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Watch "Afternoon with Margaret" to bring kindness and love, emotional companionship and spiritual support

author:Eighteen points of psychology

Movies often come from life, and the world of movies is often full of excitement. In the movie, we can see the breath of fireworks, and we can also feel the breath of life. Combined with their own embodiment, combined with their own experience, to understand a different life. The feeling reflected in the film is actually a kind of guidance of the emotional world.

Last night I saw a movie called "Afternoon with Margaret", this movie is actually intriguing, although plain, there is no big wave, but it reflects a kind of warmth and kindness, as well as the kind of love in the world. Shaz is a nearly illiterate 50-year-old man, while Margaret is a 95-year-old knowledgeable grandmother. On a sunny afternoon, they met. This kind of encounter is a kind of natural, without deliberate arrangement.

Watch "Afternoon with Margaret" to bring kindness and love, emotional companionship and spiritual support

When they met, the conversation began to be pigeons. Two people talk very happily, and they can feel the joy of life. When Margaret picked up a book called "The Plague" and read it aloud, Shaz's brain seemed to be planted, and he closed his eyes, transforming the contents of the book into pictures in his mind, and there was a sense of picture. Suddenly feel the joy of reading. Unconsciously, I finished reading the book "Plague". Shaz, he clearly felt a sense of unfinished business, and wanted to continue listening to Margaret's reading.

So Margaret continued to read the character autobiography books, in the character autobiography books, Shaz understood that life is different, everyone is unique, everyone has their own state of life, and he is no exception. When Margaret gave him a dictionary, he put it at home, ignored it at first, and then picked it up and flipped it through. After flipping through it, I went to look up some names, what they meant. But looking at the back, he suddenly became upset, because some words were explained differently than he thought, so he prepared to return them to Margaret.

Watch "Afternoon with Margaret" to bring kindness and love, emotional companionship and spiritual support

When he returned the dictionary to Margaret, Margaret did not blame him, but asked him to tell him about the state of life in childhood. Shaz's childhood was unhappy, and his mother's scolding and the teacher's ridicule brought him deep pain. Margaret then went on to read to Shaz, reading a book about the old man and the leopard. After listening to the last time, Shaz was eager to know what the next time would be. This is actually Margaret's cleverness, that is, to let herself go to the answer, when she wants to read the book, is the real reader.

Watch "Afternoon with Margaret" to bring kindness and love, emotional companionship and spiritual support

When Margaret is removed, Shaz's heart is lost because his spiritual pillar is gone. The deepest emotion between people is communication, generating emotions in communication, generating feelings in communication, so that it is good to feel that the other party is around. When he returned home, he saw that his mother had died, saw the relics left by his mother for himself, and suddenly felt that his mother loved him. The power of this emotion came to mind at once.

So Shaz went directly to find Margaret, and when she found Margaret in a noisy nursing home, still looking at books gracefully, this scene is also a kind of impact for Shaz, and for us viewers, it is even more a shock. A person can always maintain inner peace, and there are generally three things supporting it. Material, emotional and spiritual, material is the foundation, emotion is companionship, spirit is the pillar. When a person has a strong material foundation, enough emotional companionship, and then has a spiritual pillar of his own. Then this person will not be easily defeated.

Watch "Afternoon with Margaret" to bring kindness and love, emotional companionship and spiritual support

Reading books and not knowing what to bring? But after reading, that subtle temperament may come with it. The perspective and way of looking at the problem can also be improved. Reading books is a kind of purification of the soul, but also the cultivation of self-behavior, and it is also a requirement for the attitude of self-learning.

Everyone we meet has the potential to be our own Margaret, and if we can't find our own Margaret, maybe we can become someone else's Margaret. Emotions are the most beautiful and fragile thing of human beings, and may we cherish them.

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