high school, primary school, and kindergarten became the main battlefield for instructors, and he himself particularly liked his work, especially for young children. Every day, he carried a large string of keys to various places in the garden, and jingled through the corners and corners of the garden. At work, the instructor is not less instructive. My lifelong event instructor was even more concerned, so that his eldest son, who worked in the Electricity Bureau, secretly selected the right young man for me to know, although the two of us met, but the other party was cold and indifferent, and almost usually did not contact. Finally, the instructor did not know how to find him stepping on two boats, decisively cut off this small episode of love, I did not feel sad at all. Afterwards, the instructor was full of guilt, but sincerely said: "I will definitely introduce you to a better one, wait." "On December 13, 2000, I organized the children to stand in line and prepare to go outside for outdoor activities. As soon as I looked up, I found a young man wearing a gray and black color-block jacket with a side-sided distribution type, standing under the plum tree in the garden, his eyes constantly looking at me. My heart suddenly rejoiced, this is what I am looking for, the person who has held hands for a lifetime, I recognize him. It was all arranged by the instructors. After the "two boats on the foot", aunt Gu, the old wife of the instructor's family, was ready to introduce her distant niece's brother and me to know. As soon as I learned about the situation, the other party was 5 or 6 years younger than me. Casually asked her niece whether there was a suitable young man, the sister-in-law remembered that the youngest brother of the in-laws was still single, one year older than me, retired from the army to work in the field for a few years, his parents were old, and they were afraid that he would find a girl in the south and use various excuses to urge him to go home to work.

I met my husband in the way of blind dates. A week later, he invited his third brother and family to eat hot pot together. That night, my husband almost didn't pay much attention to eating, kept refilling the dish in the pot, and then kept clipping me to eat, and my husband's thoughtfulness touched my heart. After knowing each other for about a month, before the little year, the in-laws and mother-in-law entrusted their husbands to pass on the word and take people to the home to formally get to know each other. The instructor specially selected the director of handan in the garden, who was also a family member of the director of our political department, and accompanied me to my husband's house after work. There are four sisters in the husband's family, and the younger generation has four children. The eldest brother and the third brother cooked, and in a short while, the long table was filled with one or twenty dishes. My mother-in-law was very happy, and the people were very practical, and kept greeting me to eat vegetables. What surprised me the most was the first time we met, even my husband himself did not know my nickname, but my mother-in-law called out, and after shouting, we were both stunned. Oh my God, that's a coincidence. My husband mistakenly thought I had other ideas, so he rushed to give me food. Afterwards, I told my husband about it, and he was surprised. Well, I have to admit, this is fate, the fate of heaven, to become a family fate.

A hundred years of repair to cross the same boat, a thousand years to repair a sleep together. Thank God for letting me and my husband have this fate between husband and wife.

Friends, do you have a similar situation, let's share it.