Camel has rotated three offices, one integrated office and two business departments after coming to the system workplace. In the first business department there was such a sister Zizi.
Zi Zi, 89 years, married for 8 years and had children for 6 years, one son and one daughter. Doing a job in the business department is relatively easy. One of the characteristics of this office is that no matter whether the work in the department room is heavy or not, you can commute to work on time without overtime. In other words, Zizi's work is the easiest in the whole unit!
Zi zi is a beautiful undergraduate, in the compilation of cadres, married early, husband is an annual income of millions of bosses. It is reasonable to say that such purple purple can be said to be enviable, but in daily work we are not envious of purple purple at all.
Why not envy Purple Purple? The reason is that in Purple Mouth her world is only her married family, and her family is full of unhappiness! If 3 hours of work are talking, Zizi has at least 2.8 hours to complain about her postmarital family, from before marriage to after marriage, every day is husband, mother-in-law, children. Also because children often take leave. From the pre-wedding bride price to the living conditions of the current house, it is all dissatisfaction. From the conversation, I learned that Zizi's husband started from scratch, and the dowry before marriage was not much, and later the dowry was also used to buy a wedding house, and Zizi was full of complaints. Another married female colleague in the office besides Zizi rarely complained about marriage.
In fact, people who have seen Zi zi's husband say that her husband is an excellent person, and zi zi is as warm, helpful, upright, and good character. Probably in zi zi xin, because her husband is very busy at work, there is a certain lack of care for the family.
Camel believes that the happiness of a family depends on how you run it and how you look at it. Some people see a blooming flower and think that it is about to wither, and some people think that the flower is beautiful. Generally two people are very balanced I mean for example, the degree of busyness at work is basically the same, and it is difficult to take care of the family consistently. If you acquiesce to the other person making more money, you have to accept that the other party is busier at work. If you acquiesce to the other person's busy work, you have to accept that the other party does not take care of the family as much as you. God has always done the work of equal exchange.
What is needed in the workplace is more about work communication than for parents.
It is better to look at Zi Zi's marriage from another angle, Zi Zi's husband can make money, and has a good personality and good character. My own work is stable and easier, I can commute to work on time and have more time to take care of my family that I care more about, which is a good marriage between male and female protagonists. As for their pre-marital husband who complains every day, the bride price is used to buy a marriage house, it is better to look at the current family conditions, sometimes we should not breed too much dissatisfaction with a little thing, this is not to let others listen to your complaints less, but more for their own rich spiritual world to get a peace.