The world as you see it

Have you ever met such a person who seems to be kind, but is actually a duplicitous person, but always flatters others. 

When you need help, say all the good things you want; when you don't need help, others gossip about you.

In this complex world, we have become no longer simple, for the sake of profit, for our own future, for promotion, we have become the most hated people in the place where the fish and dragons are mixed.

In fact, it is not impossible to always maintain kindness and maintain self, after all, things that harm others and benefit yourself, you seem to have helped yourself, but also harmed yourself.

So what kind of attitude should we maintain towards the world? 

1. Respect different opinions and seek common ground while reserving differences

Not necessarily our own point of view is correct, nor is other people's point of view necessarily wrong, we should be good at listening.

Find the advantages and feasibility from our own and others' points of view, after all, our ultimate goal is to make things better. 

2. Be kind and not judge others at will

There is no empathy in the world, you are not him, do not make any evaluation of his life, and do not imagine others with your own ideas.

If you can't empathize with other people's experiences and be helpful, the best way to help is to shut up. You say a word to me, the world is tens of millions of people, the voice of public opinion is enough to drown a person. 

3. Insist on doing yourself well

The real good is to insist on being good at all times and places, and always maintain your own attitude. Your thoughts, your three views, and the way you behave have nowhere to reflect yourself.

The life you want is not in the mouth of others, in every effort you make. Being better yourself is not the judgment of the world, it is the criterion for your continuous growth and improvement. 

4. Lifelong learning

Learning is endless, learning is old and living to old age. Read books, exercise, study, and practice your favorite interests every day.

When you make every progress, when you have more and more skills, when you continue to improve yourself, you will like yourself more and more. 

The world is changing, we are also changing, I hope we can start to be lucky, continue to work hard, continue to move forward, continue to grow, and become a better self. 

Dreams are not fantasies, let alone delusions, they are in every book I read, in every movement, in every effort. 

Quantitative change is the accumulation of qualitative change, and the better you are also the accumulation of continuous efforts every day.