The meaning of life

It is also many, many years of exploration, only hazy to have some feelings, dare not say to find, but at least not so confused.

I once read an article about an old man, an elderly man who is incapacitated, very painful, always feels that he is a burden, it is better to die early. During an argument, the children said, "You know what? You are, the greatest value to your children. This is the first meaning of life: existence. When a person exists, it will have an impact on others, and it will transmit something, love, help, knowledge, strength... This is different from dead things. Therefore, neither self-arrogance nor arrogance, but also peace, is what the saying goes: live in the present. Accepting one's own unique existence is the first wisdom that blooms with the meaning of life.

Another time watching a TV series, the terminally ill mother said to her daughter: Don't be sad, I am not dead, you are the continuation of my life. Well, that's the second meaning of life: continuity. Falling in love, getting married, and having children seems to be extremely ordinary things, but this is the root of the continuation of life, the root of the continuation of species, and it can be said that the most primitive motive behind all human behavior lies in this. Love your partner, love your children, and do your best to cultivate your children into valuable people, and you can't give up your children's companionship and education because of your own selfish interests. The balance is the second kind of wisdom.

The most basic existence, the continuation, is to help others, come to this world, positively affect others, so that others, collectives, society because of your existence and have a little progress. The greater your ability, the more people you influence, and the greater the value. This requires individuals to continue to learn, progress, and exert greater energy. This is the third kind of wisdom.

These are the three meanings of life that I consider, and the wisdom needed to achieve them. Each one is mundane, but it is never easy and takes a lifetime to achieve. There is no one who is high and who is low, who succeeds and who fails, nature has given all things a form, there is never a distinction between good and bad, and living yourself well is the right view.