The old man who has love will be loved by others - the Japanese pension movie "0.5 mm" after viewing

The protagonist of this movie is a young Japanese elderly care worker, Sawa, and the second protagonist is 4 elderly men who are going through the process of old ageing. As a working elderly care worker in China who is not too old, my observation perspective often falls on these elderly people.

The first old man to appear is the incapacitated old man Shōzo who is about to die. He is the elderly in long-term care of Sawa and the key person who led to Sawa's connection with several other elderly people. He is already in the stage of "weak heart" and cannot do anything to others except need the care of others. In the gap between the wetness of Sawa changing his diaper, he couldn't hold back the urine, and in a hurry, Sawa directly used his favorite water cup to pick up the urine for him. The daughter thought he was about to leave, and spent a lot of money to ask the nurse who had been taking care of him to sleep with him for one night to satisfy his wife's thoughts. Unfortunately, there was an accident that night, and Sawa lost his job and had nowhere to go. So Sawa, who is very familiar with the old man and is good at grasping, begins to hunt for the old man who can solve her accommodation problems in the street.

The second old man to appear is Yasuo, who wears a respirator on his nose. He was selected by Sawa when he asked the clerk for the price at KTV. Sawa pretended to be his friend and sang with him at the KTV, ate and drank enough, and slept until dawn. He was alone and wanted to "spend all his money", and going to KTV was one of his spending plans. When he meets the familiar Sawa, he quickly accepts the woman who appears inexplicably, and spends a night happily like a familiar friend at a KTV party, unguardedly telling Zohar about his relationship with his family. When they were separated, he gave Sawa ten thousand yen, and a coat that he had taken off from him, as if jokingly or seriously inviting Sawa to be his caregiver in the future. Zohe accompanied him and avoided the slaughter of the clerk; she sang with him and listened to him sing the old songs of the past; and since then she had been wearing the coat he had given her, preserving his goodwill.

The third old man to appear is Shigeru Ishiguro, who looks healthy. He is caught by Sawa while sabotaging someone else's bicycle, and has to accept the conditions and take her to his house. He regarded others as good friends because others were willing to listen to him carefully, and even preferred to be deceived by others; he listened to Sawa's words, returned his previously stolen bicycles, and posted sorry notes one by one; he took Sawa to sit in his carefully maintained antique car, let her keep his 10 million pension, and gave her 1 million inheritance and the antique car. After living in his house, Sawa cooks for him; points out the cheater's behavior and advises him not to be deceived; when the cheater comes to haunt him, he stands up for him, claims to be his woman, and guards his hard-earned pension for him.

The fourth old man to appear is a righteous man who has joined the army and served as a teacher. He is the only man in the movie whose wife is alive, but there is the same as nothing. His wife was paralyzed in bed, needed the daily care of the nursing staff, could not give him any of the gentleness of his partner, would only sing in the middle of the night to disturb the people, and the man she liked in her heart was not him. He goes to the bookstore to steal a photo album of girls, and is caught by Sawa. He couldn't pull down his face and had to be at the mercy of Sawa and let her live at home as his student lover. He helped Sawa watch the dried pickled fish; recorded tapes for Sawa; and shared his thoughts on the war with Sawa. Sawa, on the other hand, helped him take care of his wife with the caregivers; prepared him meals; chatted with him and listened to him talk about the past.

In the movie, there is also an old man-to-be who has an entanglement with Sawa, and is regarded as the father of the girl raised by the boy. After Saying goodbye to Yoshio, Sawa meets Xiao Zhen and, through Xiao Zhen, meets her father. It was only after the death of her grandfather and mother that I first met my daughter's father. He hated his daughter for not speaking, stubborn, only knew to read useless books, drank xiaozhen who did not drink alcohol, and cut Xiaozhen's hair. In order to help Xiao Zhen, Sawa took him with him, and then took Xiao Zhen with simple luggage and left him.

The characters are different, and the fates are similar: whether they have money or no money, people face loneliness and cruelty when they are old. At the end of life, unaccompanied, as at birth, alone. The wealth that was hard to save when you were young was either given to a nursing home, or left to relatives who waited until the elderly did not recognize it; or had to give children who only cared about the inheritance of the elderly and did not care about how the elderly were old- In contrast, Sawa, who forcibly solves the problem of eating, drinking, and housing with them by holding their handle, is the one who really cares about and cares for them. That's love.

So, what kind of old people will be more likely to get this kind of love? There is no blood relationship, no moral kidnapping, purely from the feelings that flow naturally from the heart.

I think it is the old man who has the ability to "love" and will love others.

In this movie, Amao is the most loving and the old man who is loved the most by Sawa. I also like him the most. He loves his friends, even if he knows that he has been deceived, he is willing to listen to his friends; he has saved a lifetime of money, accumulated 10 million yuan of property, and finally took the initiative to enter a high-end nursing home, did not let his children give him a pension; he was threatened by the woman he met on the road, had to accept her to live in his home, but willingly gave her a well-preserved classic car, and 1 million property, he sympathized with this young girl who had no relatives and was homeless. Sawa's greatest love for him in return is to pretend to be his woman's identity, for him to resist the deception, to chase after the door, annoyed and angry vicious scoundrel. Ah Mao's love empowers Sawa, so that she is full of strength to face the hardships and hardships of life, her love box is full, she can give back to Sawa, and can also be given to other elderly people who need love. Sawa's return is a recognition and reward for Ah Mao's love.

Outside of the movie, the same is true.

After working as an elderly care worker, I met dozens of elderly people. Among them, they especially liked and wanted to be close to them, and many of the old people who stayed with them were very loving.

An old man with cerebral infarction sequelae, half paralyzed, aphasia and almost no speech, but she feels the love I feel when I take care of her, and will make gestures to express her liking for me;

The old man with inconvenient legs and feet pulled me to see the cucumbers she planted on the balcony; showed me her photo albums, introduced the characters and background stories on the photos one by one; worried that I rushed to the door to do long-term care insurance services and did not have time to eat lunch, often invited me to eat or bring rice dumplings; told me that if there is an emergency to do temporarily, I can adjust her service time at any time; in order to help me increase the accumulation of industry knowledge, let me listen to the radio program of pension health every time I serve;

The legs and feet can hardly move, the bath needs help, the old man who has been talking repeatedly, always folds his hands, thanks me for coming to the door to take care of her, praise me "you are so good", "how are you so good", but also care about others, remind me to "hurry up, and then go to help others"...

These old people, both I am helping them, but they are also helping me.

They made me feel the meaning of work, the beauty of myself, and let me appreciate the beauty that the elderly can present. After getting along with them, I increased my confidence and courage to live well, and my love for the world. They set an example for me on how to make a model that can earn the respect and love of caregivers.

Toward aging, we have no choice; there can be a way to grow old beautifully.

The distance between people, 0.5 mm, is the distance between the heart and the heart after it is close. You go, he comes, the one who loves to come out loves to return, and the one who loves to go is blessed.

Old, not scary at all.