"Shengmen" Tian Weidong: Late to get a son at the age of 48 to become a father for the first time, and then live happily?

"You can't tap it, you've all pinched the swollen", a pregnant woman of about thirty years old sitting on the hospital bed, her husband, who is nearly 20 years older than her, accompanied by her. Because the gestational week is already 39 years old, it may give birth at any time, helping the wife who is waiting to give birth in the hospital to pinch her feet, this man is obviously inexperienced, the force is a little too strong, and can only make the young wife murmur a few words.



This is the pregnant woman Tu Tian in the documentary "Birth Gate" (39 weeks pregnant, the fetal heart rate is uneven and admitted to the hospital). Her husband is Tian Weidong, a taxi driver with a hard-earned career. The ex-wife could not have children, the treatment was fruitless for many years, and there was a disagreement on the way to the son, resulting in emotional estrangement and divorce. Subsequently, married to Tu Tian, who was nearly 20 years younger, Lao Tian's wife became pregnant with a child when he was 48 years old, and this child was all Lao Tian's hope.

Before giving birth, because Lao Tian became a father for the first time, he was as anxious as those young fathers, worried about which doctor his wife operated on, and later learned that the best technical team had performed a caesarean section, and Lao Tian couldn't help but be happy.

After Lao Tian was busy, Tu Tian also told him to guard the child in the ward with his mother-in-law after the birth of the child, worried that the child would be held wrong, after all, this child is the hope of the Old Tian family, and it is indeed not easy to come by.

The next day when his wife was pushed into the operating room, Lao Tian, who was waiting outside the door, was obviously a little nervous, even more nervous than those young fathers. Others do not know the inside story, and think that he is waiting for his grandson or grandson, but in fact he is waiting for his late son. Lao Tian couldn't stop saying, "This is the biggest and biggest thing in my life." ”

Tu Tian's caesarean section went well and gave birth to a big fat boy. After the successful birth of the child, the most frequent sentence in Lao Tian's mouth was: "The Old Tian family has added a new member." He was busy announcing good news to relatives and villagers, with the emphasis on mentioning that it was a son. The mother-in-law's face was full of satisfaction and happiness, and she finally ushered in the incense of the Tian family in her lifetime. This also allowed the old man to walk confidently among the rural women.

The arrival of this child can be said to have fulfilled the dream of nearly half a hundred people in laotian. Think about the road you have come, it is so difficult, fortunately, with the birth of your son, you can raise your eyebrows. Continuing incense, for most of China's rural areas. It is still a very important existence, and even a lifetime of happiness has been pressed on this one thing.

What is touching is that Lao Tian talked to reporters about the pressure he endured when he did not have children before, the intentional or unintentional infuriating words of friends, the gossip and gossip in the shadows of the villagers, and the isolation and estrangement from his ex-wife... All kinds of tastes, all kinds of bitterness, the first half of my life has come this way. In the second half of my life, I hope to bring up my children well and live with my daughter-in-law.

After the documentary "Shengmen" was put on Lao Tian's home, he conscientiously and responsibly waited for his wife's confinement, and even personally arranged such a job as washing his feet. Although Lao Tian's father came a little late, or even a generation behind, this responsible spirit is not ambiguous at all. The audience dads in front of the TV, can one be so considerate?

Of course, there are also some trolls who are not convinced, and even feel that after this old age, there must be something he will suffer, and happiness will be fleeting. A few years later, the program team also conducted a return visit, so how is this old Tian family living?

Only to see a middle-aged man with a kind spirit, although his face is a little vicissitudes, but looking at this five- or six-year-old lively little boy in front of him, he is still overjoyed, and the little boy's smile is the greatest satisfaction in his opinion. This middle-aged man is Lao Tian, and the little boy in front of him is his late baby, and his wife Tu Tian. The wife Tu Tian is obviously much more fashionable and beautiful than the original pregnant period, which shows that the marriage brings her not the devastation of the years, but the careful care of a man. The little boy was also very well dressed and lively.

The most common thing the couple does in their daily routine is to take the baby to the nearby elementary school entrance to see through the fence to watch the elementary school students do exercises and kicks inside. Lao Tian's confidence is also very strong, because of these years of hard work, he has bought a nearby school district house for his son, and his son will also enter this primary school in the future.

It is a longing and a hope, and the days are moving forward in a rush.

Write at the back:

A few years have passed since this return visit, and now it is no accident that Lao Tian's son is already studying at this elementary school.

I didn't write this to advocate "having children later", but I really felt that Lao Tian and his daughter-in-law deserved to receive such happiness. Sincerely happy for their family.