In the past, the cold door out of the noble son, his own family situation is not good, through his own efforts to achieve higher achievements. With a tenacious character that ordinary people can't have, it is said that there is a golden phoenix in the chicken coop. So there is the phoenix man, the phoenix woman.
In the past, this was not a derogatory term. But as the times slowly changed, the hustle and bustle of life in the big cities slowly changed the minds of these people. Ever since they've been exposed to a life of more drunken fans, they've wanted to climb up to someone from a well-off family to get married.
But they refuse to accept this bad argument, and they feel that their charm has conquered the other half. They do not want to live a more relaxed life through others, especially some men who live in their wives' houses and spend their wives' money, but still feel that they are on top, which is a shameless behavior that is very noble.
Today's story comes from the sharing of netizen Zhang Na.
Phoenix man meets rich woman
Zhang Na grew up in a big city, and her parents were businessmen. All the friends around me are the same family situation, I have seen all kinds of expensive things since I was a child, and my parents are also very fond of Zhang Na, and never treat Zhang Na harshly in terms of eating and wearing. Zhang Na's circle of friends from childhood to adulthood is a group of rich children, and she thinks that she will marry a person with the same family background in the future.
After going to college, Zhang Na's friends were admitted to all over the world, and only a few of them stayed local with Zhang Na. After going to college, Zhang Na made new friends. She also slowly came into contact with people with ordinary family backgrounds, such an experience made Zhang Na very surprised, and she will try to help some students with poor family conditions in her daily life.
Zhang Na's popularity in the class has become very good. Unlike Zhang Na, although Li Tao lives in the same city as Zhang Na, he lives in the old city and lives on a shoestring from childhood to adulthood. His parents also did not have a decent job, and the poor life he lived from childhood to adulthood made Li Tao want to go to a higher level even more.
In the end, Li Tao was also admitted to a good local university, and after going to college, he also began to actively make friends with classmates with good family backgrounds around him. I hope that after graduation, they can also take themselves to have some well-paid jobs. One of the brightest eyes is Zhang Na in the same class, and Li Tao began to approach Zhang Na purposefully.
Because Li Tao grew up in the old city, he was surrounded by all kinds of people, and he was accustomed to all kinds of bad things around him. Therefore, since he was a child, Li Tao has been very able to speak the Tao, and he also knows how to watch people cook, and after he has an idea of Zhang Na, he is accustomed to rhetoric. I hope that Zhang Na can look at him, so that she can soar in the future.
Because Zhang Na has taken good care of the people around her since she was a child, Zhang Na has never been in contact with someone like Li Tao. Li Tao's sudden appearance also made Zhang Na have a sense of freshness, with Li Tao's continuous approach and flattery, Zhang Na finally did not resist Li Tao's coaxing and talked about love with Li Tao.
When talking about love, Li Tao always said in Zhang Na's ear that her family conditions were difficult, and Zhang Na was also used to spending money and spending a lot of money from a young age, so she would always give Li Tao some living expenses or ordinary expenses. Li Tao always said no on his face, but in fact he quickly accepted.
Li Tao accepted Zhang Na's money, and even more coaxed Zhang Na to be happy. Zhang Na also never felt that there was anything wrong with this, and thought that her boyfriend was considerate of himself, and in the eyes of his boyfriend, he was always the best, and his heart could not stop being sweet.
Later, when talking about marriage, Li Tao proposed marriage to Zhang Na, and Zhang Na agreed without much thought.
Care of father-in-law and mother-in-law
After the two got married, Zhang Na's parents bought a marriage room for the two children, and everything was arranged smoothly. Qian Dingwan instructed Li Tao to treat his daughter well. Li Tao was promoted by his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and he was also very attentive to his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
By the time of the New Year, since both of them were local, it became a choice to go to whose house to go to for the New Year. Li Tao and Zhang Na discussed that the family would rotate for a year, and after Li Tao was promoted after marriage, he wanted to go to his father-in-law's mother-in-law's house to show himself well in the New Year. Zhang Na only proposed to go to her own home for the New Year when Li Tao understood that she had not returned home for a long time, and her heart suddenly felt particularly warm.
Zhang Na's parents' siblings also have business everywhere in the country, and they are really too far away to get together during the New Year. In the past few days of the New Year, there are only four people in the family, Zhang Na Li Tao and her father-in-law and mother-in-law. Zhang Na's mother watched her son-in-law come to the house as a warm reception, afraid that Li Tao would not be comfortable in her own home.
My mother-in-law also told Li Tao that when she got married, this is her own home, and when she came to the house, she relaxed and relaxed, and if she wanted anything she wanted, she would tell me that I would arrange it. After saying that, he smiled and went to make Chinese New Year's Eve meal for the two children, and his heart was really happy, he couldn't help but make a big table, and when he was done, he quickly beckoned the two children to sit down and celebrate the festival together.
After the end of the year, Zhang Na and Li Tao returned to their houses. Zhang Na asked Li Tao how he felt about the New Year at his home. Li Tao completely lost the happy look he had when he was at home, and said to Zhang Na with a look of indifference, "Isn't it right that I went to cook for me?" After getting married, I will entertain me well, and even if your parents have eyesight.
Zhang Na listened to Li Tao say this, and her heart was particularly angry. He had a big fight with Li Tao, and this matter was later fooled by Li Tao at will, and the two never mentioned it again.
Ask the wife to cook
When it came to the Next Year's New Year, Li Tao took Zhang Na to his home for the New Year. When she entered the door, her mother-in-law only glanced at it casually, without even a warm greeting.
On the first day of the Chinese New Year, people from home who came to pay homage to their in-laws for the New Year came to the door one after another. When it was time for dinner in the afternoon, Li Tao touched Zhang Na, who was sitting next to him. He said to Zhang Na, you see this big family of sixteen people, it is rare to have a New Year, my mother is not obliged to cook food for sixteen people. You hurry to the kitchen to cook, which is what you as a daughter-in-law should do, can my mother cook for you?
Zhang Na listened to Li Tao's commanding look on his toes. Just ask Li Tao, last year's New Year's Eve was also my mother's meal for you, how do you feel that it should be taken for granted? As a daughter-in-law, should I serve you as a big family? When it comes to your mouth, if I don't cook, I'm not filial piety, and my mother should cook for you. How can you behave so shamelessly.
Li Tao and Zhang Na's quarrels were all listened to in her mother-in-law's ears. The mother-in-law immediately gave Zhang Na a cold face and told Zhang Na to hurry up and cook, don't let everyone wait.
Zhang Na couldn't sit still on the sofa all of a sudden, carrying her bag and going out. No matter what kind of face the relatives sitting on the side are, when they go out, they say to Li Tao, I can see through what kind of person you are, don't pass this year, wait for a divorce, I really can't live with people like you.
Li Tao panicked in his heart, but Zhang Na's mind was already decided. After the divorce, Zhang Na and Li Tao completely broke off contact, and Li Tao got a benefit from Zhang Na and was all taken back.
No matter what life is, it is necessary to rely on two people working together to operate together, and there should be no intrigue between two people. Nor can one side always absorb the efforts of the other party and never work hard. Just thinking about living a leisurely life for yourself, eating and doing lazy.
The gap between rich and poor families may cause a variety of contradictions between two people in marriage, and even two families will think differently due to different living environments. Some people have such a bad mentality as Qiu Fu in their hearts, always poking and poking, hoping that their lives will be better than others, no matter what means are used.
Therefore, when choosing to get married, you must open your eyes to see if the person you are looking for really wants to be with yourself, not because of some external reasons, just simply like yourself, and want to run a future life with yourself.